“Marriage-material” may no longer be a compliment

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• Obaa Yaa Frimpomaa Anim 7 years ago

  Every woman should see herself as an individual who has choices to make and when to make that choices. By so doing will men know your true value.

  Every woman should see herself as an individual who has choices to make and when to make that choices. By so doing will men know your true value.

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• kululu 7 years ago

  why do women always talk about being abused or disrespected by men in marriage. Obviously, they never mention the treatment they met out to men to deserve such if that is the case. If two partners agree to share their life, t ...
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  why do women always talk about being abused or disrespected by men in marriage. Obviously, they never mention the treatment they met out to men to deserve such if that is the case. If two partners agree to share their life, there will always be some sort of cohesion in the form of misunderstanding and corrections to undo frictions, but women should not always take advantage to demonise men. Majority of underlying causes of friction in marriage comes from women wanting to dominate and enslave men. thank God, women have true freedom(by recourse to the law) from domination by men. So far,feminism is being used as tool to compete men. Time to come, marriage will become 'colo'. In fact, men are getting scared of women these days.To even propose to a woman is scary because u never know her next move, whether he is going to cause your arrest for harassment. feminism has its credit but when it is seen as means to show men where power lies, then it becomes a war. it is this pride of feminism which is breeding gays n homos.

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• Ay3ka 7 years ago

  Except to point out that 'fags', purposely choose that 'strange' lifestyle!
  on the subject matter under discussion, I believe this woman is ticked off from loosing out to somebody else. But, can you blame guys who want to do ...
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  Except to point out that 'fags', purposely choose that 'strange' lifestyle!
  on the subject matter under discussion, I believe this woman is ticked off from loosing out to somebody else. But, can you blame guys who want to dot the 'i', and cross the 't', lest they are taken to the cleaners!
  In many cases, the 'honeymoon' may even be over, before you realize what you've gotten yourself into.
  And these days, who do you complain to; the mother-in-law, who may have cunningly orchestrated your demise in the first place?
  In today's conflict resolution 'architecture', fathers and family-heads are out; while 'Men-of-God' and Church Elders, who may have designs of their own on your spouse, are in!

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• ? 7 years ago

  Women are their own enemies. Most women think without making themselves an "object of sex", they can't attract men resulting in most of them being naked in the street, on our campuses, offices and elsewhere. Can those ones to ...
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  Women are their own enemies. Most women think without making themselves an "object of sex", they can't attract men resulting in most of them being naked in the street, on our campuses, offices and elsewhere. Can those ones too be seen as good women for marriage? Take a critical look at all the entertainment materials all over the world, 90% of such materials contain either semi nude or nude women. Is it the fault of men? How you market yourself, so shall you be bought. Stop the hypocrisy and make a life. Who cares what you whether you're a marriage material or not? Some women can not be married because they can't make the union of marriage work no matter how tolerant the man may be. I know a woman that has man three times without even getting a divorce from any of her previous marriages. I don't mean a traditional marriage, I mean a marriage under ordinance. Can such a woman be a good wife? Would you allow your brother or son to marry such a woman? The men the marry her because she is rich or we'll made, she marries them because their rich and very successful. Can you call such a criminal a good woman that needs to live her life the way she chooses. Examine yourselves as woman before you start playing the victim because we're tired of your nagging. God bless our souls.

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• Sam 7 years ago

  Well said.
  Too many of women complain complain.
  It's always a man's fault.
  Were such women brought up in a dad and mum envoirement or from a broken home.
  A bit of schooling and they think they know it all.
  Let them rema ...
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  Well said.
  Too many of women complain complain.
  It's always a man's fault.
  Were such women brought up in a dad and mum envoirement or from a broken home.
  A bit of schooling and they think they know it all.
  Let them remain single for the rest of their lives.it's best

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• Wofa Yaw 7 years ago

  SOMETIMES, WOMEN ARE THEIR WORSE ENEMIES. IN MY ADVANCED AGE OF 54, I PICKED A 30 YRS OLD NURSE FOR MARRIAGE.
  WE DATED FOR 100 DAYS, HAD PLANS FOR WEDDIND AND BROKE OFF. THE LADY DOES NOT COOK FOR ME NEITHER DOES SHE WASH M ...
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  SOMETIMES, WOMEN ARE THEIR WORSE ENEMIES. IN MY ADVANCED AGE OF 54, I PICKED A 30 YRS OLD NURSE FOR MARRIAGE.
  WE DATED FOR 100 DAYS, HAD PLANS FOR WEDDIND AND BROKE OFF. THE LADY DOES NOT COOK FOR ME NEITHER DOES SHE WASH MY CLOTHES (SHE IS Neither a WASHER WOMAN NOR A COOK). She eats from a restaurant at my expense for 2 and half months April 14 to June 21 2015. One day, I asked her why she doesn't cook. she told me she took a loan of GHS 8,000 From Bayport and deposited it at DKM and without collecting a dime, DKM closes and she has to pay GHS 521 monthly for the next 45 months.
  I HAD COMPASSION ON HER AND DECIDED TO HELP HER BY LOANING HER SOME MONEY TO SET OFF THE BAYPORT LOAN SO AS TO PICK IT FOR ME AT A LOWER RATE FROM HER BANK. SHE AGREED AND I HANDED HER GHS 8,500 on 9th June and on 10th June the elder sister took her to Nkoranza to see a jujuman so as to let her collect money from men. (not from me any way). We went ahead to offset the Bayport debt of Ghs 10,040 on the 11th June with a promise of return of her 2 months dedections eg. June and July. By 20th June, I was confronted with a pregnancy with a hurriedly test conducted on herself by herself and a demand of GHS 400 for abortion because she doesn't want the mother to notice it (the parents are not in town. they are on their Ahafo cocoa farms and just visit and go). I knew well it was lie because we had sex on 21 May. She could have detected a pregnancy earlier and foolishly enough she allowed us to have sex with her on that 20th June. She was only getting ready for her menses so I gave her Ghs 440 on 26th. She bought a new funeral cloth and I took her to a funeral on 27th June. She didn't buy any medicine for the abortion and will do it on Monday 29th. I stopped visiting her so she called me on 3rd July that she was bleeding so I rushed in to send her to the hospital but to my surprise, I was rather given a BIG F++k.... I was waiting for th return of my money but nothing came until 13 July I recieved her call for an urgent meeting at my place.... I picked her and after another bout of sex, she wanted GHS 7,000 for a shop. I told in plain language I do not have such amount knowing well my sister was in the morgue an I being the Family head. I informed her of another tragedy: I lost my stepmother on 18th July. She asked me to come and pick her on 20th July so that she will visit me. We live in the same surburb. I did not go for her and she decided not to have anything doing with me that she is not deperate for a husband so I could go and look for that deperate woman.
  As for my money, she will give only half of it. I went and burry my deads on 28th August and came back but she told me she got the form and the bank willonly give her ghs 5,000 but there is noone to endorse her the form. I reported her to her elder sister but she defended her so I took the case to their Church Elder and she promised to pay by mid-December but failed. I drag them to the Head Pastor and she was asked to refund the money but they ran away from the Apostolic Church.
  Now, there is a big family issue because the juju failed and the elder sister rather collects all her money. I saw the mother last week and she said she was going to tell her husband so that we sit down and thrash issues out.
  Sister, tell me how to trust this new to-be- wife.

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• Papa Morgan USA 7 years ago

  I love this lady. She's pretty

  I love this lady. She's pretty

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• Honest Thruth 7 years ago

  90% of our modern men and women will use you to get what they want, If you have the chance to do same,. DO IT Forget the old stuff our parents went through. Our new world is infested with fake bitches and gigolos that will br ...
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  90% of our modern men and women will use you to get what they want, If you have the chance to do same,. DO IT Forget the old stuff our parents went through. Our new world is infested with fake bitches and gigolos that will break your heart if you're not careful. Get to know them for a long time before you even have sex. You can always have or buy sex on the streets. Marriage is not a passing through thing
  Thread carefully or you might end up hanging yourself because you thought you had the real deal.The truth hurts but must be told.

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• Adwoa 7 years ago

  I so love your articles!u just hit the nail right on the head, the traditional prototyping should now be a thing of the past because they've outlived their usefulness in our modern era!

  I so love your articles!u just hit the nail right on the head, the traditional prototyping should now be a thing of the past because they've outlived their usefulness in our modern era!

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• Obuobi Ofei 7 years ago

  Bravo! This goes for Women's Lib. When you have a good career and can be independent then you can talk like this.
  
  Personally I like the assertive woman

  Bravo! This goes for Women's Lib. When you have a good career and can be independent then you can talk like this.
  
  Personally I like the assertive woman

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