i understand that the most painful torture that one who will discipline himself should have is a mental one.
My mother became the only breadwinner for the family when I was 13 years old.
She once gave me a heavy knock on t ... read full comment
i understand that the most painful torture that one who will discipline himself should have is a mental one.
My mother became the only breadwinner for the family when I was 13 years old.
She once gave me a heavy knock on the head once. That was my last and first physical punishment.
When we relocated to Accra in 1957 my mother use to sell agbelikaklo, smoked fish and later fresh fish from the Akosombo Dam.
My advice to me was that toto me kpor avese dzodzo be ya dzowo. In short a bird with short wings does not imitate the fly of a bird with long wings.
Whenever something happen to you as a result of your waywardness there is no one to assist me in begging on your behalf.
I am one who does not fear kane, but insults and advice get deep into my mind, so I don't do anything that will hurt my mother.
I never had friends and due to that I don't join bad companies.
So to me psychological punishment is the best for every child.
The Spear 1 month ago
"So to me psychological punishment is the best for every child."
First best nonsense of the day! How about being very understanding, a good advisor, a good mentor, a teacher and a good parent?
I took over 10 kids having ... read full comment
"So to me psychological punishment is the best for every child."
First best nonsense of the day! How about being very understanding, a good advisor, a good mentor, a teacher and a good parent?
I took over 10 kids having no family relationship with me, the smallest one being 8 years at the time. They hailed from different families. I gave them love, I was firm, I was fair, I taught them to work hard, to be responsible, to be competitive, to love God...
As I speak, two are Ministers in their government, two are tech guys, doctors...
Managing a person isn't like any other, but it's a matter of passion, challenge and objectivity. You don't have to inflict pain to teach. Let kids understand, show love every second and let them see through your efforts!
Pelicles 1 month ago
Yes, I like your comment. We should let children understand their surroundings.
Yes, I like your comment. We should let children understand their surroundings.
TRUTH 1 month ago
Where you pick up these nice, nice ideas are the same places making technology and heavy weapons to kill, destroy, maim and eliminate people who have different opinions to them.
All the statistics should children have wors ... read full comment
Where you pick up these nice, nice ideas are the same places making technology and heavy weapons to kill, destroy, maim and eliminate people who have different opinions to them.
All the statistics should children have worse outcome in care and foster homes than in their family homes.
Children don't come with manuals and what will fix one child would not work with other.
This fine print from you is surely not the real world.
All children need love, care but discipline.
Tell me why the same West love torture weapons.
TRUTH 1 month ago
All the statistics show children have worse outcome...
All the statistics show children have worse outcome...
TRUTH 1 month ago
I don't really believe your lies, but you stated you had 10 kids.
2 became probably corrupt politicians.
2 tech guys?
Did all the remaining 5 became doctors?
You see my mum taught me well so people like you don't ... read full comment
I don't really believe your lies, but you stated you had 10 kids.
2 became probably corrupt politicians.
2 tech guys?
Did all the remaining 5 became doctors?
You see my mum taught me well so people like you don't get away with cheap comments.
You make out parenting to be easy and fun and only undermine many parents efforts to bring up responsible children.
TRUTH 1 month ago
@Kwame.. no mother would want to hurt their child. Even when they disciplined, they did that kindly.
You don't carry a child for 9 months to want to see them die especially when the liberals believe you should abort the sa ... read full comment
@Kwame.. no mother would want to hurt their child. Even when they disciplined, they did that kindly.
You don't carry a child for 9 months to want to see them die especially when the liberals believe you should abort the same child if you can magically predict unforeseen difficulties.
Some of us were lucky to have special mums who knew what was right and never took lectures from these latter days liberal nonsense.
A hen steps on their chicks sometimes, but they don't kill them.
Of course, I am surely not advocating for the extremes and there are extremes in everything.
Chai!!! 1 month ago
There is no punishment without some torture or abuse.
Otherwise, tell God to provide mansions in hell too.
Then tell Ghana government to build estates for prisoners inside the prison walls.
That is why it is written that t ... read full comment
There is no punishment without some torture or abuse.
Otherwise, tell God to provide mansions in hell too.
Then tell Ghana government to build estates for prisoners inside the prison walls.
That is why it is written that the wages of sin is death.
In fact, the magnitude of the torture or abuse just matches the magnitude of the wickedness that prompted the act.
Stay away from evil.
Chai!!! 1 month ago
If you are lucky no to die, you will carry some memento to remind you forever.
If you are lucky no to die, you will carry some memento to remind you forever.
i understand that the most painful torture that one who will discipline himself should have is a mental one.
My mother became the only breadwinner for the family when I was 13 years old.
She once gave me a heavy knock on t ...
read full comment
"So to me psychological punishment is the best for every child."
First best nonsense of the day! How about being very understanding, a good advisor, a good mentor, a teacher and a good parent?
I took over 10 kids having ...
read full comment
Yes, I like your comment. We should let children understand their surroundings.
Where you pick up these nice, nice ideas are the same places making technology and heavy weapons to kill, destroy, maim and eliminate people who have different opinions to them.
All the statistics should children have wors ...
read full comment
All the statistics show children have worse outcome...
I don't really believe your lies, but you stated you had 10 kids.
2 became probably corrupt politicians.
2 tech guys?
Did all the remaining 5 became doctors?
You see my mum taught me well so people like you don't ...
read full comment
@Kwame.. no mother would want to hurt their child. Even when they disciplined, they did that kindly.
You don't carry a child for 9 months to want to see them die especially when the liberals believe you should abort the sa ...
read full comment
There is no punishment without some torture or abuse.
Otherwise, tell God to provide mansions in hell too.
Then tell Ghana government to build estates for prisoners inside the prison walls.
That is why it is written that t ...
read full comment
If you are lucky no to die, you will carry some memento to remind you forever.