Dear GhanaWeb: My husband prefers to use his sister as next of kin

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  • Truth Table 1 month ago

    Turn to Him.
    Turn to Jesus.
    He will grant you eternal life.
    ...........
    Romans 10:9

  • Abaqua 1 month ago

    Write your comment; Your husband is being used or charmed by her evil sister. ls only your fervent prayer which can turn it back. ur husbi dont know what`s happening da. never sieze praying in the night at 11°30pm n 11°30am ...
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  • Abaqua 1 month ago

    Write your comment; Our lord God the almighty is still at post.give not urself to any pastor.pray to our maker as l say n lord will abide with you n ur children l pray amen.

  • Truth alone 1 month ago

    Try and save to do something for yourself and stop borrowing money for him all in the name of loan that he doesn't pay back. Wise up. When something is to bought for home double the money so even when he gives you half it cov ...
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  • YOOO 1 month ago

    100%

  • kulbogo 1 month ago

    my dear sister, I understand Ur pain and I don't know why Ur husband is doing that to you, we men even if we don't trust our wife's but we trust our kid's and therefore they were supposed to be made his next of kin, trust me ...
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  • Lady save your cash be wise 1 month ago

    Be wise, African men and African mentality

  • YOOO 1 month ago

    Madam, stop loaning him money, quit the marriage and take him to dovvsu, he will be asked to pay the children's school fees and rent if you guys have not built your own house yet. I pray you have not because he will put his s ...
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  • Agya Koo 1 month ago

    Next of kin" refers to a person's closest living relative, typically a spouse, child, parent, or sibling, used mainly as a contact for emergencies or to identify who might inherit if there's no will, though it holds little au ...
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  • A 1 month ago

    My Dear Sister, please open your eyes and be wise. Stop loaning him money and save for yourself and your children. He will NEVER support you financially if you are in need. I have been in a similar situation and it is just ...
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  • RBG_Gaza 1 month ago

    Be wise ooo my sister,he dey chop your money and all in name of loan and love....
    Wise up my sis before it reach a point were you can not afford your panties...

  • It's his choice, so respect it 1 month ago

    He knows best why he's doing that. Try to also independently save some money. Thinking of his death this early in the marriage shows you don't even love him and he must be careful

  • the evil of few affects the many 1 month ago

    Your husband has been caught in the cycle of the evil of a few affecting the many.

    Due to the bad deeds of a few pupil or should I say married women, he is just making sure that he limits his pain.

    Try to leave you li ...
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  • Nana 1 month ago

    Start creating a financial safety net for yourself and the children; and the next time he needs a loan, let him take it from his sister. A man who clearly shows he does not trust you cannot be trusted either. All the best....

  • El 1 month ago

    My sis you can tell who will die first. You can die before your husband. Just save and do a project

  • El 1 month ago

    Eljust now
    My sis you cannot tell who will die first. You can die before your husband. Just save and do a project

  • Asemsebe 4 weeks ago

    Easy to handle. Start serious savings for you and the kids. Unless he's using his money to build a house or any development for the family's future, never loan him any money again