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KKD “rape” saga: Stop when she says stop, else it’s rape - Lawyer

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  • ROMANO 9 years ago

    WHY SO MUCH RAPE IN GHANA? JUST ASKING.

  • TUOZZAFI 9 years ago

    PURE NONSENSE.....EVEN CARS CANNOT STOP IN THE MIDDLE OF CROSSING A RED LIGHT. BODY NO NE FIREWOOD....HA HA HA

  • OLD SOLDIER 9 years ago

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    Ivor Greenstreet said directly to President John Mahama and Vice President Kwesi Amissah-Arthur that: “You don’t care”.

    “Nobody is feeling your better Ghana”, Greenstreet ...
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  • GH 9 years ago

    NONSENSE LAW

  • PEPE 9 years ago

    Lawyer Adjabeng is right but let me play a devil advocate here.

    Isn't sex between two consenting adults a form of contract to do something?

    If it is, how can one abrogate the contract in the middle of the other one fulf ...
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  • Mabel Kabu 9 years ago

    Pepe, what is the difference between an AGREEMENT and a CONTRACT? unfortunately, The onus is on the male during the act and must listen to what the female says. It is also about managing 'limit liability and damages' e.g unre ...
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  • Opanin Kwaku 9 years ago

    Foolsih man. A car is not a human and has no brain. It is driven and controlled by man and should be maintained by man to get a pass MOT to be on the road/street. Once on road it is the duty/responsibility of the driver to co ...
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  • Oh bookshop kingkong 9 years ago

    What happens then when a man withdraws his consent in the middle of a sexual act ???

  • Smart Smith 9 years ago

    Many a time a man reaches his orgasm before that of the woman.Can we take it from now onwards as rape when the man wants to pull out but the woman holds you and insist you continue till she also reaches her orgasm?So many men ...
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  • Allotey 9 years ago

    Real men don't rape

  • GH 9 years ago

    WE WILL LEAVE YOU ALONE TO DIE SINGLES

  • Mojo 9 years ago

    This is what he wrote on Facebook
    'Safe and sound. Alive and well.
    Thanks for all the comments, the good, the bad and the ugly. I am grateful and humbled.
    Embracing my blessings every waking moment.
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  • SARPONG 9 years ago

    Lawyer Adjabeng is right but let me play a devil advocate here.

    Isn't sex between two consenting adults a form of contract to do something?

    If it is, how can one abrogate the contract in the middle of the other one fulf ...
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  • Yesu 9 years ago

    Sarp, you are really funny but you got a point. Why should the woman be theonly one to decide after aagreeing in the first place.

  • Joe Moore 9 years ago

    she has the right to cancelled the agreement if she later think that agreement is going against her will. both of them have that right.

  • CORNEY 9 years ago

    Sarpong,as you stated here he is right but I don't think it is stated in the laws of Ghana as they have it here,he is just saying what is practiced here but even that he should know that he says,she says without much evidence ...
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  • Boateng 9 years ago

    Yep, but Kobe was damaged, it caused him a lot in contracs and endorsements, and he still had to settle. The criminal case was thrown out but he still had to pay the girl for civil liability.

    With the other girl, remembe ...
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  • CORNEY 9 years ago

    The issue I'm raising is not about civil case but the criminal case,in a civil case once there was encounter between the two you don't need to prove it beyond reasonable doubt that was why Kobe settled the civil case out of c ...
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  • Mensah 9 years ago

    Was it a past record of prostitution or what? DSK got away with crime because of his money, and because the lady wasn't American

  • CORNEY 9 years ago

    Stop saying what you don't know and do your own research to know why they dropped the case?
    The lady is not American,is the man American,why was he arrested in the first place if it was about his money or because the accuser ...
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  • Boateng 9 years ago

    Well Sarpong, that is where the law is screwed and favors the woman.

    You have a great argument. The law must consider that an agreement is an agreement and if there should be a disagreement thereafter, it must go to arbi ...
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  • Ruth 9 years ago

    If there is an a contract the terms of the contract must be understood by both parties before each signs it. If there was such an agreement,I doubt if the act would have occurred in a bathroom.

  • NOBODY 9 years ago

    There's nothing contractual about consensual sex, as long as it does not involve payment. The two persons can agree to have sex, and either person can decide to terminate the act. If the other person persists after the one ha ...
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  • NY 9 years ago

    So my question is What happen if a man tells a woman to stop and the woman doesnot stop is that a rape or what.

  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    HI NY,
    THE LAW ON RAPE DOES NOT CONSIDER THE ANATOMY OF A MALE AND HOW IT FUNCTIONS. LOOK AT MY OTHER POSTS AND YOU WILL SEE WHAT IA HAVE POSTED. IT IS A DANGEROUS THING BUT THAT IS THE LAW, LIKE IT OR NOT. WHEN THESE THINGS ...
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  • Tutugyagu 9 years ago

    Too funny my bro

  • Assem 9 years ago

    Hello Sarpong,
    The law on rape issues does not consider men period. Men actually deserve it because they were hoodwinked into passing such laws by feminists.
    Men in high places thought it can never happen to them and they w ...
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  • SARPONG 9 years ago

    Isn't the law an ass? Every sexual encounter is a potential rape in waiting for the man.

    I can usually tell you with at least 95% certainty when a rape charge is true but I find this particular case hard to believe there w ...
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  • biko 9 years ago

    Books that our experts are trained with are not written by us. They sometimes imbibe very foolish arguments from foreign lands to confuse us.

  • GAbaa 9 years ago

    Sarpong, you just answered yourself, between two matured consenting adults who have agreed to fuck each other, excuse mu language here, In this case we have someone with POWER, talking to another juvinile

  • SARPONG 9 years ago

    Did you look up the definition of a juvenile? 19 years is not juvenile anywhere in the world especially in Ghana where the age of consent for sex is 16 years old. The 19 year old is an adult here.

  • Ipad 9 years ago

    Sarong please stop being an idiot.
    The girl in question asserts she did not give consent - period.
    Stop being an arse hole. If she was your daughter, sister or girl friend you won't be saying all these stupid things.
    Pleas ...
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  • SARPONG 9 years ago

    You stupid moron, I pray that somebody in future accuse you falsely of raping her and then you worthless dog worth less than your mother's used tampon will know the difference between real rape and false rape.

  • Fiifi 9 years ago

    I was having sex with this woman for about ten minutes and both of us were enjoying the sex and about to climax. The lady was moaning and saying all crazy things and she said ' oh pleaseeee stop like in moaning estacy.

    Kn ...
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  • AGYAAKU 9 years ago

    The lawyer is making things more difficult for him. If he does not change him it will be very disastrous for him. The lawyer is all over Radio stations giving out facts that ought to be reserved for court. The man is just mis ...
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  • akura 9 years ago

    Kkd raped me in Ghana when I was 16.

  • Affordable 9 years ago

    You could be a good comic writer, think about that. However, what is the take for a man in the same circumstance? Don't you know men are equally raped? I was raped once in Cairo when I was in physical pain and could barely mo ...
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  • sena kojo 9 years ago

    I once reported a rape case against a lady. the police officer asked me if i thought they don't know what to write in their books? He told me to count myself lucky and go to bed, ain't that discriminatory ???

  • Kofi 9 years ago

    Because our "Dipstick Politicians" simply copied whatever Law Britain and America had already written to suit them.They never for one "nano second" thought about our own attitudes to certain things.Mind you,I do not condone r ...
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  • kabokabo 9 years ago

    If you are inside of her and she says stop you must stop!!!!Sex police?

  • Kwame Dokyi 9 years ago

    I think it was painful and she said STOP!Holding it puts untold pressure on the testis! It is very painful!!

  • Boateng 9 years ago

    You are funny but that is the true speaking! You can suffer stroke or heart attack, maybe. How can you hold back at point of no return?

  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    HI KABOKABO AND BOATENG,
    IT IS INTERESTING HOW WE ALL THINK ABOUT RAPE.
    WE SHOULD ALWAYS LOOK AT THE MEANING OF RAPE FROM THE LEGAL POINT OF VIEW. TECHNICALLY IT MEANS IF A MALE PERFORMS SEXUAL ACTIVITY NOT NECESSARILY INT ...
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  • kkf 9 years ago

    Excellent. This is the type of education we need. KKD could not stop and therefore must face the law. Bathroom sex - SHAME

  • CORNEY 9 years ago

    Is it a shame to have sex in the bathroom,where is it written that this is the only place one can have sex?

    I believe you are one of the people who believe it is only in the night that one can have sex as happens in our pr ...
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  • KOFI 9 years ago

    Eeii Mr. lawyer.if consent is considered as a form of agreement then the man can sue the woman for abrogating the contract in the middle of the act.

  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    HI KOFI,
    I HAVE SENSITISED MEN IN PARTICULAR ON THIS ISSUE IN ALL MY PREVIOUS POSTS BUT IT SEEMS MEN CANNOT SIMPLY UNDERSTAND THE POSITION OF THE LAW.
    THE LAW DOES NOT CONSIDER THE ANATOMY OF THE MAN AND AND ITS MECHANISM. ...
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  • Nana New York 9 years ago

    You are right, KKD must also go to court.

  • kudjo 9 years ago

    This lady enjoyed every bit of it, after she wanted money and kkd refused, hence the report, effe or what ever your name is, i hope he use a condom or he did not like what kufuor and Anane did

  • Albert 9 years ago

    That is not fair on men. by this definition of rape I bet every single man on the planet is a culprit. We know for a fact that not even a bicycle can stop abruptly by responding to a "STOP" L et the scholars pull their sleeve ...
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  • Kofi Selly 9 years ago

    I can't help but laugh at the comments Equating sex to objects such as bicycles and cars, are absolutely banana's.

  • HOLY SINNER 9 years ago

    Immediately i saw the so claimed raped victim the first thing that i noticed was real EVIL in her eyes.This is a girl who is bent on spitting venom to destroy(jezebel)
    I am not saying there are no victims of rape but the Gha ...
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  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    HI HOLY SINNER,
    FATHERS FOR JUSTICE PROTESTATIONS IS GOING NO WHERE. THE POLITICIANS JUST PAY LIP SERVICE TO THEM AND LEAVE IT AT THAT.
    THE MILITANT FEMINISTS HAVE WON THIS ONE. IT IS UNTIL THE HEAVY BLOW IS IMPLANTED INTO ...
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  • Kwesi 9 years ago

    Why is everyone so worked-up? Is it because it's KKD? Rape happens to our women all the time and no one blinks about it. Now everyone is trying to believe the god KKD is being framed. The truth must be told, regardless of who ...
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  • Haile Mengistus Manasseh V11 9 years ago

    Would the press and people stop their commentaries while this case is before court? What is wrong here in Ghana?

  • Hurricane 9 years ago

    KKD no try koraaaa. Forced entry battery aka rape on a 19 year old why? ehhh, why?
    It's not, not, not... Such a growie with his pants on fire needs appropriate extinguisher in his home, on his matrimonial bed or on the bed i ...
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  • Chairman 9 years ago

    Human beings are the Judges and they are both men and women. Most of them married or in serious relationship few of them never at all.The argument is " I STOPPED and the other side is you did not STOP.SO THE RATIONAL judge an ...
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  • KK 9 years ago

    Nonsense, how do you prove she said stop? How is the court going to prove she said stop? Has the court considered women who wanted to prey on men? After getting the men to some level, you think it is easy for him to stop? If ...
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  • Don11 9 years ago

    Kwaw Kese out KKD in

  • Sadia 9 years ago

    They need more sex toys. No man should screw them. Those who want babies must pay for the sperm.

    Too much nonsense going on in the world now. Ghana is doomed if we keep treading this way.

    Why not allow gayism in Ghana ...
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  • Yeah 9 years ago

    If we are to go by what this learned person is saying then all females who are not virgins had one way or the other been raped. Females will start trooping to the police stations to lodge complaints about rape after they have ...
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  • GABBY 9 years ago

    This is nonsense. Why should I remove my dick when I am half wat through?

  • obi milton keynes 9 years ago

    stop means stop and this goes to many men when they assert when a woman say stop even when one finger is already inside her you have to stop. or it becomes rape.

  • Esi 9 years ago

    i was only ten when my teacher rape me and my mother said the family image will be destroyed and i would not get a husband if we report it to the police. today my rapist is a politician and a big man.

  • Good Samaritan 9 years ago

    Even though it in itself does not suggest consent, I too am baffled by the fact that this girl went upstairs with two cousins, and entered the bathroom while they waited for her. While she was being assaulted in the bathroom ...
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  • Good Samaritan 9 years ago

    What a nonsense article. Why would a lady allow a man to penetrate her and fuck her in and out for some time and then she tells the man to withdraw? Some women when they get to the height of sexual arousal say that without ac ...
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  • YAW BRONX 9 years ago

    AGYEMANG OR WHATEVER YOU CALL YOURSELF YOU ARE A VERY FOOLISH MAN CAN YOU PULL OUT WHEN YOU ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF SEX? BE REALISTIC AND STOP.

  • ACCRAMAN 9 years ago

    The only reason why the young lady cried rape was because KKD fucked her in the ass and she did not give permission. If he fucked her in the vagina there will be no case. She knew she was going to get fucked in the vagina whe ...
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  • Kay Eghan 9 years ago

    Please Lawyer explain a situation where a lady will tell you to stop while holding you tight on top of her.Do men also have the right to report rape against women? Maybe Mr KKD was told to stop but it was too late to do so a ...
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  • JB Mann 9 years ago

    A female teacher who forced a teenager to have sex with her was sentenced.

    To you question: if a man can prove that he was forced to have sex with a woman, he has every right to report. We do nto have separate law for wome ...
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  • NTAWA MOSHI 9 years ago

    A driver was arrested and charged with raping a woman at a rest stop area.There were three witnesses who witnessed the incident.

    Whilst in the courtroom,the Judge admonished them he was not going to tolerate any use of ...
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  • EFUA K Hamburg 9 years ago

    DREAMLOVER I WILL WAIT FOR U TILL U COME OUT.PROMISE ME U DONT USE KIDDYS TO TANISH YOUR IMAGE.U ARE RIPE ENOUGH TO RAPE RIPE PAWPAW LIKE MY TYPE.

  • Kwasi Mintim 9 years ago

    The other day I was giving this girl with very big tighs a blow-job.

    Suddenly she started squeezing her thighs around my neck like a boa constrictor.

    I asked her to stop but she wouldn't listen. At a point I thought I w ...
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  • Anaconda 9 years ago

    No Kwasi, this was no rape it was attempted murder! She was strangling you to death just like an anaconda will do. Please there might not a next time for you so don't even try it again because you might not survive to tell yo ...
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  • Dan Duruwah 9 years ago

    Oh yes, Kwesi, you were a victim of rape. You can go to the Police even today and report her. But being a man, be prepared to the laughed at by the police. The police will think you may be kidding. Being Ghana men they would ...
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  • prince 9 years ago

    Our parents didn't have to go through this nonsense. How can you stop in the middle of it all. We shouldn't allow the White man's stupid laws to confuse us. I don't condone with rape but all this withdrawal of consent at any ...
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  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    PRINCE,
    I AM POSTING THIS AGAIN.
    THE POSITION OF THE LAW IS THAT TECHNICALLY IF A FEMALE FEELS SHE HAS BEEN VIOLATED SEXUALLY WHICH IS NOT ONLY THROUGH PENETRATION BUT FROM OTHER SEXUAL ACTIVITIES, THEN IT IS RAPE UNTIL THE ...
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  • KOFI 9 years ago

    Judgement!!!
    1 years for having sex in a hotel washroom; which means you counter-cross to female washroom which is a taboo for a man to use female washroom.

    5 years for force entry; because force entry comes with pain sin ...
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  • Kwame Safo 9 years ago

    What about misinterpretation, for example "don't stop" could be taken to mean either that or "don't." "stop" In the heat of the moment which would you hear or think that you hear???

  • zimbonash 9 years ago

    looking at the interpretation of the law as it explains that during sexual intercourse with a woman,she has the right to say no..hmmmm but if that is really the case then 99% of the men in are rapist

  • The mask 9 years ago

    Who was the judge?? Judging by the media attention it has received this is obviously a high profile case. A state attorney must prosecute this case.

  • Joe Turkey 9 years ago

    Most women will disagree. I had at least two women in the past who said they enjoyed it more when they were forced, that is after all the "stop it", "stop it". I am not suggesting men should even continue after the first "sto ...
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  • STUPID UNDERSTANDING 9 years ago

    THEY DONT EVEN KNOW THE ACTUALLY MEANING OF RAPE.RAPE IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE TAKEN AS ALITERAL PENETRATION WHERE BY BY AFTER THE WOMAN AGREE AND CHOSE TO REVOKE AT ANY TIME AND IT WILL AMOUNT TO RAPE.STUPID .IF OUR HAVE ANY WI ...
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  • Rich 9 years ago

    The moral decency in Ghana is drastically dropping

  • Ipad 9 years ago

    Can you all please stop all this nonsense and go back to basics.
    The young lady in question says she did not give consent.
    So the prosecution has to state the case to show the things she did or did not do or say before and ...
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  • Kbee 9 years ago

    Kissi Agyabeng u and ur law are stupid. I am sure u ve never had sex b4. How can a woman withdraw a consent when u are on 4th gear. That should amount to voilation of the right to sex estacy. You lawyers are the problems of g ...
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  • usta 9 years ago

    This is a bogus law and amounts to a breach of contract

  • Nana Yaw 9 years ago

    I would like the lawyer to educate us by letting us know how a court will be able to determine at which point the woman said stop if it was only the two parties making love were there in their room having sex.. is there any w ...
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  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    IT DEPENDS ON THE JUDGE. TIME CAN BE OF ESSENCE. SOMETIMES THE WOMAN CANNOT KNOW THE TIMELINE OR GIVE CONFLICTING TIMES.
    ACTIVITIES AFTER THE SEXUAL VIOLATION.
    ACTIVITIES BEFORE THE SEXUAL VIOLATION.
    THE CHARACTER OF THE F ...
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  • tumbor 9 years ago

    ASSEM. I gather that you were trying to give useful information but the presentation is rather confusing. Can you present your points again?

  • k the h 9 years ago

    What if the woman willingly follows the man to the bedroom? The law must be reviewed and amended

  • ASSEM 9 years ago

    UNTIL THEN I WILL ADVISE ALL MALES TO BE CAREFUL. THE LAW IS WHAT IT IS. SHE CAN PURSUE YOU FROM ADAM TO EVE. IT YOU VIOLATE HER SEXUALLY MEANING IF SHE FEELS TO BE SEXUALLY VIOLATED, THE MALE IS TOAST.
    PLEASE THE SPIRIT OF ...
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  • obama 9 years ago

    what are you saying....are u not a man...have u ever had sex with a girl for the first time. how does she behave....no girl has ever accepted first time sex and if you are not wise, this modern ghana girls will shop your mone ...
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  • Tampiri 9 years ago

    A 19 year old girl following a 49 year old man to a hotel. What did she expect to happen apart from sex.

  • Yaw Katinka 9 years ago

    I lost all respect for KKD after hearing this. To be me, if the laws in Ghana gonna work, this man is in a big trouble! Come on! At least a get a room in the hotel, not in a washroom.It was still gonna be rape, but with respe ...
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  • Oh bookshop kingkong 9 years ago

    Tell me more my brother.
    What about when a man withdraws his consent in the middle of the act especially during a woman's orgasm ?
    It is all this stupidity and nonsense that some men prefer to be gay.
    Hi mos don't play mi ...
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  • Oh bookshop kingkong 9 years ago

    Soon they will tell us when a man changes hid mind and and also withdraws his consent he can be charged of 'attempted murder' of a potential baby a woman desirably wants.
    Nonsense and stupidity at the highest degree. Your i ...
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  • obama 9 years ago

    Women are chameleon.... there are common girls keys.. here we go... Girl.: babe stop don't do it.... whereas the thing is inside already.... Guy: babe should I remove it, Girl: Oh no but you are inside, already... Guy: so wha ...
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  • Tony 9 years ago

    Pls , let KKD understand that he is not the only man with high libido. His inability to control it makes him to be likened to a billy goat who needs to be castrated to allow young girls to have freedom of movement to where th ...
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  • Kportorwogbor 9 years ago

    Why should the law wait till you start penetration b4 while stop can be at a point of holding,touching. and sucking breast, lips and the ass as its an agreement, the law must be looked at u can't put a ball of fufu or a spoon ...
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  • EDUARDO DOMINGO 9 years ago

    SO THE WHITE MAN FINALLY SUCCEEDED IN DESTROYING OUR AFRICANESS? GOD WE ARE DOOMED, SINCE WHEN DOES THIS KIND OF MADNESS BECOME LAW IN AFRICA, "WHEN YOU ENTER A WOMAN SHE CAN SAY STOP AND YOU STOP'? LOOK IDIOTS THAT IS A WH ...
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  • s.k 9 years ago

    Mass lets assume l dey for top n she stopped me just as I the descend n my feeling is high.