You should please say Fuck the ring and fuck the man too but unlike Gifty Anti who deceived a lot of women with such stupid talk and went ahead to get married and state that marriage has not made her a complete woman, pls say ... read full comment
You should please say Fuck the ring and fuck the man too but unlike Gifty Anti who deceived a lot of women with such stupid talk and went ahead to get married and state that marriage has not made her a complete woman, pls say fuck the ring anf fuck the man till your fucking grave.
BAD MOUTH 9 years ago
You seem to be sad you are not a man. Sorry but you don't have to be envious of the penis advantage. You don't have to get fucked for anything that won't give you value.
Remember many men starve their nucleus family to satis ... read full comment
You seem to be sad you are not a man. Sorry but you don't have to be envious of the penis advantage. You don't have to get fucked for anything that won't give you value.
Remember many men starve their nucleus family to satisfy the girl friend just for a fuck.
So I hope you understand. Girl up and fight. Good luck.
KOFI TOTOBI KWAKYE 9 years ago
Why is everything about 'sex', pls use the information superhighway to inform, educate, fight crime, corruption, superstition etc.
Why is everything about 'big' men, the rich and famous? What about the children especially ... read full comment
Why is everything about 'sex', pls use the information superhighway to inform, educate, fight crime, corruption, superstition etc.
Why is everything about 'big' men, the rich and famous? What about the children especially the disadvantaged ones with their single mothers, in the villages forgotten by the gov or lack of governance, only thieves?
OSEI KROM JOBS 9 years ago
A REPUTABLE HOSPITALITY HOME NEEDS
1. EXPERIENCE ACCOUNTANT
2. A MATRON (COOK)
3. A MATRON ( HOUSE KEEPING)
CHEF
COOKS
SECURITY GUARDS
POTERS
CLEANERS
GARDNERS
CALL;
0322 037073
027 443 7073
JOB IS IN KUMASI. IN ... read full comment
A REPUTABLE HOSPITALITY HOME NEEDS
1. EXPERIENCE ACCOUNTANT
2. A MATRON (COOK)
3. A MATRON ( HOUSE KEEPING)
CHEF
COOKS
SECURITY GUARDS
POTERS
CLEANERS
GARDNERS
CALL;
0322 037073
027 443 7073
JOB IS IN KUMASI. IN THE HEART OF THE CITY.
Saint Ghfuo: FREE YOUR PSYCHE 9 years ago
who put a gun to ur head?
THIS ALL WHITE JERSEY IS TOO BORING. LACKS PERSONALITY N LOOKS LIKE HOTEL BEDSHEET. WE NEED PINSTRIPE JERSEYS LIKE THE NEW YORK YANKEE ALL WHITE PINSTRIPE JERSEYS. pinstripes jerseys, pinstripes sho ... read full comment
who put a gun to ur head?
THIS ALL WHITE JERSEY IS TOO BORING. LACKS PERSONALITY N LOOKS LIKE HOTEL BEDSHEET. WE NEED PINSTRIPE JERSEYS LIKE THE NEW YORK YANKEE ALL WHITE PINSTRIPE JERSEYS. pinstripes jerseys, pinstripes shorts, pinstripe hoes…Pinstripes = tricks!!!.....GFA, ACT NOW! GOOGLE: NEW YORK YANKEES pinstripe jersey
OLD SCOTTISH BASTARD 9 years ago
So in one breathe, you're telling us all just how ferocious you are in bed, so much that you haven't found a man that can keep up with you, it's safe to deduce that you must have sampled quite a few, where I come from that's ... read full comment
So in one breathe, you're telling us all just how ferocious you are in bed, so much that you haven't found a man that can keep up with you, it's safe to deduce that you must have sampled quite a few, where I come from that's known as promiscuity. I hope you had them wrap it up each time you tried to test one of these men.
In another breathe you're judging other women for what in your opinion is "settling" for good-for-nothing men to appease the unbearable demands of today's Ghanaian society. In as much as I'll agree with you that women and their families do their homework on who they decide to get hitched to, I think it's quite rich coming from a woman whose only goal is to find a man that can hit her g-spot anytime, anywhere. In college, we used to call girls like you the city bus, everybody gets a ride as long as you can afford the fare.
Take care my dear.
waa look 9 years ago
U did not see the big picture.
U did not see the big picture.
ik 9 years ago
What is the big picture please
What is the big picture please
Saint Ghfuo: FREE YOUR PSYCHE 9 years ago
these women who think like babies with immature brains. they cant think analytically. they believe in what they see and think seeing is believing. idiots...then they learn the hard way. serves them right...
these women who think like babies with immature brains. they cant think analytically. they believe in what they see and think seeing is believing. idiots...then they learn the hard way. serves them right...
adorable 9 years ago
First of all, the reason a lot of people takes risk and marry early is simple; the desire for sex is at its highest in young adults so for some instead of jumping from one partner to another they marry. Most of the time it wo ... read full comment
First of all, the reason a lot of people takes risk and marry early is simple; the desire for sex is at its highest in young adults so for some instead of jumping from one partner to another they marry. Most of the time it works but at times it doesn't.
It is so unfortunate for the writer to actually use a real example in her write up. What is she trying to achieve here? The guy must have had affairs in the past and so what? Is the writer saying she waiting to marry a virgin? Or she's would only date men who ha not had an affair in the last 2 years? It just so happened that affairs of the man in question had resulted in children what if the women involved had aborted? Would the guy been suitable because no one would have head of the affairs?
Entering into marriage is often a leap of and a work in progress. You can change your partner from good to bad by your own attitude and destroy a good relationship.
I find the writer very strange. What is the message here? Is she a lesbian? Otherwise, what is the message? Gosh!
Sam 9 years ago
Your article is a great insight into the mind of a wierdo. Adults are allowed to make choices in life, and that is their prerogative. Who are you to sit in judgement of people's choices they make ? If you have been around for ... read full comment
Your article is a great insight into the mind of a wierdo. Adults are allowed to make choices in life, and that is their prerogative. Who are you to sit in judgement of people's choices they make ? If you have been around for long enough, you will realise that the adage '- nowhere cool - is the summary of life !
Amma Mamme 9 years ago
Nowhere cool. I love this.Yes nowhere cool oops.
Nowhere cool. I love this.Yes nowhere cool oops.
Nii-Adama, Osu-RE 9 years ago
Sam, I think your comment is essentially misplaced. This absolutely an apt piece of current issue not just affecting women in Ghana but everywhere else but with different slant to the phenomenon.
The writer should be commend ... read full comment
Sam, I think your comment is essentially misplaced. This absolutely an apt piece of current issue not just affecting women in Ghana but everywhere else but with different slant to the phenomenon.
The writer should be commended for making a stand which should be empowering to say the least for others in similar situations to ponder.
xxx 9 years ago
she obviously hates men so her stupid rants
she obviously hates men so her stupid rants
Tatti 9 years ago
Thank you Sam!
Thank you Sam!
auctioneer 9 years ago
insightful article my dear well done
insightful article my dear well done
Maame 9 years ago
a story by ghanacelebrities.con not peace fm
a story by ghanacelebrities.con not peace fm
Nii 9 years ago
file photo? the photo is adjoa saah of adom and husband wai. ghanaweb
file photo? the photo is adjoa saah of adom and husband wai. ghanaweb
solos 9 years ago
yoo, we we hear oo
yoo, we we hear oo
Esther 9 years ago
I am not sure what you will gain in writing such article. But it seems you are peeved very much. i thing i know is we make mistakes in life and learn from those mistakes. Maybe the allegation against the man maybe true. but m ... read full comment
I am not sure what you will gain in writing such article. But it seems you are peeved very much. i thing i know is we make mistakes in life and learn from those mistakes. Maybe the allegation against the man maybe true. but my dear don't you think you are judging wronging?Maybe the former relationship did not work Lets God be the Judge pls
Nii 9 years ago
My dear I think you don't understand what marriage is. Marriage a test bed for us to learn commitment to God. For if one can be committed to a human that can hurt your, how much more God that always loves you.
Marriage is ... read full comment
My dear I think you don't understand what marriage is. Marriage a test bed for us to learn commitment to God. For if one can be committed to a human that can hurt your, how much more God that always loves you.
Marriage is a person opportunity to learn to take care of another person without conditions. The trick is to find out a partner who also unferstahd that marriage is not all pleasure but a rough terrain to prune each other into kind, patient, loving, respectful, and understanding humans. So looking for some great person with all the quality you want is a mirage. Have you considered your partner will also have to work on imperfections in you?
Don't let ignorance deny you a a great man you yourself must prune to what you want. Please get this knowledge from a bad guy who now know and understands this.
My woman stood by me and worked on me. We fought, argued and made up. We kept at it and with kids and time we blossomed into great pals and today other women look at me like this is what kind of man I want but they forget someone worked me out.
The Akan call marriage 'awarier' because is a long tough journey to get to a beautiful destination only The Lord can completely explain. Start looking for your man and prune him and allow yourself to also change for the better.
Patriot 9 years ago
Please know that the God factor in marriage has sent many a woman to the insane asylum. Go and see some beautiful and well-bred career women languishing in our mental asylums because some reverend minister urged her on 'becau ... read full comment
Please know that the God factor in marriage has sent many a woman to the insane asylum. Go and see some beautiful and well-bred career women languishing in our mental asylums because some reverend minister urged her on 'because marriage is made in heaven'. Fuck the ring, fuck the man.
Happily Married 9 years ago
Of a truth there was no God factor. The real GOD FACTOR will NEVER send anyone to asylum. Ignorance of God and foolishness will make you perish.
Of a truth there was no God factor. The real GOD FACTOR will NEVER send anyone to asylum. Ignorance of God and foolishness will make you perish.
Nii 9 years ago
We are happily married. So why should you impose your view of marriage on us? If you don't want to marry that's your choice but don't impose that on us ok
We are happily married. So why should you impose your view of marriage on us? If you don't want to marry that's your choice but don't impose that on us ok
Witol 9 years ago
God bless u. u re spot on!
But i think she has a little point, lets hear her out!
God bless u. u re spot on!
But i think she has a little point, lets hear her out!
3dem 9 years ago
I will never advise my daughter to do what your wife did. Only a loser will be striving with a bad man, hoping he gets better. I will teach her faith in God to know that God will give her a PERFECT MAN as he promised. She won ... read full comment
I will never advise my daughter to do what your wife did. Only a loser will be striving with a bad man, hoping he gets better. I will teach her faith in God to know that God will give her a PERFECT MAN as he promised. She won't have to strive with him.
To continue striving with a bad man hoping that he will change means you don't think God can give you a better man and that's a sign of not having faith in God. The things that we accuse God of!!!
adorable 9 years ago
A perfect man? Is there a thing like that? And I am a man so don't get me wrong.
At the time Rawlings married Nana Konadu maybe, many a parent would have advised against that for all intent and purposes I think you would ... read full comment
A perfect man? Is there a thing like that? And I am a man so don't get me wrong.
At the time Rawlings married Nana Konadu maybe, many a parent would have advised against that for all intent and purposes I think you would agree with me that they have had a good marriage.
kweku trouble 9 years ago
Leave the name and office of the President out of your insatiable libido inspired crap. Who told you the lady does not know her husband has two kids? Since when did it become a taboo to marry a man with kids? Are Mzbell and ... read full comment
Leave the name and office of the President out of your insatiable libido inspired crap. Who told you the lady does not know her husband has two kids? Since when did it become a taboo to marry a man with kids? Are Mzbell and other notable women not fighting over Kofi Amoabeng? Spare us the hypocritical noises and concentrate on getting laid.
Kanata kay 9 years ago
You can call men useless. I hope you don't intend getting married. Useless article. Stop bitching around and get laid.
You can call men useless. I hope you don't intend getting married. Useless article. Stop bitching around and get laid.
Amos Nanah Jarguah 9 years ago
Eeeeeeii, so it's true. hmmmmmm. Sorry Adwoa. This is an important lesson to all Ghanaian ladies. "The devil u know is far Better than the Angel u don't know"
Eeeeeeii, so it's true. hmmmmmm. Sorry Adwoa. This is an important lesson to all Ghanaian ladies. "The devil u know is far Better than the Angel u don't know"
sheila 9 years ago
some fear n think they are growing n will expire
some fear n think they are growing n will expire
Asantewaa (0247552009) 9 years ago
Adwoa ,please don't mind anybody, please you better stop saying things which is not true OK.
Adwoa ,please don't mind anybody, please you better stop saying things which is not true OK.
Asantewaa (0247552009) 9 years ago
Adwoa, don't mind anybody.
Adwoa, don't mind anybody.
ernest 9 years ago
I must commend you and your writing prowess. I am very much impressed by how you creatively made your point. But I would say that we can't f**k the ring and man. westernisation without modernisation has brought about a lot o ... read full comment
I must commend you and your writing prowess. I am very much impressed by how you creatively made your point. But I would say that we can't f**k the ring and man. westernisation without modernisation has brought about a lot of things especially the idea that we can have a family without marriage. I believe that marriage better serves as a solid foundation for having a family. we just have to be careful with the choice of our. partners and not let certain avoidable insecurities lead us into marriage. Everybody deserves a good husband or wife!
Kwadwo 9 years ago
This is the most irritating article I've read this year. Whoever you are not confident enough to even leave your identity behind. What do you expect when your description of an Ideal man is the one with at least Chrysler. You ... read full comment
This is the most irritating article I've read this year. Whoever you are not confident enough to even leave your identity behind. What do you expect when your description of an Ideal man is the one with at least Chrysler. You expect and anticipate the best of man when you're thirty forgetting that faithful and noble guy who begged you all year-long back in school to at least plan ahead for future. You ladies always want the 'known, affluent, influential' to associate with. I thought Gifty Anti wasn't ever going to involve herself in anything called marriage to prove a point, not knowing she wanted a 'Nana Kwaw Ansah'. Today she takes pride in being called 'Awo Dansoa' and feels comfortable with that. If you stop your sucking hypocrisy and advice the young ladies to stop dumping their poor 'first boyfriends' you'll have no beef. I'll advise you to see Shatta Michy for a piece of sense.
kweku trouble 9 years ago
Thanks Pal, especially for the Shatta Michy bit. Real talk.
Thanks Pal, especially for the Shatta Michy bit. Real talk.
3dem 9 years ago
Gifty always said she would marry when the time was right....she never said she won't marry. Get your facts straight.
Gifty always said she would marry when the time was right....she never said she won't marry. Get your facts straight.
JH. New York 9 years ago
A city bus indeed.Article of no use!.
A city bus indeed.Article of no use!.
Nana Addo 9 years ago
Bitch witch idiot
Very Jealous of adwoa. You are full of bitterness and hatred.dissatisfied with your life you want to ruin her marriage. Trash!
Bitch witch idiot
Very Jealous of adwoa. You are full of bitterness and hatred.dissatisfied with your life you want to ruin her marriage. Trash!
Gordon Duodu 9 years ago
May I know who the writer of this sound piece of advice is. She tells it like it is without caring whose mother is being gored. Good job, lady.
Please, get in touch.
May I know who the writer of this sound piece of advice is. She tells it like it is without caring whose mother is being gored. Good job, lady.
Please, get in touch.
Kwobia (Toronto) 9 years ago
Please,stop this nonsense.Marriage is pure hell for most men that have tried it.We feel pressured to marry and have children only to our regrets.
Please,stop this nonsense.Marriage is pure hell for most men that have tried it.We feel pressured to marry and have children only to our regrets.
Fiifi 9 years ago
I may not agree with every point made, but I applaud your ability to write.
Very well written. If you ever need a publisher, hola.
I may not agree with every point made, but I applaud your ability to write.
Very well written. If you ever need a publisher, hola.
Ghana Ba 9 years ago
You see; once upon a time, the man in question was a "bad boy." A real player who did some real messing around. And this resulted in various affair with different women, and of course children. But on paper he never married a ... read full comment
You see; once upon a time, the man in question was a "bad boy." A real player who did some real messing around. And this resulted in various affair with different women, and of course children. But on paper he never married anyone of them. Secondly, the man had changed from his old ways before he met his TV hostess. I believe we all have our past. But that doesnt mean we are still de same. What happened in de past belongs to history. And trust me; the lady knew about his past before she decided to marry him. Nothing was a hidden secret. So what's the point? Obviously, someone is angry, jealous and want to pay back. This serve as a lesson to the women: " Learn how to close your thighs untill a man takes you to the alter. The other women gave it cheap, but she managed to let him take her to the alter; and now somebody is jealous. Stop writting like you know the story all; reporter.
jince 9 years ago
If u say he's changed, we can only wish it's true n not a nine day wonder. The real person you marry is unfortunately found out after marriage. We can only wish them well
If u say he's changed, we can only wish it's true n not a nine day wonder. The real person you marry is unfortunately found out after marriage. We can only wish them well
Patriot 9 years ago
Go sister!! You see Ghanaian hypocrisy and the push for marriage as a sign of respect for women demeans women. Meantime, some men only play the field for as long as they like and still receive society's respect. What the f**k ... read full comment
Go sister!! You see Ghanaian hypocrisy and the push for marriage as a sign of respect for women demeans women. Meantime, some men only play the field for as long as they like and still receive society's respect. What the f**k.
Kofi Adu 9 years ago
Thumbs up to whoever wrote this. A lot of ladies should know their worth
Thumbs up to whoever wrote this. A lot of ladies should know their worth
Abena 9 years ago
Fantastic article. I happen to know just one of his 'baby mamas' and this is so heart breaking to see. Monogamy is clearly dead in this modern day and age.
I completely agree with this article in articulating the view tha ... read full comment
Fantastic article. I happen to know just one of his 'baby mamas' and this is so heart breaking to see. Monogamy is clearly dead in this modern day and age.
I completely agree with this article in articulating the view that Ghanaian women clearly value the symbolic meaning of 'marriage' as opposed to the practical acts that accompany a REAL marriage.
This is all fake. It is very surprising to see people in the comments supporting this man despite the fact that he has virtually ran away from all responsibilities. Would this be the case if his new wife was not as well known in the media?
Everything said here is true! To the author of this article, I commend you. To the people of Ghana, do not allow your ignorance and love for his 'new wife' mystify your own judgements.
From London
Junior 9 years ago
Monogamy is one of the elements of Western culture imposed on Africans just like they are trying to force gay marriages on us. We need to resist both.
Monogamy is one of the elements of Western culture imposed on Africans just like they are trying to force gay marriages on us. We need to resist both.
Fiifi 9 years ago
Impose or copy, either way, the last time I checked, every man/woman the right to choose how they live their life. I don't think you would disagree with that.
Impose or copy, either way, the last time I checked, every man/woman the right to choose how they live their life. I don't think you would disagree with that.
Ashanti Alliance 9 years ago
in as much as in your opinion you think she marrying the man is a bad idea, the manner in which you went about you piece is completely stupid. stupid cos you don't have the fucking right to attack any of the parties since you ... read full comment
in as much as in your opinion you think she marrying the man is a bad idea, the manner in which you went about you piece is completely stupid. stupid cos you don't have the fucking right to attack any of the parties since you are not in their position, which in effect will give you a vivid reason why the lady is marrying the guy. and once again fuck you. r u righteous in this world? give the guy some slack and stop blabbing with this stupid opinions.
Afrikikoman--Abiding in Salvation per 9 years ago
Ways. This amoral ways bedevil society in so many ways. We cannot get utopian state, yet the sense of awareness to ourselves and gerations ahead. I was no better, just awakening out of age to give a little bit experience shar ... read full comment
Ways. This amoral ways bedevil society in so many ways. We cannot get utopian state, yet the sense of awareness to ourselves and gerations ahead. I was no better, just awakening out of age to give a little bit experience sharing. I like your piece Saah, for the fact of giving conversation to forumers.
Atleast opinions might vary, knowledges flow into veins and empty heads. In all a better education to reckon. Love Ghana. Ashanti man spewing.
Yeesus 9 years ago
I read ur comment n quess what? I wish I cld see how u look like , maybe ur looks cld compensate with ur deficient thought. Buh hey if u ugly as ur way of thinking den gudluck u poor soul.
I read ur comment n quess what? I wish I cld see how u look like , maybe ur looks cld compensate with ur deficient thought. Buh hey if u ugly as ur way of thinking den gudluck u poor soul.
Rusty 9 years ago
look at the gay , foolish gay go to hell
look at the gay , foolish gay go to hell
Obed Adore 9 years ago
Hmmm? Lamentation of the well-pissed off Ghanaian lady?
Hmmm? Lamentation of the well-pissed off Ghanaian lady?
HANSON,KUMASI-GHANA. 9 years ago
The reverse is the case.Fuck the woman,fuck the can't.
So many Ghanaian women are so useless,they are a disgrace to the woman race.
The reverse is the case.Fuck the woman,fuck the can't.
So many Ghanaian women are so useless,they are a disgrace to the woman race.
Hahaha 9 years ago
Why do people say "grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive....hahahaha, hehehehe!!!
If you wanna be tough grow a vagina.This vagina can take real 'POUNDING'
Fuck the ring....fuck VAGINA.
Why do people say "grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive....hahahaha, hehehehe!!!
If you wanna be tough grow a vagina.This vagina can take real 'POUNDING'
Fuck the ring....fuck VAGINA.
the CRUSADER 9 years ago
F***K the Man.. F***K the Ring.. AND ALSO F***K ALL YOU LOUSY, LOUD MOUTHED UNCULTURED GIRLS!!!!!! Many are Called BUT FEW ARE CHOSEN... AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE CHOSEN!!!!! Marriage is NOT A WAY O ... read full comment
F***K the Man.. F***K the Ring.. AND ALSO F***K ALL YOU LOUSY, LOUD MOUTHED UNCULTURED GIRLS!!!!!! Many are Called BUT FEW ARE CHOSEN... AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE CHOSEN!!!!! Marriage is NOT A WAY OF ESCAPE.... AS MANY GIRLS SEE IT... NEITHER IS IT FOR THE "MRS" SYNDROME.... BE A "BB" WOMAN BEAUTY and BRAINS AND NOT BE A "BL" WOMAN.. BEAUTY and LIABILITY.... Shalom
Nana 9 years ago
Much as I will commend you for your insightful msg to Ghanaian women to be independent and not to sell their happiness just because of societal demands, I will however point to the fact that, any woman living in Ghana today c ... read full comment
Much as I will commend you for your insightful msg to Ghanaian women to be independent and not to sell their happiness just because of societal demands, I will however point to the fact that, any woman living in Ghana today can make her own choice regardless of societal pressure...it does not matter what or whom the man is...infact Adwoa Saah could've been the man's 100Th wife...that will her be her decision to make...you can decide to stay unmarried ( and f**k whoever you want...in fact I do not wanna get married..so maybe we can meet for a fling...lol) and that will be your decision. I think your op. should directed towards women who sell out because the society says so...not to those who sell out because they want to.
Ghanaba 9 years ago
Why picking on the poor lady.If you have a problem with marriage leave her alone.Its her choice.Just continue going round to look for the perfect man and the quys are waiting patiently to add more gap to your ,"ass hole" with ... read full comment
Why picking on the poor lady.If you have a problem with marriage leave her alone.Its her choice.Just continue going round to look for the perfect man and the quys are waiting patiently to add more gap to your ,"ass hole" with or without viagra.
STAFFORD 9 years ago
WOMEN ARE WISE, LOVE GOOD LIFE AND GREAT FUN. WOMEN ARE NOT HUNTERS, BECAUSE IT IS HARD JOB AND RISKY. WE ALL LOVE MONEY AND LIFE ESSENTIALS, HOT SPOTS ! FIRE(MONEY) WOULD BURN YOU, IF NOT HANDLED(CHASED) WISELY ?
WOMEN ARE WISE, LOVE GOOD LIFE AND GREAT FUN. WOMEN ARE NOT HUNTERS, BECAUSE IT IS HARD JOB AND RISKY. WE ALL LOVE MONEY AND LIFE ESSENTIALS, HOT SPOTS ! FIRE(MONEY) WOULD BURN YOU, IF NOT HANDLED(CHASED) WISELY ?
black boy 9 years ago
What kind of person writes a peace that just insults and offends everyone who isn't like her. The humour is even misplaced. ooooh boy.
What kind of person writes a peace that just insults and offends everyone who isn't like her. The humour is even misplaced. ooooh boy.
Awo 9 years ago
Great article. Hmmmm things Ghanaian girls go through to get a ring on their finger.
Great article. Hmmmm things Ghanaian girls go through to get a ring on their finger.
Prof Lungu 9 years ago
Wow!
Some education for everyone!
Bravo, sister!
Stay strong and healthy!
Wow!
Some education for everyone!
Bravo, sister!
Stay strong and healthy!
3dem 9 years ago
This is the sermon for my daughter: don't settle for rubbish because you think you are growing. Take your time and marry on your own terms.
"no where cool" is the anthem for women who settled for men they otherwise would ... read full comment
This is the sermon for my daughter: don't settle for rubbish because you think you are growing. Take your time and marry on your own terms.
"no where cool" is the anthem for women who settled for men they otherwise would not marry (rubbish, some men and women are).
Getting a man to sleep with on long term basis (marriage) is not an achievement, It's an avenue to scratch an old itch.
If you settle for a loser, you will carry it for the rest of the marriage.
Supporter 9 years ago
Exactly what happens to women who want high-class or already- made men to marry and not necessarlly men who loves them.
Exactly what happens to women who want high-class or already- made men to marry and not necessarlly men who loves them.
yaw 9 years ago
f**k the ring n f**k the man.girls of today prefet the ring than real man.men dont think about rings,WHY
f**k the ring n f**k the man.girls of today prefet the ring than real man.men dont think about rings,WHY
CITIZEN ONE 9 years ago
The truth about Ghana is there are too many beautiful women and half decent in manners and hyginene, but the men are not only physically unattractive, they are filthy and uncouth.
Our young girls have to copulate, and the ... read full comment
The truth about Ghana is there are too many beautiful women and half decent in manners and hyginene, but the men are not only physically unattractive, they are filthy and uncouth.
Our young girls have to copulate, and they also need someone to feed them, cloth them, hair them and especially house them, so they have to close their eyes and minds and suck up to this dreadful life God brought upon them. I have observed and still studying the habits of Ghanaian women and how they try to accommodate these filthy fellow citizens. Whenever I pose the question how can you sleep with such filthy men, they all bow their heads and refuse to respond. It is traumatizing to think what they may be thinking. It is almost suicidal to say "to every rule there are exceptions"...we never disappoint. I am a lucky Ghanaian only because I was born with an evil nature to observe and not participate...only luck I have!
GYIGYI 9 years ago
FOOL
FOOL
Kofi Twum barimah 9 years ago
fantastic and a realistic examination of a part of our culture which seriously has no place for in the 21st century and yet we are doing so much overtime not to let go of it I have a young brother with 6 children no job and h ... read full comment
fantastic and a realistic examination of a part of our culture which seriously has no place for in the 21st century and yet we are doing so much overtime not to let go of it I have a young brother with 6 children no job and he is expecting me to take care of them I have just come back from UK after 40 years I have 3 kids myself
KYEBI DWARF 9 years ago
I find this piece a direct attack on Adwoa Saah and her husband. Who is this writer who thinks she's so righteous about the institution of marriage in Ghana? I bet she has been jumping from dick to dick herself, and has becom ... read full comment
I find this piece a direct attack on Adwoa Saah and her husband. Who is this writer who thinks she's so righteous about the institution of marriage in Ghana? I bet she has been jumping from dick to dick herself, and has become very jealous of every lady who finds herself a man to get married to. The writer should be ashamed of herself. And, the whole piece is real shit!
Gee 9 years ago
Great article. A lot of women can relate to your story. Thanks for sharing what was seen as a taboo
Great article. A lot of women can relate to your story. Thanks for sharing what was seen as a taboo
nana yaw 9 years ago
Very interesting article, I appreciate the flow, style and even your good English. I wish all women had had that level of ideal such as above, but hey others have waited in vain to realize that real life doesn't begin by what ... read full comment
Very interesting article, I appreciate the flow, style and even your good English. I wish all women had had that level of ideal such as above, but hey others have waited in vain to realize that real life doesn't begin by what you have epitomized. Life would not be such complex phenomenon if all could start with the perfect and move on. There's one aspect of life you failed to realize in your excellent analysis, that so many perfect and very satisfying situations began as hopeless ones. Nobody married a man knowing well that the man would one day be a president or a great man. The future is always determine by our maker so please let's make allowance for people's imperfect choices. It helps others see and hope for better future. The ring must not be fucked and same as the man. The so called worthless man is an actually an affront to the wisdom of God and let's beware. It may be bad today but great tomorrow and so is the converse. I commend and advise you at the same time. Great work but no so perfect. Humble yourself in the sight of God and he exalt you in due season, so say the bible.
sanderxphilips 9 years ago
Yeah right: fuck the ring and fuck them all!
Yeah right: fuck the ring and fuck them all!
Kb 9 years ago
What a rambling Rant!!!!! Just get f..?kd.
What a rambling Rant!!!!! Just get f..?kd.
Johnson 9 years ago
Well spoken
Well spoken
Timmy 9 years ago
Ha ha excellent truthful piece. Ghanaians will do anything to remain married even though it's a big SHAM!!! And they call themselves Christians!!!!!
Ha ha excellent truthful piece. Ghanaians will do anything to remain married even though it's a big SHAM!!! And they call themselves Christians!!!!!
Ebibiman 9 years ago
..........and fuck u too.
Cheers
Men were made to produce kids and i don't give a fuck how many holes come my way just to get a baby .
..........and fuck u too.
Cheers
Men were made to produce kids and i don't give a fuck how many holes come my way just to get a baby .
You should please say Fuck the ring and fuck the man too but unlike Gifty Anti who deceived a lot of women with such stupid talk and went ahead to get married and state that marriage has not made her a complete woman, pls say ...
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You seem to be sad you are not a man. Sorry but you don't have to be envious of the penis advantage. You don't have to get fucked for anything that won't give you value.
Remember many men starve their nucleus family to satis ...
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Why is everything about 'sex', pls use the information superhighway to inform, educate, fight crime, corruption, superstition etc.
Why is everything about 'big' men, the rich and famous? What about the children especially ...
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who put a gun to ur head?
THIS ALL WHITE JERSEY IS TOO BORING. LACKS PERSONALITY N LOOKS LIKE HOTEL BEDSHEET. WE NEED PINSTRIPE JERSEYS LIKE THE NEW YORK YANKEE ALL WHITE PINSTRIPE JERSEYS. pinstripes jerseys, pinstripes sho ...
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So in one breathe, you're telling us all just how ferocious you are in bed, so much that you haven't found a man that can keep up with you, it's safe to deduce that you must have sampled quite a few, where I come from that's ...
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U did not see the big picture.
What is the big picture please
these women who think like babies with immature brains. they cant think analytically. they believe in what they see and think seeing is believing. idiots...then they learn the hard way. serves them right...
First of all, the reason a lot of people takes risk and marry early is simple; the desire for sex is at its highest in young adults so for some instead of jumping from one partner to another they marry. Most of the time it wo ...
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Your article is a great insight into the mind of a wierdo. Adults are allowed to make choices in life, and that is their prerogative. Who are you to sit in judgement of people's choices they make ? If you have been around for ...
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Nowhere cool. I love this.Yes nowhere cool oops.
Sam, I think your comment is essentially misplaced. This absolutely an apt piece of current issue not just affecting women in Ghana but everywhere else but with different slant to the phenomenon.
The writer should be commend ...
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she obviously hates men so her stupid rants
Thank you Sam!
insightful article my dear well done
a story by ghanacelebrities.con not peace fm
file photo? the photo is adjoa saah of adom and husband wai. ghanaweb
yoo, we we hear oo
I am not sure what you will gain in writing such article. But it seems you are peeved very much. i thing i know is we make mistakes in life and learn from those mistakes. Maybe the allegation against the man maybe true. but m ...
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My dear I think you don't understand what marriage is. Marriage a test bed for us to learn commitment to God. For if one can be committed to a human that can hurt your, how much more God that always loves you.
Marriage is ...
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Please know that the God factor in marriage has sent many a woman to the insane asylum. Go and see some beautiful and well-bred career women languishing in our mental asylums because some reverend minister urged her on 'becau ...
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Of a truth there was no God factor. The real GOD FACTOR will NEVER send anyone to asylum. Ignorance of God and foolishness will make you perish.
We are happily married. So why should you impose your view of marriage on us? If you don't want to marry that's your choice but don't impose that on us ok
God bless u. u re spot on!
But i think she has a little point, lets hear her out!
I will never advise my daughter to do what your wife did. Only a loser will be striving with a bad man, hoping he gets better. I will teach her faith in God to know that God will give her a PERFECT MAN as he promised. She won ...
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A perfect man? Is there a thing like that? And I am a man so don't get me wrong.
At the time Rawlings married Nana Konadu maybe, many a parent would have advised against that for all intent and purposes I think you would ...
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Leave the name and office of the President out of your insatiable libido inspired crap. Who told you the lady does not know her husband has two kids? Since when did it become a taboo to marry a man with kids? Are Mzbell and ...
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You can call men useless. I hope you don't intend getting married. Useless article. Stop bitching around and get laid.
Eeeeeeii, so it's true. hmmmmmm. Sorry Adwoa. This is an important lesson to all Ghanaian ladies. "The devil u know is far Better than the Angel u don't know"
some fear n think they are growing n will expire
Adwoa ,please don't mind anybody, please you better stop saying things which is not true OK.
Adwoa, don't mind anybody.
I must commend you and your writing prowess. I am very much impressed by how you creatively made your point. But I would say that we can't f**k the ring and man. westernisation without modernisation has brought about a lot o ...
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This is the most irritating article I've read this year. Whoever you are not confident enough to even leave your identity behind. What do you expect when your description of an Ideal man is the one with at least Chrysler. You ...
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Thanks Pal, especially for the Shatta Michy bit. Real talk.
Gifty always said she would marry when the time was right....she never said she won't marry. Get your facts straight.
A city bus indeed.Article of no use!.
Bitch witch idiot
Very Jealous of adwoa. You are full of bitterness and hatred.dissatisfied with your life you want to ruin her marriage. Trash!
May I know who the writer of this sound piece of advice is. She tells it like it is without caring whose mother is being gored. Good job, lady.
Please, get in touch.
Please,stop this nonsense.Marriage is pure hell for most men that have tried it.We feel pressured to marry and have children only to our regrets.
I may not agree with every point made, but I applaud your ability to write.
Very well written. If you ever need a publisher, hola.
You see; once upon a time, the man in question was a "bad boy." A real player who did some real messing around. And this resulted in various affair with different women, and of course children. But on paper he never married a ...
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If u say he's changed, we can only wish it's true n not a nine day wonder. The real person you marry is unfortunately found out after marriage. We can only wish them well
Go sister!! You see Ghanaian hypocrisy and the push for marriage as a sign of respect for women demeans women. Meantime, some men only play the field for as long as they like and still receive society's respect. What the f**k ...
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Thumbs up to whoever wrote this. A lot of ladies should know their worth
Fantastic article. I happen to know just one of his 'baby mamas' and this is so heart breaking to see. Monogamy is clearly dead in this modern day and age.
I completely agree with this article in articulating the view tha ...
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Monogamy is one of the elements of Western culture imposed on Africans just like they are trying to force gay marriages on us. We need to resist both.
Impose or copy, either way, the last time I checked, every man/woman the right to choose how they live their life. I don't think you would disagree with that.
in as much as in your opinion you think she marrying the man is a bad idea, the manner in which you went about you piece is completely stupid. stupid cos you don't have the fucking right to attack any of the parties since you ...
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Ways. This amoral ways bedevil society in so many ways. We cannot get utopian state, yet the sense of awareness to ourselves and gerations ahead. I was no better, just awakening out of age to give a little bit experience shar ...
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I read ur comment n quess what? I wish I cld see how u look like , maybe ur looks cld compensate with ur deficient thought. Buh hey if u ugly as ur way of thinking den gudluck u poor soul.
look at the gay , foolish gay go to hell
Hmmm? Lamentation of the well-pissed off Ghanaian lady?
The reverse is the case.Fuck the woman,fuck the can't.
So many Ghanaian women are so useless,they are a disgrace to the woman race.
Why do people say "grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive....hahahaha, hehehehe!!!
If you wanna be tough grow a vagina.This vagina can take real 'POUNDING'
Fuck the ring....fuck VAGINA.
F***K the Man.. F***K the Ring.. AND ALSO F***K ALL YOU LOUSY, LOUD MOUTHED UNCULTURED GIRLS!!!!!! Many are Called BUT FEW ARE CHOSEN... AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE CHOSEN!!!!! Marriage is NOT A WAY O ...
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Much as I will commend you for your insightful msg to Ghanaian women to be independent and not to sell their happiness just because of societal demands, I will however point to the fact that, any woman living in Ghana today c ...
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Why picking on the poor lady.If you have a problem with marriage leave her alone.Its her choice.Just continue going round to look for the perfect man and the quys are waiting patiently to add more gap to your ,"ass hole" with ...
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WOMEN ARE WISE, LOVE GOOD LIFE AND GREAT FUN. WOMEN ARE NOT HUNTERS, BECAUSE IT IS HARD JOB AND RISKY. WE ALL LOVE MONEY AND LIFE ESSENTIALS, HOT SPOTS ! FIRE(MONEY) WOULD BURN YOU, IF NOT HANDLED(CHASED) WISELY ?
What kind of person writes a peace that just insults and offends everyone who isn't like her. The humour is even misplaced. ooooh boy.
Great article. Hmmmm things Ghanaian girls go through to get a ring on their finger.
Wow!
Some education for everyone!
Bravo, sister!
Stay strong and healthy!
This is the sermon for my daughter: don't settle for rubbish because you think you are growing. Take your time and marry on your own terms.
"no where cool" is the anthem for women who settled for men they otherwise would ...
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Exactly what happens to women who want high-class or already- made men to marry and not necessarlly men who loves them.
f**k the ring n f**k the man.girls of today prefet the ring than real man.men dont think about rings,WHY
The truth about Ghana is there are too many beautiful women and half decent in manners and hyginene, but the men are not only physically unattractive, they are filthy and uncouth.
Our young girls have to copulate, and the ...
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FOOL
fantastic and a realistic examination of a part of our culture which seriously has no place for in the 21st century and yet we are doing so much overtime not to let go of it I have a young brother with 6 children no job and h ...
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I find this piece a direct attack on Adwoa Saah and her husband. Who is this writer who thinks she's so righteous about the institution of marriage in Ghana? I bet she has been jumping from dick to dick herself, and has becom ...
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Great article. A lot of women can relate to your story. Thanks for sharing what was seen as a taboo
Very interesting article, I appreciate the flow, style and even your good English. I wish all women had had that level of ideal such as above, but hey others have waited in vain to realize that real life doesn't begin by what ...
read full comment
Yeah right: fuck the ring and fuck them all!
What a rambling Rant!!!!! Just get f..?kd.
Well spoken
Ha ha excellent truthful piece. Ghanaians will do anything to remain married even though it's a big SHAM!!! And they call themselves Christians!!!!!
..........and fuck u too.
Cheers
Men were made to produce kids and i don't give a fuck how many holes come my way just to get a baby .