The "sky daddy" mentality where we expect a supernatural deity to come to our aid without lifting a finger is even worsening the situation.
The "sky daddy" mentality where we expect a supernatural deity to come to our aid without lifting a finger is even worsening the situation.
Ken Ntiamoa 10 years ago
This article also goes for our sisters and brothers who can hardly scrape a living but will have 10 children with 3 women each expecting an uncle who only wisely chose to have one wife and two kids to look after them even tho ... read full comment
This article also goes for our sisters and brothers who can hardly scrape a living but will have 10 children with 3 women each expecting an uncle who only wisely chose to have one wife and two kids to look after them even though the kids have mothers and fathers. If you cannot even look after your-own-self why have 10 kids?
Ken
Nii 10 years ago
Your arguments are right on target. There was that lady who told me she'd rather prefer to remain single than date a guy who cannot provide what she needs; and I said yes! She can remain single for the rest of her life and wh ... read full comment
Your arguments are right on target. There was that lady who told me she'd rather prefer to remain single than date a guy who cannot provide what she needs; and I said yes! She can remain single for the rest of her life and who cares? There are a whole lot of women out there; more beautiful ones being born each day. What makes the situation even better for men is the fact that it is easier for a man to land a lady he is even 15 years older than rather than a woman landing a guy who she is even 5 years older than. They have a problem!
kk 10 years ago
ken u ar right on target,the funny thing is. we are not fixing the problem.
we v to change our attitude on everything we do. to be able to break poverty, our demand is greater than what we receive, we v apitite for big cars ... read full comment
ken u ar right on target,the funny thing is. we are not fixing the problem.
we v to change our attitude on everything we do. to be able to break poverty, our demand is greater than what we receive, we v apitite for big cars. some one will not mind taking a big loan to buy a big car just to impress society. and he is suffering at home.
the no body worship more than Africans, het we are hungry more than those who don't even pray like us.
our problem is attitude,
for example
1) let me do a big funeral
2) big wedding on loan.
3) big car on loan
4) etc. so that society respects me.
but when u go out there in the civilised world, where people pack their cars in the house and rushing to join train to go to work. and not caring about what any body, things go on well for them.
On the ladies too, u don't just v to mind them, just be your self.u don't have to impress them with money, because when u start doing that, you can never stop it.
that's why most ladies, when your money finishies, they leave u and move to the next chapter of their life.
we v a big problem here in Africa, a very big one, the white girls don't care to hang out with you if they are in love.
these things should be taught at the church, but now what do u see.
When u travel out, then u realise that we v a problem, a big one....
Tototiiii 10 years ago
Men, Fathers please read this article and know that your daughters are all under cover prostitutes these days. The class one category is our daughters on the various university campuses. Fathers, do you visit your daughters o ... read full comment
Men, Fathers please read this article and know that your daughters are all under cover prostitutes these days. The class one category is our daughters on the various university campuses. Fathers, do you visit your daughters on the campuses? Do you query them when they bring the TABLET phones to the house? Do you give them SUFFICIENT money for their upkeep. These and more are weird questions that all men and so-called fathers must answer. The situation is so much appalling that we, men and fathers must wake up to our responsibilities to our daughters. Men and fathers know ye that our daughters are being suffocated by men on the campuses due to our irresponsible attitudes. Dominic, your article is thought provoking, right on target et al. More anon.
Tototiiii 10 years ago
Men, Fathers please read this article and know that your daughters are all under cover prostitutes these days. The class one category is our daughters on the various university campuses. Fathers, do you visit your daughters o ... read full comment
Men, Fathers please read this article and know that your daughters are all under cover prostitutes these days. The class one category is our daughters on the various university campuses. Fathers, do you visit your daughters on the campuses? Do you query them when they bring the TABLET phones to the house? Do you give them SUFFICIENT money for their upkeep. These and more are weird questions that all men and so-called fathers must answer. The situation is so much appalling that we, men and fathers must wake up to our responsibilities to our daughters. Men and fathers know ye that our daughters are being suffocated by men on the campuses due to our irresponsible attitudes. Dominic, your article is thought provoking, right on target et al. More anon.
princewilly@ymail.com 10 years ago
A 70 year old man and a 25 year year old young woman walk into a very posh Rodeo Drive furrier. ''Show the lady your finest mink!'' the fellow exclaims. So the owner of the shop goes in back and comes out with an absolutely g ... read full comment
A 70 year old man and a 25 year year old young woman walk into a very posh Rodeo Drive furrier. ''Show the lady your finest mink!'' the fellow exclaims. So the owner of the shop goes in back and comes out with an absolutely gorgeous full-length coat. As the lady tries it on, the furrier discreetly whispers to the man, ''Ah, sir, that particular fur goes for $65,000.''
''No problem! I'll write you a check!''
''Very good, sir.'' says the shop owner. ''Today is Saturday. You may come by on Monday to pick it up, after the check has cleared.''
So the man and the woman leave. On Monday, the fellow returns. The store owner is outraged, ''How dare you show your face in here?! There wasn't a single penny in your checking account!!''
''I just had to come by,'' grinned the guy, ''to thank you for the most wonderful weekend of my life"
EVEN MARRIED WOMEN IN THE CIVILIZED WORLD BECOME GOLD DIGGERS.
MANY WOMEN ARE IN MARRIAGE FOR THE MONEY AND PLEASURE.
c.o.sly 10 years ago
I have always believe in this,that woman should not give their self for sex just for a man to take care of u.both of us enjoy having sex when we do it.
I have always believe in this,that woman should not give their self for sex just for a man to take care of u.both of us enjoy having sex when we do it.
Bortear 10 years ago
Adam and Eve were tasked to take care of God's creation which requires teamwork. In teamwork all hands are on deck because there is a common goal to the benefit of all. 2Cor 8:13 says one should not be relieved and the other ... read full comment
Adam and Eve were tasked to take care of God's creation which requires teamwork. In teamwork all hands are on deck because there is a common goal to the benefit of all. 2Cor 8:13 says one should not be relieved and the other hard pressed but there should be a equality (balance). No wonder the Bible says in Ecclesiates 4:9-12 that two are better than one because they have a good return for their labour. Proverb 31 also says the woman contributes to the upkeep of the home.
From the above the conclusion is the both have to play their part in the relationship so none of them is unnecessarily stressed. How this is achieved is up to the two decide.
Li 10 years ago
Exquisite expose'.
Exquisite expose'.
********** 10 years ago
Hmmmmmm! Well observed, analized and presented.You made my day, guys.
Hmmmmmm! Well observed, analized and presented.You made my day, guys.
mothers love 10 years ago
U right dear God have mercy on us all.
U right dear God have mercy on us all.
AAD 10 years ago
You right 90% of women get married because of economic /financial benefits they get from the men and if the men get short of cash they leave them with all sort of excuses for another man.....
You right 90% of women get married because of economic /financial benefits they get from the men and if the men get short of cash they leave them with all sort of excuses for another man.....
Maame Birago 10 years ago
thank u for a well thought expose. U re right on point.
thank u for a well thought expose. U re right on point.
The "sky daddy" mentality where we expect a supernatural deity to come to our aid without lifting a finger is even worsening the situation.
This article also goes for our sisters and brothers who can hardly scrape a living but will have 10 children with 3 women each expecting an uncle who only wisely chose to have one wife and two kids to look after them even tho ...
read full comment
Your arguments are right on target. There was that lady who told me she'd rather prefer to remain single than date a guy who cannot provide what she needs; and I said yes! She can remain single for the rest of her life and wh ...
read full comment
ken u ar right on target,the funny thing is. we are not fixing the problem.
we v to change our attitude on everything we do. to be able to break poverty, our demand is greater than what we receive, we v apitite for big cars ...
read full comment
Men, Fathers please read this article and know that your daughters are all under cover prostitutes these days. The class one category is our daughters on the various university campuses. Fathers, do you visit your daughters o ...
read full comment
Men, Fathers please read this article and know that your daughters are all under cover prostitutes these days. The class one category is our daughters on the various university campuses. Fathers, do you visit your daughters o ...
read full comment
A 70 year old man and a 25 year year old young woman walk into a very posh Rodeo Drive furrier. ''Show the lady your finest mink!'' the fellow exclaims. So the owner of the shop goes in back and comes out with an absolutely g ...
read full comment
I have always believe in this,that woman should not give their self for sex just for a man to take care of u.both of us enjoy having sex when we do it.
Adam and Eve were tasked to take care of God's creation which requires teamwork. In teamwork all hands are on deck because there is a common goal to the benefit of all. 2Cor 8:13 says one should not be relieved and the other ...
read full comment
Exquisite expose'.
Hmmmmmm! Well observed, analized and presented.You made my day, guys.
U right dear God have mercy on us all.
You right 90% of women get married because of economic /financial benefits they get from the men and if the men get short of cash they leave them with all sort of excuses for another man.....
thank u for a well thought expose. U re right on point.