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• FREE RANGE PARENTING 1 year ago

  Nowadays parenting can be described as "FREE RANGE" -they bring the children into the world and after that it is up to only the mother to bring them up as best as they can.Mind you many women use men soley to father their ch ...
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  Nowadays parenting can be described as "FREE RANGE" -they bring the children into the world and after that it is up to only the mother to bring them up as best as they can.Mind you many women use men soley to father their children much the same way many animals do.
  Even where there are two parents under the same roof parenting is limited to feeding the kids,taking them to school,taking them to hospital or a clinic when they are unwell and that is it. Whether out of ignorance or because of indifference for many parents that is where parenting ends. The far more important task of shaping and TRAINING KIDS to eventually become responsible well balanced individuals is neglected.
  WE KNOW FROM COUNTLESS SOCIOLOGICAL STUDIES AND ALSO FROM OUR OWN EXPERIENCES GROWING UP THAT CHILDREN PICK UP HABITS,VALUES AND BELIEFS BY CLOSELY OBSERVING THEIR PARENTS BEHAVIOR IN THE REAL WORLD.
  Kids are extremely good at spotting hypocrisy, dishonesty and other harmful habits they see in their parents and other significant adults in their ives. For example children watching their parents treat each other disrespectfully,treat each other in an abusive way will often pick the same habits.Children will grow up concluding that you cannot lead an honest life and succeed in this world if they see Dad or Mom cheating others,deceiving other people and taking advantage of them. In the same way kids are quick to take note of great character traits in their parents, for example when they see their parents acting with honesty, in a principled manner and showing great integrity in a consistent manner.They will also appreciate the value of hard work when they see Dad and Mom working hard to earn a living. I REPEAT KIDS ARE GREAT IMITATORS AND 90% OF THEIR LEARNING COMES FROM THAT.
  Parents who fail to nurture their children by providing them with great role models through their own behavior will force their kids to turn for direction to their friends and to the great wilderness called internet and social media.
  Parents who invest wisely in their own children by providing and living out Godly values are giving their children the BEST GIFT EVER.
  These are the Children who Turn out to be a "BLESSING FROM THE LORD" because they had Godly parents to model their own lives after.

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