Lifestyle: Putting your hands behind you in public signifies weakness - Dzigbordi Dosoo

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• Padi 7 years ago

  Am a man and i do this all the time.i dont see anything wrong with this.

  Am a man and i do this all the time.i dont see anything wrong with this.

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• William 7 years ago

  You don't lose anything by stoping that habit but, she is telling u what it means globally so Oga just put ur hands on your side or in front. It's a free advice so take it simple. If our culture is wrong globally is wrong.

  You don't lose anything by stoping that habit but, she is telling u what it means globally so Oga just put ur hands on your side or in front. It's a free advice so take it simple. If our culture is wrong globally is wrong.

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• Aj 7 years ago

  William, pls give us a break with this rubbish she talking about. which global is talking about where,which country my people haba...is a lie....the whites Americans,Europeans prefer when you're talking to them you look strai ...
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  William, pls give us a break with this rubbish she talking about. which global is talking about where,which country my people haba...is a lie....the whites Americans,Europeans prefer when you're talking to them you look straight to their face with more eye to eye contact in oder to prove your point.the Queen of England and her son Charles mostly walk with their both hands cross at their back does it mean their scared of the people their walking with,body language differ from each other but confidence has non thing to do with how one pose to stand.you can put both hands on your side or front but your body language will show how strong or weak you're period.

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• Concerned 7 years ago

  Na true talk be dat. This William and that dosoo woman both no get sense. All they will achieve is a disintegrated society where instead of humility they want our women to project an arrogant posture.
  Dosoo is a cunt who se ...
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  Na true talk be dat. This William and that dosoo woman both no get sense. All they will achieve is a disintegrated society where instead of humility they want our women to project an arrogant posture.
  Dosoo is a cunt who seems to think any Ghanaian culture is inferior and now goes on to another level by lying about what goes on in other parts of the world to justify her ashawobehaviour. A confident person would be herself and be proud of her heritage
  Guess who was a guest. Another ashawo, daughter of a bastard.

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• Aba 7 years ago

  It doesn't matter where u keep ur hands. It is the way u project yourself the matters. I see putting your hands in front too as a sign of weekness. Why she wore black of all colours to program I dont understand but she was ...
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  It doesn't matter where u keep ur hands. It is the way u project yourself the matters. I see putting your hands in front too as a sign of weekness. Why she wore black of all colours to program I dont understand but she was nicely covered up.

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• DEE KAY 7 years ago

  I think am not in tune with this woman's assertion that 85% is about ur appearance.in the North Americas,your tecnical know-how is important than any appearance

  I think am not in tune with this woman's assertion that 85% is about ur appearance.in the North Americas,your tecnical know-how is important than any appearance

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• Pilolo 7 years ago

  Why would you put your hands behind your back? You can do when speaking to your parents at home but as an adult leave it behind. I'm the modern world especially outside villages like Ghana your confidence level, posture etc c ...
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  Why would you put your hands behind your back? You can do when speaking to your parents at home but as an adult leave it behind. I'm the modern world especially outside villages like Ghana your confidence level, posture etc counts. When speaking look the person in the eye not down and remove that damn hand from behind you.

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• Leslie 7 years ago

  Absolutely nothing wrong with having your hands behind you in public or private, whether man or woman. It just shows you're in complete charge and total control of whatever you're discussing, of your world. Just make sure you ...
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  Absolutely nothing wrong with having your hands behind you in public or private, whether man or woman. It just shows you're in complete charge and total control of whatever you're discussing, of your world. Just make sure you're making an intelligent, rational, logical contribution in the discussion. If you're an ignorant fool, it doesn't matter where your arms\hands are positioned you're a loser!

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• KWAKUWUSU 7 years ago

  The Woman is a Liar.
  What she said is not True!
  Where has she been living outside Ghana?

  The Woman is a Liar.
  What she said is not True!
  Where has she been living outside Ghana?

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• Heavenly 7 years ago

  When we forget our culture and think that confidence is all; we then say such things. It surprises me to see how we grave for strength and posture while we forget about quality and precision. Woman you got it wrong because ha ...
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  When we forget our culture and think that confidence is all; we then say such things. It surprises me to see how we grave for strength and posture while we forget about quality and precision. Woman you got it wrong because hands behind you does not mean that you are weak

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• kobooh 7 years ago

  Padi, it is sad that you still put your hands behind your back but still do not see anything wrong. Ever wondered why you are still on the same job, packing cars or driving a cab? That's the reason, right there! Sorry.

  Padi, it is sad that you still put your hands behind your back but still do not see anything wrong. Ever wondered why you are still on the same job, packing cars or driving a cab? That's the reason, right there! Sorry.

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• Osei Kofi 7 years ago

  What is being parking attendant or cabbie got to do with ones confidence. Just because you're corporate doesn't make you confident. You really need to grow up.

  What is being parking attendant or cabbie got to do with ones confidence. Just because you're corporate doesn't make you confident. You really need to grow up.

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• obesim 7 years ago

  You women's advocates think the only ideal woman is the corporate woman. Think of the millions of women struggling on daily basis in the sun at the market, farms, restaurants, etc etc. If those of you who have amassed wealth ...
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  You women's advocates think the only ideal woman is the corporate woman. Think of the millions of women struggling on daily basis in the sun at the market, farms, restaurants, etc etc. If those of you who have amassed wealth with you crooked husbands and fiancées in charge of our resources think where a woman rests her hands is what matters most, you have missed the point.

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• DIAMOND 7 years ago

  You are missing the point.
  Don't plant a thought in her mind that she did not conceive.
  
  She never said "the only ideal woman is the corporate woman".
  
  She is an expert addressing an issue in her field, ASSESSMENTS FOR R ...
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  You are missing the point.
  Don't plant a thought in her mind that she did not conceive.
  
  She never said "the only ideal woman is the corporate woman".
  
  She is an expert addressing an issue in her field, ASSESSMENTS FOR RECRUITMENT, DEVELOPMENT AND ADVANCEMENT.
  
  She is just advising our women who want to be corporate and how the world would view them.
  
  Even if you're condemned to the hot-sun farm or hot-sun market, her advice can still help.
  
  When we were growing up, we were taught throughout school that STANDING AT EASE (spreading your legs slightly and PUTTING YOUR HANDS AT THE BACK) was a sign of respect.
  
  Americans and their corporate partners throughout the world do what she is advising.
  
  The Brits, from whom we copied STAND AT EASE, still do that posture.
  
  We see the Queen, her Princes and Princesses, as well as her non-corporate-competing citizens, do it all the time.
  
  But we must take Dzigbordi's advice seriously and begin the transformation from STAND AT EASE to STAND WITH CONFIDENCE, slow as it shall surely be, because today's premier business/corporate/office culture is driven by the US, not the UK.
  
  If our girls want to advance, they must place their hands at the front or at the sides, and eschew any appearance of timidity.
  
  Well advised, Dzigbordi.

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• Eagle 7 years ago

  This is not true. What about wearing mini skirt and transparent butt, breast showing dresses to the public? What about young people insulting the elderly on radio? What about the kids swinging their waste on TV in the guise o ...
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  This is not true. What about wearing mini skirt and transparent butt, breast showing dresses to the public? What about young people insulting the elderly on radio? What about the kids swinging their waste on TV in the guise of culture? The hand is yours and you can do whatever you want with it except stealing. Very soon they will come out with how to pee in the public.

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• be careful 7 years ago

  we should be careful with this western habits and lifestyle that we copy blindly,
  Its liar in IT world, enginneering, accountancy, phamarceuticals and even in management. competencies and capabilties are crucial for busines ...
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  we should be careful with this western habits and lifestyle that we copy blindly,
  Its liar in IT world, enginneering, accountancy, phamarceuticals and even in management. competencies and capabilties are crucial for business growth and survival. but now a lady's body posture

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• Aba 7 years ago

  Thank you.some of these people who have access to platforms just misuse Iit by giving wrong influences on the innocent ones. Not long ago Otabil also attacked fufu on his pulpit. Ghanaians be wise so we don't help them to ...
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  Thank you.some of these people who have access to platforms just misuse Iit by giving wrong influences on the innocent ones. Not long ago Otabil also attacked fufu on his pulpit. Ghanaians be wise so we don't help them to impose and inject wrong things into our nation

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• Sexy Don Don 7 years ago

  Globacom Ghana and many Nigerian businesses thought fronting their outfits with beautiful do business growth magic. what do we see now with Glo? No serious investor would gamble with his/her investments when competence and ca ...
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  Globacom Ghana and many Nigerian businesses thought fronting their outfits with beautiful do business growth magic. what do we see now with Glo? No serious investor would gamble with his/her investments when competence and capability and quality of service is what drives business.

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• 1BreastBone 7 years ago

  Alakpat?. Military personnel lock their hands behind wen at ease, does dat signifies weakness? If yu don't have anything to say, don't say it here. #fya

  Alakpat?. Military personnel lock their hands behind wen at ease, does dat signifies weakness? If yu don't have anything to say, don't say it here. #fya

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• Kweku 7 years ago

  Much ado about nothing?

  Much ado about nothing?

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• Ndebugre 7 years ago

  I would have thought lime alone was sufficient. Why the need for ass? What about if you leave in a developed world, where ash is not freely available?

  I would have thought lime alone was sufficient. Why the need for ass? What about if you leave in a developed world, where ash is not freely available?

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• DIAMOND 7 years ago

  "What about if you leave in a developed world, where ash is not FREELY available?"
  
  Then you BUY it, brother, you BUY it!, or you install a wood stove or a hearth in your home, or buy it from a crematorium. Spooky, hei, but ...
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  "What about if you leave in a developed world, where ash is not FREELY available?"
  
  Then you BUY it, brother, you BUY it!, or you install a wood stove or a hearth in your home, or buy it from a crematorium. Spooky, hei, but if you insist that you need it, they may have pity on you and sell it to you.
  
  Note, Brother: You don't LEAVE in a place, you LIVE in a place, and get your ASS consistent with ASH.

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• Okukuseku 7 years ago

  What is she talking about. This was thought us by the British. Till today when a woman has to meet the queen she puts her hand on her back and curtsy with your hand on your back. Today anybody who has money talks nonsense bec ...
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  What is she talking about. This was thought us by the British. Till today when a woman has to meet the queen she puts her hand on her back and curtsy with your hand on your back. Today anybody who has money talks nonsense because they have power to talk.

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• DIAMOND 7 years ago

  We were not THOUGHT, we were TAUGHT.
  Let's get, at least, the BASICS right.

  We were not THOUGHT, we were TAUGHT.
  Let's get, at least, the BASICS right.

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• Kwame 7 years ago

  I do that all the time, the military does that and what's wrong. Shut up

  I do that all the time, the military does that and what's wrong. Shut up

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• SKIPER 7 years ago

  Look utterance of a speech is much powerful than gesture. You can keep your hands behind you but what comes out your mouth is much powerful. So spare me the nonsense.

  Look utterance of a speech is much powerful than gesture. You can keep your hands behind you but what comes out your mouth is much powerful. So spare me the nonsense.

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• Naa 7 years ago

  This is our problem in Africa, we seem to be copying everything from the west, globe and what else. Such nonsense you have gathered people and teaching them to change. I can't imagine why we seem to be throwing away our cultu ...
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  This is our problem in Africa, we seem to be copying everything from the west, globe and what else. Such nonsense you have gathered people and teaching them to change. I can't imagine why we seem to be throwing away our culture and adopting unecessary global nonsense. Lets keep what is working and bringing discipline into the our country and stop this copy cat nonsense

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• Joe Lartey 7 years ago

  Who is this writer,you mean we should ignore our Cultural Etiquette??

  Who is this writer,you mean we should ignore our Cultural Etiquette??

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• Amon 7 years ago

  ooooohhh nooooo....what a shame speech..

  ooooohhh nooooo....what a shame speech..

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• kojo 7 years ago

  moral degency paaaa nie, who lied to U.,?

  moral degency paaaa nie, who lied to U.,?

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• MEGA.COM 7 years ago

  madam, madam, please for this one, I wnever never buy it. Please come again. Why do modern day women want to be Lord over men? veery bad.

  madam, madam, please for this one, I wnever never buy it. Please come again. Why do modern day women want to be Lord over men? veery bad.

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• Agyemang 7 years ago

  this could be true maybe in her own culture not necessarily the natural case. communication whether verbal or nonverbal had a cultural implication. what is wrong here within culture may right in other culture. Right or wrong ...
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  this could be true maybe in her own culture not necessarily the natural case. communication whether verbal or nonverbal had a cultural implication. what is wrong here within culture may right in other culture. Right or wrong varies between cultures. She should learn to put her findings in contex.

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• Kofi Mensah 7 years ago

  is not true. Putting your hands behind has many interpretations depending on the the occasion and where you do it.

  is not true. Putting your hands behind has many interpretations depending on the the occasion and where you do it.

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• Ama Manchester 7 years ago

  What is she??. Body language expert?. I will put my hand behind me but l shall look you square in the eyes and show you confidence!

  What is she??. Body language expert?. I will put my hand behind me but l shall look you square in the eyes and show you confidence!

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• Ka Na Wu 7 years ago

  I don't think speaking with your hand behind you is a sign of weakness. Consider the following people.
  
  Prince Charles of the UK is known as someone who speaks his mind all the time and at times against protocol. But you ...
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  I don't think speaking with your hand behind you is a sign of weakness. Consider the following people.
  
  Prince Charles of the UK is known as someone who speaks his mind all the time and at times against protocol. But you see him most of the time with his hands behind him. Prince Philip is very blunt with whatever he wants to say and a have a whole book on his utterances which are usually forthright and blunt.
  When Southern Rhodesia (Zimbabwe) was negotiating independence from UK after the unilateral declaration of independence of Ian Smith, I keenly followed news of Rhodesia and noticed there was one of the leadership contestants who looked very shy in public and had his hands behind his back during press interviews, meetings and conferences. That leadership contestant is our own Papa Mugabe. Now tell me. Is President Mugabe is a weak leader?. I rest my case.

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• Chris 7 years ago

  Its your demeanour and the substances in one's delivery which to me determines whether or not he/she is weak. Your hand behind, beside or in infront has no reading into your speech.
  Come again

  Its your demeanour and the substances in one's delivery which to me determines whether or not he/she is weak. Your hand behind, beside or in infront has no reading into your speech.
  Come again

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• MAKA 7 years ago

  Most people commenting on this that there is nothing wrong with it only reside in Ghana. Every group has it way of life and living,hence it is allowed in Ghana as part of our culture but as soon as you leave the borders of Gh ...
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  Most people commenting on this that there is nothing wrong with it only reside in Ghana. Every group has it way of life and living,hence it is allowed in Ghana as part of our culture but as soon as you leave the borders of Ghana please leave that behind. Stand boldly with hands on your side and head high. That behavior of putting your hand behind you shows that you are WEAK, LACK CONFIDENCE,YOU SEE YOURSELF LESS etc people in the western world will walkover you like a door mat. Some these so-called traditions are archaic in this dispensation of globalization and mobility of labor. If you remember as a kid watching tv or Ghanaian where the maid servant or watch man ( gate man) of the house stoops slightly to the madam or sir of the house has brainwashed Ghanaians. God created man in his likeness and you can be become everything you dream to be with hardwork. There are other ways to be nice, polite,courteous and what have you but putting your hands behind you is to regard yourself as second class.

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• Aba 7 years ago

  U hv problems with your self esteem plz get it sorted.

  U hv problems with your self esteem plz get it sorted.

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• efo kwesi 7 years ago

  she is talking crap, our tradition has nothing to do with self assertiveness but it portrays the grooming of the lady and her background

  she is talking crap, our tradition has nothing to do with self assertiveness but it portrays the grooming of the lady and her background

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• MAKA 7 years ago

  Tradition? LOL Keep that crap in Ghana or Africa not in the western world. Off course, there are times we rest our hands on our back when in deep thought that is even when you are alone not when talking to people.

  Tradition? LOL Keep that crap in Ghana or Africa not in the western world. Off course, there are times we rest our hands on our back when in deep thought that is even when you are alone not when talking to people.

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• Osei Kofi 7 years ago

  Mr or Ms Follow follow. You go follow follow and fall into a ditch.

  Mr or Ms Follow follow. You go follow follow and fall into a ditch.

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• Abenaa 7 years ago

  Whether they're in Japan or outside Japan. And l think Koreans too! And that is no sign of weakness or a lack of confidence! Maka, you're ignorant!

  Whether they're in Japan or outside Japan. And l think Koreans too! And that is no sign of weakness or a lack of confidence! Maka, you're ignorant!

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• fijifuuji 7 years ago

  So wht about the military and police force who stand at ease
  And their hands at their back?
  Is that weakness?
  My sis, pls think through again.

  So wht about the military and police force who stand at ease
  And their hands at their back?
  Is that weakness?
  My sis, pls think through again.

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• Afua 7 years ago

  Where is the out cry for Ghana woman who was beheaded by her boss in Saudi Arabia

  Where is the out cry for Ghana woman who was beheaded by her boss in Saudi Arabia

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• GHANA FORAY 7 years ago

  Humility yes but weakness I don't agree I know a professor Good who owns one of the most powerful and successful university in Ghana yet he dose that a lot dose it mean he is weak? Let's try and draw the line between humilit ...
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  Humility yes but weakness I don't agree I know a professor Good who owns one of the most powerful and successful university in Ghana yet he dose that a lot dose it mean he is weak? Let's try and draw the line between humility and weakness

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• kwame 7 years ago

  dear madam dosoo, please go slow on this global thing. our good cultural practice is good enough for us. if it is not considered weak for japanese to bow why worry about ours.

  dear madam dosoo, please go slow on this global thing. our good cultural practice is good enough for us. if it is not considered weak for japanese to bow why worry about ours.

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