Lydia Forson writes: When the Counselor needs counselling

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Umef 7 years ago

Thanks Lydia for making this sensible analysis. It's time he was brought to order because even though in his mind he is helping people,he is equally causingredients harm and pain to others .I wonder how we will term his styl ...
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Thanks Lydia for making this sensible analysis. It's time he was brought to order because even though in his mind he is helping people,he is equally causingredients harm and pain to others .I wonder how we will term his style of counselling.
GIVE US A BREAK! 7 years ago

and who is she again? de bribe she took from jdm n ndc don finish abi? give us a break n go get a man!

and who is she again? de bribe she took from jdm n ndc don finish abi? give us a break n go get a man!
Sis 7 years ago

stfu...Where u there when she took the bribe? Freaking haters...

stfu...Where u there when she took the bribe? Freaking haters...
Steve 7 years ago

Shutup and give us a break she is wonderful lady with Wisdom.

Shutup and give us a break she is wonderful lady with Wisdom.
BB 7 years ago

Just because she did not come out shouting support for Nana? Must everyone support Nana? Are we all the same?Nonsense!

Just because she did not come out shouting support for Nana? Must everyone support Nana? Are we all the same?Nonsense!
BB 7 years ago

Corrections.

Corrections.
Kwaku Yeboah 7 years ago

Wise girl.. That guy needs serious counselling. If I was not married I would have married you. You are my kind of a woman, professional,loving and deep in mind, which would make for good intellectual discussions plus you are ...
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Wise girl.. That guy needs serious counselling. If I was not married I would have married you. You are my kind of a woman, professional,loving and deep in mind, which would make for good intellectual discussions plus you are beautiful. Keep up don't mind anybody whether we will marry or not is in the hands of God but we need to live our lives to Praise him. Triumphant Christian living is required for both single and married
3dem 7 years ago

A thousand likes for this write up Lydia.....

A thousand likes for this write up Lydia.....
francis kwarteng 7 years ago

Has Lydia Forson now refrained from her harlotism, that she is now preaching to the World or what might be biting her now?

francis kwarteng, Ghanaweb/Modernghana Columnist.
franciskkwarteng@yahoo.com

Has Lydia Forson now refrained from her harlotism, that she is now preaching to the World or what might be biting her now?

francis kwarteng, Ghanaweb/Modernghana Columnist.
franciskkwarteng@yahoo.com
Djakah - Akuse 7 years ago

See who is writing this long tale with no sense in it . Excuse us . U think ghanaians have forgetten ur public nausance after hauling some unprecedented attack on a bishop .
U have come a long way in movie industry and u r ...
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See who is writing this long tale with no sense in it . Excuse us . U think ghanaians have forgetten ur public nausance after hauling some unprecedented attack on a bishop .
U have come a long way in movie industry and u re aging too in appearance . Stop sleeping around with this Nigerian men and find a suitable respectable man to settle as husband .
Counselor lutterodt is right for making the world know that " energy girls " re gold diggers and opportunistic . Celebrities girls in ghana have become like snakes with venoms ready to bite any time their private life is revealed. Being a celebrity is like an album displayed at the national museum where any person can go there and flip through and comment . So this girl - forson should give us a break and leave counselor ludderodt alone .
We re ready to give our unflinching support to to counsellor since he has not err in any circumstance. Counsellor is a straight - forward talker , thinker and most celebrated counselor in this 21st century . Respect .
minau 7 years ago

Aboa...IT your Ashawo mother who sleeps with Nigerian men

..She has the right to date whoever she likes...mtcheew

Aboa...IT your Ashawo mother who sleeps with Nigerian men

..She has the right to date whoever she likes...mtcheew
Well done Lydia 7 years ago

All that these empty brains know is to call women prostitutes in their lame attempt to discredit women or their opinion when it doesn't suit them. Look at another fool too..if you also think marriage is all you need to be res ...
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All that these empty brains know is to call women prostitutes in their lame attempt to discredit women or their opinion when it doesn't suit them. Look at another fool too..if you also think marriage is all you need to be respected or to be able to express an objective opinion then your brain is worthless..Donate it brain for research wai.
Yodea 7 years ago

Well done for showing how dumb you can be..
Gold medal for u

Well done for showing how dumb you can be..
Gold medal for u
EDDIE 7 years ago

Lydia, you are right, I think. This so-called counselor is a threat to the psychological well being of the unsuspecting public. The earlier these platforms advise themselves to offer professional counseling to their listeners ...
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Lydia, you are right, I think. This so-called counselor is a threat to the psychological well being of the unsuspecting public. The earlier these platforms advise themselves to offer professional counseling to their listeners the better. This is just a cheap attention seeking self styled counselor who is not busy with work and has ample time to wade into or be present in any discussion at any time. Our media must be circumspect and not bask in the glory of denigrating members of the public all in the name of press freedom. Are we not told that freedom goes with responsibilities? When the media claims to hold persons accountable they prevent themselves being held accountable. I do not blame this unwise counselor. It is those who offer him the microphones who are most irresponsible. This is what I call the dictatorship of the media!
Akua Mansah 7 years ago

I entirely agree with this exquisite write up. It's only Ghana.that people like this have a platform to misinform

Lydia thanks for your frank analysis

I entirely agree with this exquisite write up. It's only Ghana.that people like this have a platform to misinform

Lydia thanks for your frank analysis
Onipanua ???????? 7 years ago

I agree with you totally on how he deliver his message they are sometimes harsh but he speaks the truth. Let's be truthful, the young lady called ghanaiandiva can be Mr Adjorlolo's daughter. Infact she is too youn for the old ...
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I agree with you totally on how he deliver his message they are sometimes harsh but he speaks the truth. Let's be truthful, the young lady called ghanaiandiva can be Mr Adjorlolo's daughter. Infact she is too youn for the old man. The proberlility of them divorcing after about 10 years is 99.9% so why then should she go in to it in the first place.
Abena 7 years ago

The probability of them divorcing is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! That's what most of you Ghanaians fail to understand. It's her life and her choice! Who made you judge???

The probability of them divorcing is NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! That's what most of you Ghanaians fail to understand. It's her life and her choice! Who made you judge???
Kweku trouble 7 years ago

What was the age difference between Celine Dion and her husband? Yet they had a good marriage and never divorced. Stfu!!

What was the age difference between Celine Dion and her husband? Yet they had a good marriage and never divorced. Stfu!!
daffodils kim 7 years ago

Perfect analysis....this is a splendid write up......it's high time everyone realised the harm he's caused..

Perfect analysis....this is a splendid write up......it's high time everyone realised the harm he's caused..
kofi adu 7 years ago

cheap mf are you sitting on a motorbike? celebrities don't photo shop this way. your career is ruined upon falling.do it better next time. in a plane.

cheap mf are you sitting on a motorbike? celebrities don't photo shop this way. your career is ruined upon falling.do it better next time. in a plane.
minau 7 years ago

She isn't complaining..so why are u so pained? Go do something with your life and leave her alone...Loser...and for a guy u talk too much

She isn't complaining..so why are u so pained? Go do something with your life and leave her alone...Loser...and for a guy u talk too much
surgy 7 years ago

Who the hell is this lady? What does she do for a living? Is she one of those so-called celebrities in Ghana? If YES then no doubt that wrote this non sense piece

Who the hell is this lady? What does she do for a living? Is she one of those so-called celebrities in Ghana? If YES then no doubt that wrote this non sense piece
minau 7 years ago

oh stfu..You don't know her but clicked on an article with her name....Who in your family can write like she does? ..smfh..Hater.

oh stfu..You don't know her but clicked on an article with her name....Who in your family can write like she does? ..smfh..Hater.
Adoley 7 years ago

Much respect for you Lydia.

Much respect for you Lydia.
kingdero 7 years ago

Aawww Lydia I'm short of words ur Dad must be proud of u

Aawww Lydia I'm short of words ur Dad must be proud of u
lucy 7 years ago

Ms.Forson the best defense is offense. Don't worry we all know you belongs the Nana Aba's group. But hey! It's your life. I respect you for that. But don't try to underate someone's credentials if you not sure. Thanks.

Ms.Forson the best defense is offense. Don't worry we all know you belongs the Nana Aba's group. But hey! It's your life. I respect you for that. But don't try to underate someone's credentials if you not sure. Thanks.
3dem 7 years ago

You sound shallow and unintelligent

You sound shallow and unintelligent
Still 7 years ago

Take your time.Body with Brains .Marriage is not a race.Still will take a conversation with u anyday.

Take your time.Body with Brains .Marriage is not a race.Still will take a conversation with u anyday.
Alexis 7 years ago

I think someone needs to call this attention seeker to order.... And Lydia has been bold to state it as it is. Most times, this self-styled counsellor is just shouting illogical theories and thinks that he is making sense. ...
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I think someone needs to call this attention seeker to order.... And Lydia has been bold to state it as it is. Most times, this self-styled counsellor is just shouting illogical theories and thinks that he is making sense. Freedom of speech does not mean freedom to advertise ones hallowness and think that everyone is thrilled. Pls quit the bofoonary and wise up. We are feed up.
Steve 7 years ago

Thanks lydia you such a wonderful lady stay blessed always.

Thanks lydia you such a wonderful lady stay blessed always.
Kofi 7 years ago

Continue to write;those who can't appreciate the intellect in your write-ups will continue to insult because that is their level of understanding.

Continue to write;those who can't appreciate the intellect in your write-ups will continue to insult because that is their level of understanding.
TZ 7 years ago

A GOOD OPINION

A GOOD OPINION
kweku 7 years ago

Mahama fuck her silly girl

Mahama fuck her silly girl
kweku 7 years ago

what celebrity. Tweaa this cheap Ghana girls Nkrasi celebrities

what celebrity. Tweaa this cheap Ghana girls Nkrasi celebrities
joe boyy 7 years ago

not counselling woo, deliverance

not counselling woo, deliverance
ATYCO #ONE THE CITIZEN! 7 years ago

Lutherrodt may be bad but let me tell you Forson Lydia, if your father is Very Rev. and counsellor as you claim, then you have been brought up the bad way. I wander the counsel your so-called Rev father gives to people who go ...
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Lutherrodt may be bad but let me tell you Forson Lydia, if your father is Very Rev. and counsellor as you claim, then you have been brought up the bad way. I wander the counsel your so-called Rev father gives to people who go to him. You look chunky and chumpy. You look like a woman in her 50s per your skin. Ghanaian women of today! Hmmm!!! Many many of them look like there are in their grannyhood. Ladies of 20s looks like they are in their 50s, 40s like 70s, 50s have become 80s of nannies by force. God help us. Marriage makes one very responsible and hope your so-called Rev Father has told you that so it is better for you to consider that and stop this your filthy fame and celebrity status you girls claim you are. I don't know the minds you have and who has been advising you so-called girls and celebrities.
Nkrumah 7 years ago

This so-called counsellor has been given the platform to cause psychological damage to many people. The only way to stop his stupidity is for an aggrieved party to sue the hell out of him in a civil lawsuit. Any human rights ...
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This so-called counsellor has been given the platform to cause psychological damage to many people. The only way to stop his stupidity is for an aggrieved party to sue the hell out of him in a civil lawsuit. Any human rights lawyer can easily bring him down for him to stop all the nonsense. Where did he obtain his so-called counselling from? Which university awarded him his qualification? Which association is he registered and/or associated with? Like these so-called modern Ghanaian "prophets", this man is not only a con-man but a charlatan who is preying on the frustrations many people are going through. To hell with his nonsense.
Calvin 7 years ago

the lady's father has nothing to do with this please, so don't insult him.

the lady's father has nothing to do with this please, so don't insult him.
Uncle Jonathan 7 years ago

Eno Lydia, thanks so much for this piece. I can`t agree with you more. Actually I felt so sad someone should think he has authority to disgrace someone on social media just because she has chosen to love someone older than he ...
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Eno Lydia, thanks so much for this piece. I can`t agree with you more. Actually I felt so sad someone should think he has authority to disgrace someone on social media just because she has chosen to love someone older than her. I felt so sorry for that lady but if someone noticed, the counselor and all those in the studio were enjoying the sad situation at he expence of the "poor lady". I am a trained Pastor and I know how we should go about counselling. No trained counselor has the right to impose his opinion on someone. What is councelling anyway? It is just advising and guiding and you don`t have the right to impose your opinion on the people who come to you. What this guy did was TOTALLY wrong. He went beyound his boundaries and he should apologise to this lady and her to-be husband. I hope he would be very careful next time. DID THE WOMAN SEEK HIS OPINION ON HER RELATIONSHIP ANYWAY? Thanks, my sister for hitting the nail exactly on the head and God bless you for your boldness.
ICANTBREATHE. 7 years ago

How old is Lydia Forson ?, I am totally head over heels for her . Am moving back to Ghana after a very long time living in America, it will be a pleasure just to meet this wonderful lady of class and character . I love the s ...
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How old is Lydia Forson ?, I am totally head over heels for her . Am moving back to Ghana after a very long time living in America, it will be a pleasure just to meet this wonderful lady of class and character . I love the straight arrow way she puts her points accross . Miss Forson, you are an asset to Ghana and you deserve to heard and appreciated . I commend to keep doing what u do and even more . Ghana needs writers like you . Please keep up the good work . More grease to your elbow and am your number one fan .
Del 7 years ago

One of the beautiful,and sensibly article.Wise lady,how can a educated counsellor behave in this way.And you were right again,as a proverb in Twi says ( de3 oto oboo abo anomaa no ny3 y3 s3 Dee Ogyina fom se nana gyine) Those ...
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One of the beautiful,and sensibly article.Wise lady,how can a educated counsellor behave in this way.And you were right again,as a proverb in Twi says ( de3 oto oboo abo anomaa no ny3 y3 s3 Dee Ogyina fom se nana gyine) Those who give this stupid person the platform they should be blame
wissy 7 years ago

That's his opinion not a fact

That's his opinion not a fact
Malik 7 years ago

Please stop calling him counselor.

Please stop calling him counselor.
Concern citizen 7 years ago

Seriously, Ghanaians have you heard of the the phrase ' mind your business' if the young actress wants to marry an older person how is it your business. I know for a fact that she will not be the first person. Please, I beg, ...
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Seriously, Ghanaians have you heard of the the phrase ' mind your business' if the young actress wants to marry an older person how is it your business. I know for a fact that she will not be the first person. Please, I beg, she is old enough to make her own decisions whether good or bad.
Miss Forson you are on point
PEDS 7 years ago

I NEED A REPLY MY FELLOW GHANAIANS; ok WHY WILL A WOMAN IN HER TWENTIES AGREE TO GO OUT WITH A MAN IN HIS SIXTIES???(HIS FATHER'S AGE) IT IS POVERTY,SEX OR LOVE? BECAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF HARDWORKING,ENERGERTIC,STRONG IN BED ...
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I NEED A REPLY MY FELLOW GHANAIANS; ok WHY WILL A WOMAN IN HER TWENTIES AGREE TO GO OUT WITH A MAN IN HIS SIXTIES???(HIS FATHER'S AGE) IT IS POVERTY,SEX OR LOVE? BECAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF HARDWORKING,ENERGERTIC,STRONG IN BED AND HANDSOME YOUNG MEN OUT THERE. I NEED AN ANSWER MY FRIENDS
Mankwadze 7 years ago

BE BRAVE AND ASK THE WOMEN !!!

BE BRAVE AND ASK THE WOMEN !!!
KP 7 years ago

WHO IS THIS STUPID FAT UGLY GIRL .GHANA PAA DE3

WHO IS THIS STUPID FAT UGLY GIRL .GHANA PAA DE3
Mankwadze 7 years ago

And your point is ??????

And your point is ??????
90 7 years ago

ANOTHER PROSTITUTE

ANOTHER PROSTITUTE
Mankwadze 7 years ago

Is that the only english description you can manage ? Please try a Ghanainan language. You may be able to use a better adjetive to convey your thought !!

Is that the only english description you can manage ? Please try a Ghanainan language. You may be able to use a better adjetive to convey your thought !!
Mike 7 years ago

This lady is as intelligent as she is beautiful.

This lady is as intelligent as she is beautiful.
NON-ALIGNED 7 years ago

Lydia, I totally agree with you on this.

I am also of the opinion that the counselor is an attention seeker, if not all that you have sensibly outlined.

Apart from his so-called outrageous counselling.......his dancing ...
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Lydia, I totally agree with you on this.

I am also of the opinion that the counselor is an attention seeker, if not all that you have sensibly outlined.

Apart from his so-called outrageous counselling.......his dancing is more to be desired with. A real attention seeker indeed! And he continually dances offbeat to any type of music being played. I wonder!

It's very important he gets examined by a psychologist and I am not being mean in that respect. I am being very serious in this regard.

There are so many people who are 'psychologically imbalanced' but walking around in suits in Ghana but, somehow seem to command respect. And it's not because of their knowledge but, solely because of his suit and his or her English-speaking.

Please take time to observe many of such people in Ghana and you will understand where I am coming from.

The counselor definitely needs help.
Lydia......well said!

GOD BLESS GHANA!
AFRICAN FOREVER!
NII GA 7 years ago

THE MAN NEED HELP TOO,

THE MAN NEED HELP TOO,
Yodea 7 years ago

Thanks to our likes he has the fame and like you said, media houses are capitalising on it... I only heae his name and don't know much about him cos his first audio I listened to put me off for i didn't get how a "counsellor" ...
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Thanks to our likes he has the fame and like you said, media houses are capitalising on it... I only heae his name and don't know much about him cos his first audio I listened to put me off for i didn't get how a "counsellor" could be soo dumb.

Hardly follow him and I'd urge us all to also ignore his theatrics and by so doing his ratings drop and he becomes a "useless tool" for the media
Ksam 7 years ago

Thumps up for your article

Thumps up for your article
EDUARDO DOMINGO 7 years ago

LEAVE THE COUNSELOR ALONE HE IS MERCURIAL, AND JUST INTERESTING, HIS CREED MAY WORK FOR SOME PEOPLE CERTAINLY NOT ALL! HE IS USEFUL IN LIFE, AS HE HELPS TO MASTURBATE THE MINDS OF ALL WHO CARES TO LISTEN, BUT HE NOT BORING!!

LEAVE THE COUNSELOR ALONE HE IS MERCURIAL, AND JUST INTERESTING, HIS CREED MAY WORK FOR SOME PEOPLE CERTAINLY NOT ALL! HE IS USEFUL IN LIFE, AS HE HELPS TO MASTURBATE THE MINDS OF ALL WHO CARES TO LISTEN, BUT HE NOT BORING!!
Calvin 7 years ago

I really don't understand why people like that(counseler) should be given an attention. I pity those who call on him for counselling.

I really don't understand why people like that(counseler) should be given an attention. I pity those who call on him for counselling.
jomo 7 years ago

Well said, Lydia.
A great write up. Indeed, this is one piece of writing coming from you that I have really liked.
You have spoken for the voiceless.

Well said, Lydia.
A great write up. Indeed, this is one piece of writing coming from you that I have really liked.
You have spoken for the voiceless.
gakumontaho 7 years ago

Gaku will fuck ur brains out one day. U wait.

Gaku will fuck ur brains out one day. U wait.
When it involves you? 7 years ago

TRULY A DANIEL IN WISDOM

TRULY A DANIEL IN WISDOM
kay 7 years ago

Alot of grammatical offences in your write-up. Just a little time to read over or edit could have done your readers some good..

Alot of grammatical offences in your write-up. Just a little time to read over or edit could have done your readers some good..

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