Lifestyle: I lost my marriage in building my career

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• Kaakie 7 years ago

  Sad. And is advice is to all ladies. I'm personally thinking of this whole house help issue bcz you can only be on leave maximum of 6months that's when you are in the gov't sector. Private sector is 3months also. How then wil ...
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  Sad. And is advice is to all ladies. I'm personally thinking of this whole house help issue bcz you can only be on leave maximum of 6months that's when you are in the gov't sector. Private sector is 3months also. How then will you keep the baby and the difficult aspect is when you give birth to twins. Bcz your mum or mum-inlaw might also be a worker, an aged or even deceased.#On the funny side you shd have arranged for macho men to come and pack her away when your husband wasn't around and immediately try making the amends.

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• Kofifi 7 years ago

  sister (hope you are a woman), this happens when you take things for granted. it was not indicated in the write up whether the husband had a talk with her and she ignored him or not. as a person if your significant other does ...
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  sister (hope you are a woman), this happens when you take things for granted. it was not indicated in the write up whether the husband had a talk with her and she ignored him or not. as a person if your significant other doesnt seem to complain about something you know you are doing wrong then his/her attention is some where and you have to probe. in your situation, there are day cares all over who even take one month old babies. it maybe difficult for you as a mother but do you have any better suggestion?

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• Raoe 7 years ago

  it was good she sacrificed her marriage for her job than otherwise. It is very difficult getting job now than marriage. She still has her job and is remarried.
  Human beings are human beings. We have read only her side of th ...
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  it was good she sacrificed her marriage for her job than otherwise. It is very difficult getting job now than marriage. She still has her job and is remarried.
  Human beings are human beings. We have read only her side of the story. I am unable to condemn the ex husband but my thinking is that it is difficult to find love therefore if the ex husband really found love in the housekeeper, so be it. Everyone is looking for happiness in life and marriage vows are nothing but recited words

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• NANA 7 years ago

  GOOD LESSON.I HOPE ALL WOMEN OF TODAY WOULD LEARN FROM THIS.

  GOOD LESSON.I HOPE ALL WOMEN OF TODAY WOULD LEARN FROM THIS.

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• BJ 7 years ago

  The man is cheap.He doesn't undersatnd marriage.

  The man is cheap.He doesn't undersatnd marriage.

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• Your Auntie-Cece 7 years ago

  Please do not blame the househelp. The husband could easily have taken another woman FROM outside IF the wife neglects her marital duties. Women should simply learn to take care of their husbands otherwise another woman will. ...
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  Please do not blame the househelp. The husband could easily have taken another woman FROM outside IF the wife neglects her marital duties. Women should simply learn to take care of their husbands otherwise another woman will.PERIOD.

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