I think your feature article appeared one-sided without apportioning any responsibility to the women. Yes, men are always on the hunt, but women are by far the "encourager" of the man's action. Here's an example. A lady I kno ... read full comment
I think your feature article appeared one-sided without apportioning any responsibility to the women. Yes, men are always on the hunt, but women are by far the "encourager" of the man's action. Here's an example. A lady I know subtly encouraged a married man into a relation with her, and when the man after realizing his follies abandoned the relationship, evil acts was perpetuated against him by this same woman. I think Julia knew something about Jaden, yet threw caution into the wind and went in for him, probably because of the economic gains.
AFENA 9 years ago
GENICURE! WU BEDI AFEELI FEELI
GENICURE! WU BEDI AFEELI FEELI
Willie 9 years ago
Well said, Jojo
Well said, Jojo
Eagle's Eyes 9 years ago
Some ladies will show disrespect to the man, asking whether the man thinks it is bcos of all the things they buy for the her that is why the man is being inquisitive or showing jealousy? There was a lady I was dating until so ... read full comment
Some ladies will show disrespect to the man, asking whether the man thinks it is bcos of all the things they buy for the her that is why the man is being inquisitive or showing jealousy? There was a lady I was dating until some 6 weeks ago. Never had sex with her. Bought her food any time she called to say she was hungry. Got accommodation and raw food and provisions for her last year when she had been rejected by her female friends and she was sleeping in a kiosk at the mercy of mosquitoes and the weather. Once she doesnt get her request met she will text rudely and express her anger.The last time, when she requested a meal and I took it to her, I met a young guy in her room. The two were watching video on her TV. When I enquired who the guy was she said he was a church member. I expected her to excuse the guy to go, but she stuck to her guns. Eventually I left the room, intending never to return. Ten days later she posts a pix of a man on her Whatsapp pp: 'People who treat her like that will regret their actions. They should watch out'. Lady writer, what do you say about such ladies? Ingrates, gold diggers, scoundrels?
azure 9 years ago
tit for tat
tit for tat
Joe'D 9 years ago
you hit the nail right on the head...couldn't agree more
you hit the nail right on the head...couldn't agree more
Apraku 9 years ago
Excuse me what about men who devote their time, energy and love for these women , who at the end leave these humble guys who meant sharing their loves with these goddamm women who doesn't know any shame running from one man t ... read full comment
Excuse me what about men who devote their time, energy and love for these women , who at the end leave these humble guys who meant sharing their loves with these goddamm women who doesn't know any shame running from one man to the another?
Women are the most dangerous creatures of mankind.Guys don't trust them , don't share your love with them, when you can woo them to open their legs, jump inbetween , enjoy and find your way . It serves them right.
Sam 9 years ago
Must every sex act with a lady result in marriage?
Must every sex act with a lady result in marriage?
Omanhene 9 years ago
Please men show some respect to women.
Please men show some respect to women.
IG@quophi_gh 9 years ago
on de more ceriox note...dude dis ur comment makes so much sense oo lol; naw girls hav no shame chaley! dey dont cease to disappoint; for the writer; idont know for her....why its always abt girls dese days anyways;
on de more ceriox note...dude dis ur comment makes so much sense oo lol; naw girls hav no shame chaley! dey dont cease to disappoint; for the writer; idont know for her....why its always abt girls dese days anyways;
Inusa Mekuka 9 years ago
Julia loved the man's money and not the man himself. Therefore, it was fair for the man also to aim for the cake and not love Julia. If a lady is dating a man and all she wants is money money, expensive this, expensive that, ... read full comment
Julia loved the man's money and not the man himself. Therefore, it was fair for the man also to aim for the cake and not love Julia. If a lady is dating a man and all she wants is money money, expensive this, expensive that, why would you think of marrying her? Fair trade. You show a man that your cake is for sale, he'll buy, eat and move to then next restaurant. Simple as that. Next time, she should show a man genuine love, and not give the impression that it's his money she loves. That way she will also be able to resist sexual advances and stay sane enough to tell if the man loves her genuinely. Chances are that the man may respect and eventually love her truly for marriage. Men don't generally consider gold diggers as marriage material
Code 2 9 years ago
l believe the distance between the laday's home town and dubai can be thousands of miles away, if the man can afford to take to Dubai why can't he take her to her parent. if your parents take you to school and you decide to t ... read full comment
l believe the distance between the laday's home town and dubai can be thousands of miles away, if the man can afford to take to Dubai why can't he take her to her parent. if your parents take you to school and you decide to take the bride price for yourself this is what you get. She must count herself lucky if she hasn't got any STD. why the women of today like to take what is due to their parents?
Inusa Mekuka 9 years ago
What about the women who dangle their 'cake' and deceive men to take their money and dump them? What about those who knowingly sleep with a married man hoping that he will dump his wife for her? If Julia gave in to the man th ... read full comment
What about the women who dangle their 'cake' and deceive men to take their money and dump them? What about those who knowingly sleep with a married man hoping that he will dump his wife for her? If Julia gave in to the man then she knew the man was spending that much for her cake and she wanted it to continue that way. In any situation where goods or services are sold, you don't expect the client to come all the time. I go to expensive restaurants. I pay the price and eat but the restaurant should not expect me to stick around all the time. if you choose to sell your cake to the highest bidder, why cry if the bidder also takes a commercial attitude to things. A good girl would have been refraining from asking the man for gifts and showing genuine love for the man and not for his money.
KKchii 9 years ago
maybe Julia's p*ssy didnt 'taste sweet' enough. There are so many reasons why the man may have left the girl. sorry for her,but better luck next time. Wait till after marriage before allowing the next man to sleep with u.
maybe Julia's p*ssy didnt 'taste sweet' enough. There are so many reasons why the man may have left the girl. sorry for her,but better luck next time. Wait till after marriage before allowing the next man to sleep with u.
pele 9 years ago
Wo Gud piece after sex we now look at attitude lol
Wo Gud piece after sex we now look at attitude lol
bongo 9 years ago
AFTER SEX YOU MOVE TO THE NEXT CATCH..THATS ABOUT IT..THE SAME WAY WOMEN USE WHAT THEY HAVE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT.
AFTER SEX YOU MOVE TO THE NEXT CATCH..THATS ABOUT IT..THE SAME WAY WOMEN USE WHAT THEY HAVE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT.
Vicky 9 years ago
You are being immature, learn how to be a man and try to grow up, cause i sense your lack of consciousness.
I hope one day you will fall in love and realize how it feels like when someone walks out of your life.
You are being immature, learn how to be a man and try to grow up, cause i sense your lack of consciousness.
I hope one day you will fall in love and realize how it feels like when someone walks out of your life.
NANA PROMISY 9 years ago
This is the 2nd time I have seen this very important question. Any woman of substance need to ask this pertinent question. 97% of the time, guys just want to get into a girl's panties and that's the end.
This is the 2nd time I have seen this very important question. Any woman of substance need to ask this pertinent question. 97% of the time, guys just want to get into a girl's panties and that's the end.
Assa 9 years ago
Good article keep it up
Good article keep it up
k, no problem, a 9 years ago
There are so many reasons. So many that it is useless to recount or think that there is any answer to your question. But not that there are different men and there are different women.
There are so many reasons. So many that it is useless to recount or think that there is any answer to your question. But not that there are different men and there are different women.
king b 9 years ago
Those of us who do thebright thing to,are cheatedby the women
Those of us who do thebright thing to,are cheatedby the women
junior k 9 years ago
I share the same sentiment@king b
I share the same sentiment@king b
NANA PROMISY 9 years ago
Asabea, welcome to the real world. The world isn't a fair place. It isn't at all. Tell your friend as painful as her experience has been, she should try and move on. It might happen to her again and again before she finally m ... read full comment
Asabea, welcome to the real world. The world isn't a fair place. It isn't at all. Tell your friend as painful as her experience has been, she should try and move on. It might happen to her again and again before she finally marries. Life isn't fair. Life can be really cruel to even the most "righteous" and pious ones. Such is life.
Some years back, I was in a situation where I could have had my way with a lady friend of mine. We were that close, very very close. We did stuff but no penetration ever happened. Some years after, I was surprised to heat what this lady friend had to say. I regretted not fucking her but at the same time I kept telling myself "do you know what you would have gotten if you had had your way with her"? Guys, don't regret if you haven't had your way with a girl you know or are close with. Life is full of events, both bad and good.
NANA PROMISY 9 years ago
I was surprised to HEAR what this lady friend had to say.
I was surprised to HEAR what this lady friend had to say.
DON CALI 9 years ago
If it happens to her again, then she's really stupid. I wouldn't blame any guy. What is it that makes a girl decide to open up her legs for a guy who has not even paid her bride price. Maybe she also wanted the sex badly a ... read full comment
If it happens to her again, then she's really stupid. I wouldn't blame any guy. What is it that makes a girl decide to open up her legs for a guy who has not even paid her bride price. Maybe she also wanted the sex badly and couldn't control her urges. If that is the case, then they've both enjoyed and the guy had even paid her for the sex with all those expensive gifts, so what's her problem?
Girls of today are too materialistic. Sometimes they see the writing clearly on the wall, but still don't listen to advise. If she's serious, she would insist on a "no sex without marriage policy". Otherwise it will surely happen to her again and again. And sorry to say this, but she would deserve it.
Payaa 9 years ago
Great piece. This is a question I have asked myself several times. After sex what next?
Great piece. This is a question I have asked myself several times. After sex what next?
Nina 9 years ago
After sex, then comes the look out for attitude and wondering if the sex was even worth it?
Of its worth it, then they would want to keep it.
If not, then bye bye unfortunately.
After sex, then comes the look out for attitude and wondering if the sex was even worth it?
Of its worth it, then they would want to keep it.
If not, then bye bye unfortunately.
Nina 9 years ago
I don't always blame the men.
Have you also asked your friend if she keeps her vijayjay clean too?
What if the man meant well but after sex with her (which he might have endured despite the smell of Urine or odour coming ou ... read full comment
I don't always blame the men.
Have you also asked your friend if she keeps her vijayjay clean too?
What if the man meant well but after sex with her (which he might have endured despite the smell of Urine or odour coming out from her), he realized all that 'glitters isn't gold'.
And he feels he's actually wasted his time and money on something not worth it?
Ask her and ask her well well.
Secondly, some women place so much unnecessary importance to themselves such that it then becomes a challenge for the man to just want to have sex with them and then dump them to teach them lessons.
Again, ask ask ask. Maybe the 'too know' was too much so he wanted to teach her a lesson.
I personally know someone who even went all the way to marry the lady, cos she said she Wld only have sex after marriage. He had the sex after marrying her and left same week!! Well, that was a lesson taught.
Women, try to have friendships with these men before considering a relationship, get to know them, be yourself,stop pretending, Ghana girls like pretending too much.
Try to draw a balance some how.
AFENA 9 years ago
GREASY ONES ARE THE SWEETEST. JUST HOLD YOUR NOSE AND GIVE IT TO HER IF YOU CANT VIBE HER TO SHOWER WITH YOU
GREASY ONES ARE THE SWEETEST. JUST HOLD YOUR NOSE AND GIVE IT TO HER IF YOU CANT VIBE HER TO SHOWER WITH YOU
NII 9 years ago
The only price a man has to pay to get into your pants is A Bride Price. Anything else ( vacation, shows, cars etc) paid are extras. So if you open your legs before your Bride Price is paid, don't blame the men.I am a man, no ... read full comment
The only price a man has to pay to get into your pants is A Bride Price. Anything else ( vacation, shows, cars etc) paid are extras. So if you open your legs before your Bride Price is paid, don't blame the men.I am a man, no matter how beautiful or intelligent a woman may be, once you can sleep with her before marriage her value goes down.
KWAME Dubai 9 years ago
After sex we check the attitude , n the inner beauty not only outer.
After sex we check the attitude , n the inner beauty not only outer.
Pantsdown 9 years ago
Do the women also enjoy sex or it is often imposed on them? Even single women enjoy sex without wanting to marry the men. More and more women are also taking men out on holidays and vacation inorder to have good sex time. Yo ... read full comment
Do the women also enjoy sex or it is often imposed on them? Even single women enjoy sex without wanting to marry the men. More and more women are also taking men out on holidays and vacation inorder to have good sex time. You man want to research on that for next article.
tooooooooooo serious 9 years ago
Hmmmm. Our ladies now parade themselves with beautifacts. They even prefer luxury than true happiness in the future hence marital lives.
Hmmmm. Our ladies now parade themselves with beautifacts. They even prefer luxury than true happiness in the future hence marital lives.
.... 9 years ago
Learn to promote stuff that will uplift society and the betterment of Ghanaians. Not these foolish articles with no substance!
Learn to promote stuff that will uplift society and the betterment of Ghanaians. Not these foolish articles with no substance!
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Are not intelligent. This is real life case study. No matter how educated with degrees or spiritually developed, this episode of life can mess you up. It happens to even millionaires. Pay attention and get something out of it ... read full comment
Are not intelligent. This is real life case study. No matter how educated with degrees or spiritually developed, this episode of life can mess you up. It happens to even millionaires. Pay attention and get something out of it. Men and women, both can be satanic influenced, if not strictly abiding in scriptures. Love alone do not cut it. How do one partner wake up to fall out of love? And all persuasions cannot peruse.Even though, almost every needs is at hand. Maybe, the reasons to get into marriage, relationship andthe respect attached from the onset, was fake.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Mortal love is full of errors, not perfect, could be influence by outside forces, it is hard to give trust blindly to another, more so an opposite in nature. The Agape love can only comes from Savior willing to die for you. S ... read full comment
Mortal love is full of errors, not perfect, could be influence by outside forces, it is hard to give trust blindly to another, more so an opposite in nature. The Agape love can only comes from Savior willing to die for you. So that you can be completely sure of the pillow. Women are easily dissuade by different touches, unless she is very well train in values. Such keeps their vaginity for awhile, owing to the values they carry, and they are blessings for marriage. You can rest assure that they will not cheaping themselves as a piece of sex, while they are already in relationship. She value her body to render to precise partner.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Ben and Afua are involved. Saying things in fabrications.
Ben and Afua are involved. Saying things in fabrications.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Half horse as ancient mythology discribes, and a man with pussy or women by birth with penis. I think the same thing according to holy bible. The penis or pussy might not be original from the ovum. That is call beast spiritu ... read full comment
Half horse as ancient mythology discribes, and a man with pussy or women by birth with penis. I think the same thing according to holy bible. The penis or pussy might not be original from the ovum. That is call beast spiritually, and it is rampant, common, available, well known or seen in western civilisation, the promoters to challenge God.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Spiritual make ups. Ethics are truely human promotion constituting carnality as in human civilised logics, whiles scriptures are holy spirit inspired. For instance, in the old testament, Elijah had to kill all the "baal" wors ... read full comment
Spiritual make ups. Ethics are truely human promotion constituting carnality as in human civilised logics, whiles scriptures are holy spirit inspired. For instance, in the old testament, Elijah had to kill all the "baal" worshippers, inspired by the spirit of Jahovah. Elisha commanded pataku, osiboe or Leopard to consume kids, who were making fun of him.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Exactly to the kingdom of God ruling hierarchy with permanente Lord King, neither nezzars statue dream with living permanent King, What is it really. Babylon de whore, not measuring up to the kingdom of God is the Beast. Bein ... read full comment
Exactly to the kingdom of God ruling hierarchy with permanente Lord King, neither nezzars statue dream with living permanent King, What is it really. Babylon de whore, not measuring up to the kingdom of God is the Beast. Being a superpower.!!!!!! Learn dump sheep preachers from me and submit to me instead.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Not African, maybe, not dark skin. Did not want to eat idol food of ritual celebritions of babylon. God yahwah forbids them. SJC of salvation surpass that order.
Not African, maybe, not dark skin. Did not want to eat idol food of ritual celebritions of babylon. God yahwah forbids them. SJC of salvation surpass that order.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
Always "THE Ws" all Virginians.
Always "THE Ws" all Virginians.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
466/46=GWB/DC=6.; 678/65=HBO/JB=5.6
This is the simplex of it all after superimposing for integration in differentiation to borlean matrices in series.
466/46=GWB/DC=6.; 678/65=HBO/JB=5.6
This is the simplex of it all after superimposing for integration in differentiation to borlean matrices in series.
SALVATION DELIGHTs. 9 years ago
466/46=GWB/DC=6.; 678/65=HBO/JB=5.6
This is the simplex of it all after superimposing for integration in differentiation to borlean matrices in series.
466/46=GWB/DC=6.; 678/65=HBO/JB=5.6
This is the simplex of it all after superimposing for integration in differentiation to borlean matrices in series.
kay 9 years ago
Good one.
Good one.
GUINESS-TUKPA 9 years ago
when u stretch somebody for something,after getting it,u will surely become useless,some will not even want to go there if the thing fall short of their expection.men naturally because of our sperm storage resevoir which natu ... read full comment
when u stretch somebody for something,after getting it,u will surely become useless,some will not even want to go there if the thing fall short of their expection.men naturally because of our sperm storage resevoir which naturally is supposed to be emptied frequently to make more room for production,must have sex as frequently to stay healthy. sex is man because without it as a man you cannot live normal and healthy.now ladies always think that ,that thing between their leg is so costly that they expect men to spend before they touch it,and this will be their madness and frustration because they challenge nature by putting price on mans demand.love and care developed after several sex, particularly when the couple feel they are compatible. so ladies should learn to give free protected sex to their prospective lovers without expecting anything in material.in this way the man will develop genuine love and respect for you.and when that happen ,you will be bound to receive all gifts and attentions in the world from that man because he knows that you are not slut or prostitute and therefore cheap.because prostitutes exchange sex for money and material things and no man want to love prostitute but the good and decent woman have sex in exchange for nothing and this are the women who will get intelligent and loving men.
Ndlovu 9 years ago
... because of our sperm storage reserviour which naturally is supposed to be emptied frequently to make room for production... is not based on science. Read around spermatogenesis to be informed.
... because of our sperm storage reserviour which naturally is supposed to be emptied frequently to make room for production... is not based on science. Read around spermatogenesis to be informed.
Samuel Amoah 9 years ago
Your story sounds so good, but have you look at it from the other side. Some ladies not all, take advantage of the man providing. Have you heard the word GOLD DIGGERS, no man want to be fooled.
Your story sounds so good, but have you look at it from the other side. Some ladies not all, take advantage of the man providing. Have you heard the word GOLD DIGGERS, no man want to be fooled.
Thomy 9 years ago
Good piece, sometimes we tuned to forget about our communication abilities. This should set the pace people to learn how to communicate.Who knows in the cause of their dating Julia was using abusive languages that she did not ... read full comment
Good piece, sometimes we tuned to forget about our communication abilities. This should set the pace people to learn how to communicate.Who knows in the cause of their dating Julia was using abusive languages that she did not know of, to the guy, once he had committed himself the only option was to dig into her pot after which the game would be over. A lesson to all, to learn how to communicate with their partners in relationship.
Joel 9 years ago
I think there r so many things that happen in relationship ,everybody have a share in what ever transpire, we shouldn't loose sight on the trouble the woman cause during or after sex. Anything is possible
I think there r so many things that happen in relationship ,everybody have a share in what ever transpire, we shouldn't loose sight on the trouble the woman cause during or after sex. Anything is possible
Joshua 9 years ago
It very sad and is not fair for men to do that to the ladies. But we should not forget one thing, when we go against the word of God and do what we think is right in our eyes, this is what happens. It is stated very clear in ... read full comment
It very sad and is not fair for men to do that to the ladies. But we should not forget one thing, when we go against the word of God and do what we think is right in our eyes, this is what happens. It is stated very clear in the bible that sex is for married couple and for boyfriend and girlfriend. My advise to the ladies especially is any man who demands sex before marriage may not marry you because he may think that, all that you do is sleeping around with other men. Even if that is your frist time of having sex with a man, he may think you may give chance to other men when they come your way because that is what you did when you met him
Stephen 9 years ago
I go with joshua if we follow God's Word we will save ourselves from these things but if we want to be wise in our own eyes then this is just the beginning
I go with joshua if we follow God's Word we will save ourselves from these things but if we want to be wise in our own eyes then this is just the beginning
NANA PROMISY 9 years ago
Did you read the story yesterday that says Presby Reverends are seeking divorce to walk away from the vaginas they married to?
Did you read the story yesterday that says Presby Reverends are seeking divorce to walk away from the vaginas they married to?
John Martin 9 years ago
After sex life continues Nana Yaa
After sex life continues Nana Yaa
Frederick 9 years ago
Thanks for your advice hope all men Will take this advice
Thanks for your advice hope all men Will take this advice
Frederick 9 years ago
Thanks for your advice hope all man will take this advice and women should also respect what they have
Thanks for your advice hope all man will take this advice and women should also respect what they have
grace 9 years ago
well noted. thanks.
well noted. thanks.
Adutwum 9 years ago
My answer is after sex nothing,why do women see every relationship as a potential marriage preparation.
My answer is after sex nothing,why do women see every relationship as a potential marriage preparation.
WISDOM 9 years ago
A nice article good for the ladies to study.Most of now-adays ladies are too materialistic that they fail to study the baits of the present men hence they fall victims.How many women will accept poor men as suitors?
A nice article good for the ladies to study.Most of now-adays ladies are too materialistic that they fail to study the baits of the present men hence they fall victims.How many women will accept poor men as suitors?
Afrika Bravo 9 years ago
Is simple as ABC just becos Africa women follow money .day don't know the meaning love. They also don't know what is good for them. I new one woman in Germany.they got Marriage in Ghana , and after some month later the took h ... read full comment
Is simple as ABC just becos Africa women follow money .day don't know the meaning love. They also don't know what is good for them. I new one woman in Germany.they got Marriage in Ghana , and after some month later the took her to Germany.they have (3) Children for (8)years.after all this years the woman make a Secret sex with Another man .some one saw them and told her husband but she denied it .later she came out herself to said to her husband that she do not Love him any more.why !!! The man is not her type.so she choose a new man as her Choice.a Years later they have a Daughter .she become 4 Children.then her new Husband told her one day that he can not take care for 4 Children.he parks and live her with 4 Children.the woman is hier alone in Germany .alot of Afrika women has such behavior.
fiiguy 9 years ago
Some women are cheats and liars.they smell money and they r like woow this is the world...God is surely dealing with them while some men are also receiving the ire punishment as such.
Some women are cheats and liars.they smell money and they r like woow this is the world...God is surely dealing with them while some men are also receiving the ire punishment as such.
OWEN NEW-YORK. 9 years ago
AS THE SAYING GOES,WANT WANT NO GET,GET GET NO WANT. BETTER STILL,THOSE WITH CAPS HAVE NO HEADS. THOSE WITH HEADS TOO HAVE NO CAPS. THE FIRST DAY I MET MY GIRLFRIEND WE MADE LOVE OR HAD SEX. HER ENGINE WAS GOOD,HER CHARACTER ... read full comment
AS THE SAYING GOES,WANT WANT NO GET,GET GET NO WANT. BETTER STILL,THOSE WITH CAPS HAVE NO HEADS. THOSE WITH HEADS TOO HAVE NO CAPS. THE FIRST DAY I MET MY GIRLFRIEND WE MADE LOVE OR HAD SEX. HER ENGINE WAS GOOD,HER CHARACTER PERFECT AND SHE HAS WHAT I WAS LOOKING FOR IN MY FUTURE WIFE. WE ARE MARRIED FOR 10 YEARS WITH 3 BEAUTIFUL KIDS. CHECK YOUR SO CALLED FRIEND SOMETHING MIGHT BE WRONG WITH HER. THE GUY LATER REALIZED THAT AFTER SEX. SHE MIGHT BE LUCKY THAT THE GUY DID NOT RUSH TO WED HER. SHE WOULD HAVE BEEN DIVORCED A WEEK AFTER MARRIAGE. IT'S GOOD NOWADAYS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER BEFORE PLANNING TO MARRY.SO MANY MARRIAGES ARE FALLING APART BECAUSE OF THE OUR CULTURE OF "MARRIAGE BEFORE SEX"
zakk 9 years ago
INTELLIGENT NII AGAIN! THANK YOU.
INTELLIGENT NII AGAIN! THANK YOU.
Kwabena Danso,Gbawe-Accra 9 years ago
That's the type of treatment some of you women must go through.Your experience is just about 1% of that of men's experience.Don't men sponsor women in schools and even take them as wives to the western world as wives?What do ... read full comment
That's the type of treatment some of you women must go through.Your experience is just about 1% of that of men's experience.Don't men sponsor women in schools and even take them as wives to the western world as wives?What do they do to these men who waste a lot of money investing in them?Do these women have mercy at all.You have experiences and so do we men.
Christopher 9 years ago
Do you know the number of women out there using sex to get what the want from men?
Talk to men and write another story to reveal how women go out of the ordinary ways to use men and dump them. It's a two edge sword. You must ... read full comment
Do you know the number of women out there using sex to get what the want from men?
Talk to men and write another story to reveal how women go out of the ordinary ways to use men and dump them. It's a two edge sword. You must not focus on one side else you will get hurt.
By the why does she give in the sex? Sex is for married couples. Isn't what the holy book said? Plz, let poor Jaden alone and question caution your friend.
It's not about calling yourself a Christian that matters, its about doing what Christians ought to do.
prodigy-k red 9 years ago
Your story look very real and I wonder how long they ve been in the relationship before the man is or was pouring all those material things on her and she was receiving them with joy.Caution never start new relationship by se ... read full comment
Your story look very real and I wonder how long they ve been in the relationship before the man is or was pouring all those material things on her and she was receiving them with joy.Caution never start new relationship by seeming like you wanting to dubbed the other partner,jaden may realised that she is a "material lady"
Andrews Melbourne. 9 years ago
After 'sex' what next? After the sex,that's where you realised the stretch marks, busy hair like a forest where all the wild animals are kept. I guess the writer being hypocritical wouldn't go to the same restaurant the secon ... read full comment
After 'sex' what next? After the sex,that's where you realised the stretch marks, busy hair like a forest where all the wild animals are kept. I guess the writer being hypocritical wouldn't go to the same restaurant the second time if the surrounding and the food is tasteless. In conclusion, some women demand a lot,therefore the only to lay her on bed is to show off, after showing off to lay her on bed,avoid being exposed you drop her. Once again Ghanaians women should stop demanding so much. It doesn't happen in the other part of the world. What's the difference between women's in the brothel and a woman who demands, phone, fees,food,clothing,hair do etc. Why so much? Ghanaian women are too greedy and deserves nothing but # hitandrun#
Emefa Anyidoho 9 years ago
Asabea, thanks for asking for this question and I think it is an important question. As the commented by someone, it is one-sided piece. Nevertheless, you asked a great question.
First, there is a man and there is love. Wom ... read full comment
Asabea, thanks for asking for this question and I think it is an important question. As the commented by someone, it is one-sided piece. Nevertheless, you asked a great question.
First, there is a man and there is love. Women in mind always chose man instead of love. Man will give you material things and love will give you happiness. Women should know that it is wrong to interprete love on the basis material things and indeed material things do not come cheap. There is always a price to pay and that is dissappointment. As you know men who can afford all material things can also afford all women so a woman attracted to him by virtue of gifts, money, travels etc must know that he will be chasing more and more women. The bottom line in that women should believe themselves and be a helpmate (brenya) instead instead of people who want to enjoy (boadi). The bible defines a woman as helpmate and not a person who should think that they are to enjoy what is there. Men respect women who complement their efforts than just beauty. It is most likely that a man will respect and love an ugly woman who complement him than a woman who relies on her beauty and craves for material things.
slim 9 years ago
she was taking all the gifts but was not thinking of what next after gifts. well in a wild animal kingdom the hunter becomes the hunted.
she was taking all the gifts but was not thinking of what next after gifts. well in a wild animal kingdom the hunter becomes the hunted.
cyllarh 9 years ago
Nice piece there tho.....a friend has a similar experience.Please the guys out there, if u re not matured enough to make her feel cared for emotionally, don't get into her pants....and ladies please sEx is not a glue....it cu ... read full comment
Nice piece there tho.....a friend has a similar experience.Please the guys out there, if u re not matured enough to make her feel cared for emotionally, don't get into her pants....and ladies please sEx is not a glue....it cud b lust n nt love.we mistake both words...#pre marital sex is to ur own detriment....Thank God there was no pregnancy.move on with ur life n learn from this.
Samuel Kudjoe 9 years ago
Is not all about sex. A man with dreams want a lady with vision. If a lady accept proposal of man cos of riches is a mistake not real love. Ladies must blame themselves 50%. Greedy jealous envy is putting our ladies in Al thi ... read full comment
Is not all about sex. A man with dreams want a lady with vision. If a lady accept proposal of man cos of riches is a mistake not real love. Ladies must blame themselves 50%. Greedy jealous envy is putting our ladies in Al this kind of situation
Joe'D 9 years ago
Question: Do you see the president campaigning and making promises after he wins the election?
The world is in perfect harmony - for every ying there's a yang. The way men treat women is a direct consequence of how women t ... read full comment
Question: Do you see the president campaigning and making promises after he wins the election?
The world is in perfect harmony - for every ying there's a yang. The way men treat women is a direct consequence of how women treat men - It's a game we all play - women only seem to complain because they loose in the end - it's very easy to point the figure, and until women learn how to take a step back and look at themselves first (and i mean the entire female species), rather than start pointing fingers and writing stupid articles like this one, and learn the rules of engagement of this game of the birds and bees, they will continuously loose every time in the long run, even when it seems you're winning in the moment, you'll always loose in end.
Notice how the author of this article (a female) makes a strong case for women, but does not even stop once to question if there was anything at all her friend did, or did not do that would/could have caused this - after all, Julia was the one in the relationship, for how ever long it lasted - she had every opportunity to make the relationship what she wants, but instead she sat in her comfort zone, lived in the moment and enjoyed it, without thinking about the future until it ended. Like you said yourself in your article, if it takes a man moving mountains just to get in between a woman's legs, then ask yourself - is any woman worth that? If Jaden had professed his love for Julia, and lets assume it was true love and his intentions were honorable, but could not offer her all the gifts and trips, do you think Julia would have even given him a second look?
God is Love...whomsoever lives in love lives in God...and God in them. Find your love - your true love - not material things and large paper. Love a man because he loves you in God, not because of what he can do for you - women need to get out of their head, this idea that a man has to chase the woman and provide all her material needs just because you have the pussy. YOU ARE NOT doing that man any favors when you marry him - he does not owe you anything - you need the man the same way he needs you - the man does not need you any more than you need him - so why do you think it's ok for you to sit on your lazy ass and emotionally blackmail him with your pussy every chance you get.
Kuffuor 9 years ago
You are damn right men!
You are damn right men!
Amen 9 years ago
By far the most sensible and objective response I have read on GhanaWeb. All angles covered.
By far the most sensible and objective response I have read on GhanaWeb. All angles covered.
PATRICK 9 years ago
YOU ARE AN EXCELLENT ANALYST
YOU ARE AN EXCELLENT ANALYST
newton 9 years ago
life continues
life continues
Yaw 9 years ago
this is a lay story. it lacks objectivity and fairness? full of prejudice?!
this is a lay story. it lacks objectivity and fairness? full of prejudice?!
Priscilla Nana Adu 9 years ago
Well done dear for sharing. yes does guys dnt have respect for themselves and they should also remember that when you throu a ball at a wall it will surely come back to you, someone will also do same to your sister or future ... read full comment
Well done dear for sharing. yes does guys dnt have respect for themselves and they should also remember that when you throu a ball at a wall it will surely come back to you, someone will also do same to your sister or future wife and to my ladies out there please focus on your life and dnt pay much attention to them when they come with all those things and fight for the future.
Agyemang 9 years ago
I didn't actually want to comment on this article, but I felt I should rather say something. This change of mind stem from the fact that some one say ladies should endeavor to keep their legs folded until marriage. yes nice a ... read full comment
I didn't actually want to comment on this article, but I felt I should rather say something. This change of mind stem from the fact that some one say ladies should endeavor to keep their legs folded until marriage. yes nice advice. Anyway am not a proponent of sex before marriage, however, if a lady would only take that stand due fear of hitandrun effect then am sorry. why a guy doesn't care to drop you even after wedding. I think a lady must keep her pride based of moral and religious grounds and not the fornmer.
Me 9 years ago
After sex it is time to look for the next different sex.
I am a man and to tell the writer that the best thing in this World is having sex the first time with a new beautiful lady.
It is our animal instinct.
It is a new tr ... read full comment
After sex it is time to look for the next different sex.
I am a man and to tell the writer that the best thing in this World is having sex the first time with a new beautiful lady.
It is our animal instinct.
It is a new trophy - it is SUPER.
Bongo 9 years ago
After sex, then reality sets in for many ladies. They get to find out if the man only wanted them for sex or for life. A lady must find out for herself if a guy wants her just for sex or really wants her for a wife. If you op ... read full comment
After sex, then reality sets in for many ladies. They get to find out if the man only wanted them for sex or for life. A lady must find out for herself if a guy wants her just for sex or really wants her for a wife. If you open your legs to him and enjoy the gifts before you determine this, you have been very careless as a woman. Well how can you know some men are very good players. no, you can know, you can refuse him sex and see how he will behave. Tell him no sex till marriage, and see if he will still pursue you for sex or pursue ypu for you. Too many loose careless men and women out there fucking themselves and getting themselves hurt for no reason. Repent!!!
Yaa 9 years ago
Very good article yet you find unrepentant Ghana men talking gibrish. Most African men do not respect women yet they can to the world through women.It seems like a demon that needs to be cast out from some.It's a very big sha ... read full comment
Very good article yet you find unrepentant Ghana men talking gibrish. Most African men do not respect women yet they can to the world through women.It seems like a demon that needs to be cast out from some.It's a very big shame.Most Gh men are selfish, immature, arrogant and primitive hence the resason why they disrespect women.And the interesting part is when they marry whites or foreigners, they pretend to be all good and different but back home, most Gh women dont really have good things to say about their men...Athough not all of them are like that, the bad nuts are many.And a little advise for my ladies, it pays to close your legs.I f he is not willing to wait till marriage, let him go because you are not to be tested first.What an insult.We are valuable women.You dont have to sleep with him because he did you a favor.Where is your dignity then.You'll only discover his true colors when it is too late.Ladies dont take that risk.Only an evil,and selfish guy will leave because you did not give in.If that happens, LET HIM GO! he is a boy not a man!
Bernie 9 years ago
You feature article is centered on just one lady yet you have generalised the position of men. i can guarantee you that if i guy walks to a lady with all honesty and simply tell her that he fancies her and would want her to b ... read full comment
You feature article is centered on just one lady yet you have generalised the position of men. i can guarantee you that if i guy walks to a lady with all honesty and simply tell her that he fancies her and would want her to be his girlfriend, it will be a BIG NO. we tell you what you want to hear and it works. sorry to your friend though. she was not treated fairly if your story is the truth.
Nana Yaw 9 years ago
oh Nana Yaa, so you mean to tell us that you've never heard of a lady snatching her own friend's man before? there are as many women out there who just want sex with certain guys just for the fun of it. always tempting guys. ... read full comment
oh Nana Yaa, so you mean to tell us that you've never heard of a lady snatching her own friend's man before? there are as many women out there who just want sex with certain guys just for the fun of it. always tempting guys. Your friend was just a victim of a strange circumstance. there could be more to it than what she told you. probe further
Neu 9 years ago
I think you yourself have been maltreatdd b4 coz the energy with which you are writing this article is too obvious. Maybe you are the Julia in the story. You ladies look down on the less endowed men in the society. And you ju ... read full comment
I think you yourself have been maltreatdd b4 coz the energy with which you are writing this article is too obvious. Maybe you are the Julia in the story. You ladies look down on the less endowed men in the society. And you jump on men with riches and flashy cars. You ladies deserve it. U deserve it pass. Look, I have eaten the cakes of not less than 600 ladies and I don't regret. Coz you ladies are too much. When I was poor, all the ladies I proposed to rejected me but now I made sure to eat all thier cakes one by one. Please ladies, don't follow riches. Am now a dsvoted Christian though.
Kwabena 9 years ago
Thank you for your interesting write up.
Speaking from the point of view of the Bible, I will say that it is a sin to sleep with a man who has not taken your hand in marriage and paid a dowry.
By having premarital sex, you ... read full comment
Thank you for your interesting write up.
Speaking from the point of view of the Bible, I will say that it is a sin to sleep with a man who has not taken your hand in marriage and paid a dowry.
By having premarital sex, you expose yourself to being dumped after the act. In some instances such men are adventurous who are not interested in permanent relationships but just to satisfy themselves.
Also, the women should note that dating is different from marriage. When a man is dating he can go all out to spend all that he has. Some men could go to the extent of going for credit to show off to their new "catch".
My advise is that the women should take their time and introduce the men to their family and convince them to ask their hand in marriage. That way the men will take them serious. They should not be swayed by the flashy things they see. They should remember the saying that "all that glitters is not gold".
Grace gyapong 9 years ago
I like the message keep it up
I like the message keep it up
Dan 9 years ago
please advice the ladies to also have some self esteem and dignity. They must also not be gullible and foolish to think that they can enjoy all the luxuries of some men and not pay for it. In any case they offer themselves fr ... read full comment
please advice the ladies to also have some self esteem and dignity. They must also not be gullible and foolish to think that they can enjoy all the luxuries of some men and not pay for it. In any case they offer themselves freely to the men! !!
Jerry 9 years ago
well said dear, but most at times the ladies, from the beginning they show us some "marryable " behaviour and later disrespect us after knowing our selves,but that doesn't grantee men to spend Gargantua sum of mony just to fu ... read full comment
well said dear, but most at times the ladies, from the beginning they show us some "marryable " behaviour and later disrespect us after knowing our selves,but that doesn't grantee men to spend Gargantua sum of mony just to fuck her. I love your article, ladies! you should also know that upon all beauty, you will rest under a man, so always respect and honourable your selves before the men you full for because men doesn't value sex as any thing just like mony.
Akosua 9 years ago
Good piece,I don't blame de men too much because sometimes they r tempted by de women to do so
Good piece,I don't blame de men too much because sometimes they r tempted by de women to do so
Tony (mcllaw@yahoo.co.uk) 9 years ago
Sometimes I feel bad for women. The innocent ones rather become victims of rough play. It's so sad.
Nana Yaa Asabea, please let's get in touch and I'll explain certain things to u. Perhaps it might be of help.
Thank you.
Sometimes I feel bad for women. The innocent ones rather become victims of rough play. It's so sad.
Nana Yaa Asabea, please let's get in touch and I'll explain certain things to u. Perhaps it might be of help.
Thank you.
fiifi ocran 9 years ago
A wonderful piece of write up but full of emotion. I wish you treat it as a research topic.
A wonderful piece of write up but full of emotion. I wish you treat it as a research topic.
Addah Richard 9 years ago
Hmmmm,the point is that men are actually attracted by sight,I mean what they see. Every beautiful lady will have men falling at her feet but if she has no character these men won't stay for long. As a lady your outward appear ... read full comment
Hmmmm,the point is that men are actually attracted by sight,I mean what they see. Every beautiful lady will have men falling at her feet but if she has no character these men won't stay for long. As a lady your outward appearance will attract me to you and whether they will stay or not is largely determined by your character. Naturally, if you are walking and you see something like gold,quickly you run go pick it up but upon realising that is not what you thought it was,you drop it immediately because you realized you have wasted your time.
king solomon 9 years ago
let me tell you something nana yaa asabea or what the call you. believe me julia ur friend wha happend to her is karma, what goes around comes around. maybe she broke the heart of a veri nice God fearing guy. ask her to tell ... read full comment
let me tell you something nana yaa asabea or what the call you. believe me julia ur friend wha happend to her is karma, what goes around comes around. maybe she broke the heart of a veri nice God fearing guy. ask her to tell u the truth; that is why God send jaden to break her in pieces and to teach her a lesson. she is lucky when he took her to dubai he didnt left her in the desert to dry like a cocoa seed. some women are bad they love the world more than they love them selves... if a woman wear tight dresses of course she will attract our attention. tell her to start dressing like a good christian and she will get a good man. even satan is scared of women... most men are good. that is why God said we should have lot of patient with our women coz women are difficult. sayin after the 'sex' what next? the next we will do is eat banku with okro soup... sankadoki
Nana Yaw 9 years ago
Have u asked yourself why ur friend gave up the cherry in Dubai? Three weeks in Dubai is a lot of money. Do u know how many 'not-so-rich men' your friend has bounced? And now somebody showers her with gifts n Dubai trips n sh ... read full comment
Have u asked yourself why ur friend gave up the cherry in Dubai? Three weeks in Dubai is a lot of money. Do u know how many 'not-so-rich men' your friend has bounced? And now somebody showers her with gifts n Dubai trips n she parts her legs. Mop3 sika dodo...the guy invested in the sex, he finally got it...w'adwen sua a wo body br3!
Micheal 9 years ago
After reading your article I have this to say,the woman are a carried about the buhaha of spendings from Men should have themselves to blame bcos Sex is a two way thing.And it basically the woman who makes it possible when sh ... read full comment
After reading your article I have this to say,the woman are a carried about the buhaha of spendings from Men should have themselves to blame bcos Sex is a two way thing.And it basically the woman who makes it possible when she agrees.So it's not about the man but woman.
Abu Mujaahid 9 years ago
Men and women are made from flesh and bone. The reality is if you don't know your Creator, you won't know yourself. After she got played then she want to pray? Most of the women need to learn to dress modestly and stop gold d ... read full comment
Men and women are made from flesh and bone. The reality is if you don't know your Creator, you won't know yourself. After she got played then she want to pray? Most of the women need to learn to dress modestly and stop gold digging and save themselves until they marry and not before. Simple as that.
kossiwa 9 years ago
Baby of course. After the sex baby is next and the life continue without happyness for the both.
Baby of course. After the sex baby is next and the life continue without happyness for the both.
King 9 years ago
Some Men are crazy ???? stupid
Some Men are crazy ???? stupid
KEK 9 years ago
KARMA has no menu, you get served what you deserve.
KARMA has no menu, you get served what you deserve.
BARON 9 years ago
abi when you ladies count too much on your beauty you do seems too proud and any guy who approach you should sweat before he could be your friend, No one is saying you should be cheap by accepting any guys proposal but most b ... read full comment
abi when you ladies count too much on your beauty you do seems too proud and any guy who approach you should sweat before he could be your friend, No one is saying you should be cheap by accepting any guys proposal but most beautiful ladies with these features as you described her do turn to rate guys before they may even be given the chance as a common so called boyfriend. Though I admits many guys are like that but you ladies too don't have to count too much on your beauty but choose who will love you and not who you love because you wanted your friends and family to see the kind of guy you are going for next time choose that broke but humble loving guys and you will be amazed the kind of love he will have for you
Vasty baby girl 9 years ago
PLEASE LADIES LET'S GET MARRIED BEFORE SEX BECAUSE THIS HAS BECOME RAMPANT NOW A DAYS WHICH IS NOT GOOD. FUCK AND LEAVE IS NOW TOOOOO MUCH WE ARE SELLING OUR PRIORITIES.
PLEASE LADIES LET'S GET MARRIED BEFORE SEX BECAUSE THIS HAS BECOME RAMPANT NOW A DAYS WHICH IS NOT GOOD. FUCK AND LEAVE IS NOW TOOOOO MUCH WE ARE SELLING OUR PRIORITIES.
BARON 9 years ago
Every body is condemning the action of the guy yes I didn't also support that as well but, here is the question, if this guy had waited for all these while and after marriage he sleep with her only to fine out she was not his ... read full comment
Every body is condemning the action of the guy yes I didn't also support that as well but, here is the question, if this guy had waited for all these while and after marriage he sleep with her only to fine out she was not his taste what do you think would have happened to the marriage?, if i was to be this lady this should not be of worry to me though it pains but I prefers a crash of my relationship than my marriage
abednego 9 years ago
we will chew after sex
we will chew after sex
per sevierance 9 years ago
All that glitters not gold my dear lady, I think ur friend gave herself out because of the riches and not ready to suffer
All that glitters not gold my dear lady, I think ur friend gave herself out because of the riches and not ready to suffer
Lalas 9 years ago
Goodness, some women are too greedy
Goodness, some women are too greedy
mozee 9 years ago
Why didn't the postpone the gifts till after marriage? Sometimes I don't understand women at all. Will you go to the market and buy something I don't need. You spend in what u need so if the man spends on u n gets ur thing in ... read full comment
Why didn't the postpone the gifts till after marriage? Sometimes I don't understand women at all. Will you go to the market and buy something I don't need. You spend in what u need so if the man spends on u n gets ur thing in return do u need someone to tell u das wat he wanted? If he's not right to sleep with u till marriage then also postpone receiving gifts till marriage. No man is stupid to just spend money without a reason. My only advice is dat as a lady pray that d first man dat enters u remains with u as wife but don't blame him if he doesn't like u. It's nt a force
I think your feature article appeared one-sided without apportioning any responsibility to the women. Yes, men are always on the hunt, but women are by far the "encourager" of the man's action. Here's an example. A lady I kno ...
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GENICURE! WU BEDI AFEELI FEELI
Well said, Jojo
Some ladies will show disrespect to the man, asking whether the man thinks it is bcos of all the things they buy for the her that is why the man is being inquisitive or showing jealousy? There was a lady I was dating until so ...
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tit for tat
you hit the nail right on the head...couldn't agree more
Excuse me what about men who devote their time, energy and love for these women , who at the end leave these humble guys who meant sharing their loves with these goddamm women who doesn't know any shame running from one man t ...
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Must every sex act with a lady result in marriage?
Please men show some respect to women.
on de more ceriox note...dude dis ur comment makes so much sense oo lol; naw girls hav no shame chaley! dey dont cease to disappoint; for the writer; idont know for her....why its always abt girls dese days anyways;
Julia loved the man's money and not the man himself. Therefore, it was fair for the man also to aim for the cake and not love Julia. If a lady is dating a man and all she wants is money money, expensive this, expensive that, ...
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l believe the distance between the laday's home town and dubai can be thousands of miles away, if the man can afford to take to Dubai why can't he take her to her parent. if your parents take you to school and you decide to t ...
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What about the women who dangle their 'cake' and deceive men to take their money and dump them? What about those who knowingly sleep with a married man hoping that he will dump his wife for her? If Julia gave in to the man th ...
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maybe Julia's p*ssy didnt 'taste sweet' enough. There are so many reasons why the man may have left the girl. sorry for her,but better luck next time. Wait till after marriage before allowing the next man to sleep with u.
Wo Gud piece after sex we now look at attitude lol
AFTER SEX YOU MOVE TO THE NEXT CATCH..THATS ABOUT IT..THE SAME WAY WOMEN USE WHAT THEY HAVE TO GET WHAT THEY WANT.
You are being immature, learn how to be a man and try to grow up, cause i sense your lack of consciousness.
I hope one day you will fall in love and realize how it feels like when someone walks out of your life.
This is the 2nd time I have seen this very important question. Any woman of substance need to ask this pertinent question. 97% of the time, guys just want to get into a girl's panties and that's the end.
Good article keep it up
There are so many reasons. So many that it is useless to recount or think that there is any answer to your question. But not that there are different men and there are different women.
Those of us who do thebright thing to,are cheatedby the women
I share the same sentiment@king b
Asabea, welcome to the real world. The world isn't a fair place. It isn't at all. Tell your friend as painful as her experience has been, she should try and move on. It might happen to her again and again before she finally m ...
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I was surprised to HEAR what this lady friend had to say.
If it happens to her again, then she's really stupid. I wouldn't blame any guy. What is it that makes a girl decide to open up her legs for a guy who has not even paid her bride price. Maybe she also wanted the sex badly a ...
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Great piece. This is a question I have asked myself several times. After sex what next?
After sex, then comes the look out for attitude and wondering if the sex was even worth it?
Of its worth it, then they would want to keep it.
If not, then bye bye unfortunately.
I don't always blame the men.
Have you also asked your friend if she keeps her vijayjay clean too?
What if the man meant well but after sex with her (which he might have endured despite the smell of Urine or odour coming ou ...
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GREASY ONES ARE THE SWEETEST. JUST HOLD YOUR NOSE AND GIVE IT TO HER IF YOU CANT VIBE HER TO SHOWER WITH YOU
The only price a man has to pay to get into your pants is A Bride Price. Anything else ( vacation, shows, cars etc) paid are extras. So if you open your legs before your Bride Price is paid, don't blame the men.I am a man, no ...
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After sex we check the attitude , n the inner beauty not only outer.
Do the women also enjoy sex or it is often imposed on them? Even single women enjoy sex without wanting to marry the men. More and more women are also taking men out on holidays and vacation inorder to have good sex time. Yo ...
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Hmmmm. Our ladies now parade themselves with beautifacts. They even prefer luxury than true happiness in the future hence marital lives.
Learn to promote stuff that will uplift society and the betterment of Ghanaians. Not these foolish articles with no substance!
Are not intelligent. This is real life case study. No matter how educated with degrees or spiritually developed, this episode of life can mess you up. It happens to even millionaires. Pay attention and get something out of it ...
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Mortal love is full of errors, not perfect, could be influence by outside forces, it is hard to give trust blindly to another, more so an opposite in nature. The Agape love can only comes from Savior willing to die for you. S ...
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Ben and Afua are involved. Saying things in fabrications.
Half horse as ancient mythology discribes, and a man with pussy or women by birth with penis. I think the same thing according to holy bible. The penis or pussy might not be original from the ovum. That is call beast spiritu ...
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Spiritual make ups. Ethics are truely human promotion constituting carnality as in human civilised logics, whiles scriptures are holy spirit inspired. For instance, in the old testament, Elijah had to kill all the "baal" wors ...
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Exactly to the kingdom of God ruling hierarchy with permanente Lord King, neither nezzars statue dream with living permanent King, What is it really. Babylon de whore, not measuring up to the kingdom of God is the Beast. Bein ...
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Not African, maybe, not dark skin. Did not want to eat idol food of ritual celebritions of babylon. God yahwah forbids them. SJC of salvation surpass that order.
Always "THE Ws" all Virginians.
466/46=GWB/DC=6.; 678/65=HBO/JB=5.6
This is the simplex of it all after superimposing for integration in differentiation to borlean matrices in series.
466/46=GWB/DC=6.; 678/65=HBO/JB=5.6
This is the simplex of it all after superimposing for integration in differentiation to borlean matrices in series.
Good one.
when u stretch somebody for something,after getting it,u will surely become useless,some will not even want to go there if the thing fall short of their expection.men naturally because of our sperm storage resevoir which natu ...
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... because of our sperm storage reserviour which naturally is supposed to be emptied frequently to make room for production... is not based on science. Read around spermatogenesis to be informed.
Your story sounds so good, but have you look at it from the other side. Some ladies not all, take advantage of the man providing. Have you heard the word GOLD DIGGERS, no man want to be fooled.
Good piece, sometimes we tuned to forget about our communication abilities. This should set the pace people to learn how to communicate.Who knows in the cause of their dating Julia was using abusive languages that she did not ...
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I think there r so many things that happen in relationship ,everybody have a share in what ever transpire, we shouldn't loose sight on the trouble the woman cause during or after sex. Anything is possible
It very sad and is not fair for men to do that to the ladies. But we should not forget one thing, when we go against the word of God and do what we think is right in our eyes, this is what happens. It is stated very clear in ...
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I go with joshua if we follow God's Word we will save ourselves from these things but if we want to be wise in our own eyes then this is just the beginning
Did you read the story yesterday that says Presby Reverends are seeking divorce to walk away from the vaginas they married to?
After sex life continues Nana Yaa
Thanks for your advice hope all men Will take this advice
Thanks for your advice hope all man will take this advice and women should also respect what they have
well noted. thanks.
My answer is after sex nothing,why do women see every relationship as a potential marriage preparation.
A nice article good for the ladies to study.Most of now-adays ladies are too materialistic that they fail to study the baits of the present men hence they fall victims.How many women will accept poor men as suitors?
Is simple as ABC just becos Africa women follow money .day don't know the meaning love. They also don't know what is good for them. I new one woman in Germany.they got Marriage in Ghana , and after some month later the took h ...
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Some women are cheats and liars.they smell money and they r like woow this is the world...God is surely dealing with them while some men are also receiving the ire punishment as such.
AS THE SAYING GOES,WANT WANT NO GET,GET GET NO WANT. BETTER STILL,THOSE WITH CAPS HAVE NO HEADS. THOSE WITH HEADS TOO HAVE NO CAPS. THE FIRST DAY I MET MY GIRLFRIEND WE MADE LOVE OR HAD SEX. HER ENGINE WAS GOOD,HER CHARACTER ...
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INTELLIGENT NII AGAIN! THANK YOU.
That's the type of treatment some of you women must go through.Your experience is just about 1% of that of men's experience.Don't men sponsor women in schools and even take them as wives to the western world as wives?What do ...
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Do you know the number of women out there using sex to get what the want from men?
Talk to men and write another story to reveal how women go out of the ordinary ways to use men and dump them. It's a two edge sword. You must ...
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Your story look very real and I wonder how long they ve been in the relationship before the man is or was pouring all those material things on her and she was receiving them with joy.Caution never start new relationship by se ...
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After 'sex' what next? After the sex,that's where you realised the stretch marks, busy hair like a forest where all the wild animals are kept. I guess the writer being hypocritical wouldn't go to the same restaurant the secon ...
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Asabea, thanks for asking for this question and I think it is an important question. As the commented by someone, it is one-sided piece. Nevertheless, you asked a great question.
First, there is a man and there is love. Wom ...
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she was taking all the gifts but was not thinking of what next after gifts. well in a wild animal kingdom the hunter becomes the hunted.
Nice piece there tho.....a friend has a similar experience.Please the guys out there, if u re not matured enough to make her feel cared for emotionally, don't get into her pants....and ladies please sEx is not a glue....it cu ...
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Is not all about sex. A man with dreams want a lady with vision. If a lady accept proposal of man cos of riches is a mistake not real love. Ladies must blame themselves 50%. Greedy jealous envy is putting our ladies in Al thi ...
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Question: Do you see the president campaigning and making promises after he wins the election?
The world is in perfect harmony - for every ying there's a yang. The way men treat women is a direct consequence of how women t ...
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You are damn right men!
By far the most sensible and objective response I have read on GhanaWeb. All angles covered.
YOU ARE AN EXCELLENT ANALYST
life continues
this is a lay story. it lacks objectivity and fairness? full of prejudice?!
Well done dear for sharing. yes does guys dnt have respect for themselves and they should also remember that when you throu a ball at a wall it will surely come back to you, someone will also do same to your sister or future ...
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I didn't actually want to comment on this article, but I felt I should rather say something. This change of mind stem from the fact that some one say ladies should endeavor to keep their legs folded until marriage. yes nice a ...
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After sex it is time to look for the next different sex.
I am a man and to tell the writer that the best thing in this World is having sex the first time with a new beautiful lady.
It is our animal instinct.
It is a new tr ...
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After sex, then reality sets in for many ladies. They get to find out if the man only wanted them for sex or for life. A lady must find out for herself if a guy wants her just for sex or really wants her for a wife. If you op ...
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Very good article yet you find unrepentant Ghana men talking gibrish. Most African men do not respect women yet they can to the world through women.It seems like a demon that needs to be cast out from some.It's a very big sha ...
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You feature article is centered on just one lady yet you have generalised the position of men. i can guarantee you that if i guy walks to a lady with all honesty and simply tell her that he fancies her and would want her to b ...
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oh Nana Yaa, so you mean to tell us that you've never heard of a lady snatching her own friend's man before? there are as many women out there who just want sex with certain guys just for the fun of it. always tempting guys. ...
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I think you yourself have been maltreatdd b4 coz the energy with which you are writing this article is too obvious. Maybe you are the Julia in the story. You ladies look down on the less endowed men in the society. And you ju ...
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Thank you for your interesting write up.
Speaking from the point of view of the Bible, I will say that it is a sin to sleep with a man who has not taken your hand in marriage and paid a dowry.
By having premarital sex, you ...
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I like the message keep it up
please advice the ladies to also have some self esteem and dignity. They must also not be gullible and foolish to think that they can enjoy all the luxuries of some men and not pay for it. In any case they offer themselves fr ...
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well said dear, but most at times the ladies, from the beginning they show us some "marryable " behaviour and later disrespect us after knowing our selves,but that doesn't grantee men to spend Gargantua sum of mony just to fu ...
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Good piece,I don't blame de men too much because sometimes they r tempted by de women to do so
Sometimes I feel bad for women. The innocent ones rather become victims of rough play. It's so sad.
Nana Yaa Asabea, please let's get in touch and I'll explain certain things to u. Perhaps it might be of help.
Thank you.
A wonderful piece of write up but full of emotion. I wish you treat it as a research topic.
Hmmmm,the point is that men are actually attracted by sight,I mean what they see. Every beautiful lady will have men falling at her feet but if she has no character these men won't stay for long. As a lady your outward appear ...
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let me tell you something nana yaa asabea or what the call you. believe me julia ur friend wha happend to her is karma, what goes around comes around. maybe she broke the heart of a veri nice God fearing guy. ask her to tell ...
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Have u asked yourself why ur friend gave up the cherry in Dubai? Three weeks in Dubai is a lot of money. Do u know how many 'not-so-rich men' your friend has bounced? And now somebody showers her with gifts n Dubai trips n sh ...
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After reading your article I have this to say,the woman are a carried about the buhaha of spendings from Men should have themselves to blame bcos Sex is a two way thing.And it basically the woman who makes it possible when sh ...
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Men and women are made from flesh and bone. The reality is if you don't know your Creator, you won't know yourself. After she got played then she want to pray? Most of the women need to learn to dress modestly and stop gold d ...
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Baby of course. After the sex baby is next and the life continue without happyness for the both.
Some Men are crazy ???? stupid
KARMA has no menu, you get served what you deserve.
abi when you ladies count too much on your beauty you do seems too proud and any guy who approach you should sweat before he could be your friend, No one is saying you should be cheap by accepting any guys proposal but most b ...
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PLEASE LADIES LET'S GET MARRIED BEFORE SEX BECAUSE THIS HAS BECOME RAMPANT NOW A DAYS WHICH IS NOT GOOD. FUCK AND LEAVE IS NOW TOOOOO MUCH WE ARE SELLING OUR PRIORITIES.
Every body is condemning the action of the guy yes I didn't also support that as well but, here is the question, if this guy had waited for all these while and after marriage he sleep with her only to fine out she was not his ...
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we will chew after sex
All that glitters not gold my dear lady, I think ur friend gave herself out because of the riches and not ready to suffer
Goodness, some women are too greedy
Why didn't the postpone the gifts till after marriage? Sometimes I don't understand women at all. Will you go to the market and buy something I don't need. You spend in what u need so if the man spends on u n gets ur thing in ...
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