To say you do not have the time to cook for your husband even on weekends says volumes. This means you will not also have time to relate to your husband at any level. This means the marriage is just in name.
The question ... read full comment
To say you do not have the time to cook for your husband even on weekends says volumes. This means you will not also have time to relate to your husband at any level. This means the marriage is just in name.
The question is what type of marriage is that? Nobody is saying that women should not pursue careers but it must be balanced with their marriages. As human beings, God comes FIRST; no two ways about that. The next is your family before your job/career. You cannot neglect your marriage at the expense of your job.
What this lady is saying is dangerous. It will lead to problems in the marriage. Many marriages have broken down because the wife has placed her career above the relationship with her husband. Most often, the husband starts flirting with the maid and the end result will certainly not be good.
I am not saying women should always do the cooking; the husband MUST also help the wife with household chores. But to say you will not cook, I will not be in such a marriage.
BE WISE- SHEEGU BANZA 10 years ago
foolish girl is that what you was teach, I feel sorry for ur husband, you very very stupid girl
foolish girl is that what you was teach, I feel sorry for ur husband, you very very stupid girl
Ako 10 years ago
Too many of the marriages that end in divorce in Nigeria comes from infidelities between husbands and the maidservants.Some Nigerian women are so reliant on maidservants that the maids ends up knowing the husbands more than t ... read full comment
Too many of the marriages that end in divorce in Nigeria comes from infidelities between husbands and the maidservants.Some Nigerian women are so reliant on maidservants that the maids ends up knowing the husbands more than them.After a while a friendship is developed between the maid and the husband based on kindness and mutual hatred for the neglectful wife.The friendship almost always develop into sexual relationship and the wife is replaced by the maid before she knows it.Then the new wife also goes and get her own maid.
Fine boy 10 years ago
Stop confusing yourself the pastor said the one who cannot cook not the one who don't have time to cook. If you know you cannot also cook just tell us that you cannot cook simple!!!
Stop confusing yourself the pastor said the one who cannot cook not the one who don't have time to cook. If you know you cannot also cook just tell us that you cannot cook simple!!!
Mr Smith 10 years ago
I think she doesn't know how to cook.
I think she doesn't know how to cook.
Love pays all 10 years ago
Yes that is true .because cooking with all love and heart for your husband is a real blessing for the marriage. Oh some of this wicked and jealous house maid who even spit in the soup and stew when they become tied for workin ... read full comment
Yes that is true .because cooking with all love and heart for your husband is a real blessing for the marriage. Oh some of this wicked and jealous house maid who even spit in the soup and stew when they become tied for working all day etc .well women out there please cook for your husband don't trust any house help some even are whiches they will turn around and break your marriage wanting your husband to their owm .
Abena 10 years ago
But in life you need to balance things; you need to make time for each other. Things like, treating each well, sex, kids & family cannot be put on the back burner. It will only lead to trouble – Trust me, I’ve been there ... read full comment
But in life you need to balance things; you need to make time for each other. Things like, treating each well, sex, kids & family cannot be put on the back burner. It will only lead to trouble – Trust me, I’ve been there and it leads to a lot of heart ache.
Patience 10 years ago
It is not good advise from the Pastor
It is not good advise from the Pastor
United We Stand. 10 years ago
I don't have the time for such things. If one really understood love and marriage, that person will never make those loose comments. The mum or Dad struggled to have her stay in Britain, so frustration and other pressing issu ... read full comment
I don't have the time for such things. If one really understood love and marriage, that person will never make those loose comments. The mum or Dad struggled to have her stay in Britain, so frustration and other pressing issues had caused them not to bring her up as true African woman. I don't blame her. Even in UK or USA both men and women who truly love themselves cook for each other depending on the schedule both have. I Don't think she a Ghanaian or African. Useless woman.
Sam 10 years ago
Stupid woman
Stupid woman
nonsense gurl 10 years ago
Stupid girl!! Who then will cock for the housemaids's husbands?
Stupid girl!! Who then will cock for the housemaids's husbands?
acasia 10 years ago
Blacks only concentrate on foolishness whilst the world is leaving is behind in terms of technology and development. Gyimifuour!
Blacks only concentrate on foolishness whilst the world is leaving is behind in terms of technology and development. Gyimifuour!
?y? asem 10 years ago
I don't blame dem,c dis girl,dats y nowadays de hsemaids snatch their husband's from dem.
Learn hw to cook n stop bluffing
I don't blame dem,c dis girl,dats y nowadays de hsemaids snatch their husband's from dem.
Learn hw to cook n stop bluffing
kofi Agbo. 10 years ago
Do have time to sleep husband?.nonsense
Do have time to sleep husband?.nonsense
Donn 10 years ago
The Fool who will marry you have a big problem.And if you get a guy who is dating you trust me,he will dump you.
You are a fool.
The Fool who will marry you have a big problem.And if you get a guy who is dating you trust me,he will dump you.
You are a fool.
Kofi 10 years ago
I think most of you guys just jumped to the comment WITHOUT actually reading the article...
I think most of you guys just jumped to the comment WITHOUT actually reading the article...
Phelix Owusu Agyemang 10 years ago
Then go and be a housemaid to someone.
Then go and be a housemaid to someone.
Fils d'homme 10 years ago
The comments of the Pastor as well as these comments of our actress are out of place. Cooking should be shared by both husband and wife especially when they are both gainfully employed. Housemaids, huuummm think twice, my sis ... read full comment
The comments of the Pastor as well as these comments of our actress are out of place. Cooking should be shared by both husband and wife especially when they are both gainfully employed. Housemaids, huuummm think twice, my sister.
High Spirit 10 years ago
SHAME ON YOU
SHAME ON YOU
Nii 10 years ago
Don't be surprised if a maid takes over your husband
Don't be surprised if a maid takes over your husband
Wona Noo? 10 years ago
Oh!!! then hire house maid to sleep with your husband when you are away "miss carrier woman".
Oh!!! then hire house maid to sleep with your husband when you are away "miss carrier woman".
benz 10 years ago
U ar a disgrace to society
U ar a disgrace to society
Orlando 10 years ago
You are not serious in wat u are saying bcus is not everything your housemaid will do for u and your husband n dis really shows dat u are lazy in doing your house choirs.if u are married to your husband dats your responsibili ... read full comment
You are not serious in wat u are saying bcus is not everything your housemaid will do for u and your husband n dis really shows dat u are lazy in doing your house choirs.if u are married to your husband dats your responsibility n not your housemaid or wat if u don't hv a maid wat will u do.lazy woman,comot for der
jeje 10 years ago
forgetting that they are also wifes in someway, but cooks and you thinks you one but cannot boil an egg, sorry for you,.
forgetting that they are also wifes in someway, but cooks and you thinks you one but cannot boil an egg, sorry for you,.
Michael ken. aka. Gaddaffi 10 years ago
Lola not that you dont have time to cook but you dont know how to cook. Before you will realise your maid will start sleeping with your husband
Lola not that you dont have time to cook but you dont know how to cook. Before you will realise your maid will start sleeping with your husband
asie baby 10 years ago
If that housemaid was not brought the way she is now, how will be able to cook for you and ur family, well be prepare to loose your husband to the house maid.
If that housemaid was not brought the way she is now, how will be able to cook for you and ur family, well be prepare to loose your husband to the house maid.
usher 10 years ago
Sweet u didn't understand d pastor.he said women who can't cook.
Our fresh ladies our becoming lazy.they don't want to cook
Guys be wise and choose a lady who cn cook. 4 u
Sweet u didn't understand d pastor.he said women who can't cook.
Our fresh ladies our becoming lazy.they don't want to cook
Guys be wise and choose a lady who cn cook. 4 u
asie baby 10 years ago
The same thing applies to the gays and lesbians, who should get pregnant, give birth and you will go and adopt if they also married to same sex? Leave your husband to be fed by your housemaid, she will equally bath and put hi ... read full comment
The same thing applies to the gays and lesbians, who should get pregnant, give birth and you will go and adopt if they also married to same sex? Leave your husband to be fed by your housemaid, she will equally bath and put him to sleep.
Rasta 10 years ago
absolutely nonsense
absolutely nonsense
kwami.... 10 years ago
Always twisting report/stories to suit your own agenda and shortfalls.You can't cook period!! say it Abbahh!!
Always twisting report/stories to suit your own agenda and shortfalls.You can't cook period!! say it Abbahh!!
GOODMAN 10 years ago
What are you talking about? You must cook for your husband everyday. And if your food is nice, he will luv u more. Only lazy bitches don't want to cook.
What are you talking about? You must cook for your husband everyday. And if your food is nice, he will luv u more. Only lazy bitches don't want to cook.
KTZ 10 years ago
...who is your maid. You even look like a maid anyway. Maybe you can be may maid. How much would you charge me?
Nonsense! Because of this arrogance what's why they don't go far when they star their careers.
...who is your maid. You even look like a maid anyway. Maybe you can be may maid. How much would you charge me?
Nonsense! Because of this arrogance what's why they don't go far when they star their careers.
Millicent carvi 10 years ago
Yaa that's it, she don't know how to cook, ah ah ah what a lady
Yaa that's it, she don't know how to cook, ah ah ah what a lady
Millicent carvi 10 years ago
this Lola girl i don't think she has Ghana blood,ah because Ghana girls know how to cook ah what an insult
this Lola girl i don't think she has Ghana blood,ah because Ghana girls know how to cook ah what an insult
Peace 10 years ago
Very balanced opinion. Respect that .
Very balanced opinion. Respect that .
obi 10 years ago
my sister for God sick na through now ,a woman who can not cook how do u call ur self
my sister for God sick na through now ,a woman who can not cook how do u call ur self
kk 10 years ago
kwasea baa
kwasea baa
EVANGELIST ELVIS 10 years ago
That is why you will one day see your husband and the housemaid in bed.
That is why you will one day see your husband and the housemaid in bed.
FUFUO DADESEN 10 years ago
CAN'T BLAME HER....SHE GOT MONEY TO PAY FOR MAIDS AND CHEFS..HER BUSINESS ,,NOT ALL WIVES CAN COOK,BY THE WAY
CAN'T BLAME HER....SHE GOT MONEY TO PAY FOR MAIDS AND CHEFS..HER BUSINESS ,,NOT ALL WIVES CAN COOK,BY THE WAY
Lab Man 10 years ago
Always remember a way to a Man's heart is through his food u Cook for him. So blaim yourself if you allow your maid to find that way to ur Man's heart.
Always remember a way to a Man's heart is through his food u Cook for him. So blaim yourself if you allow your maid to find that way to ur Man's heart.
BB 10 years ago
wives who don't cook for they're husbands and kids are very very lazy that's what happens when husbands sleeps with they're house maids. Lazy woman
wives who don't cook for they're husbands and kids are very very lazy that's what happens when husbands sleeps with they're house maids. Lazy woman
KING DAVID 10 years ago
Learn how to cook madam and stop the pride. Thus, why maids would continue to be good replacement to you in bed. They would make Ur husbands happy in the stomach and on bed as well.
Learn how to cook madam and stop the pride. Thus, why maids would continue to be good replacement to you in bed. They would make Ur husbands happy in the stomach and on bed as well.
PUSHER 10 years ago
STUPID GAL
STUPID GAL
Tilo 10 years ago
As fake as always, fake nigerian, 'butterfly thinks herself a bird. Love u r music but hate u r pretends. Tell the truth u can't cook.
As fake as always, fake nigerian, 'butterfly thinks herself a bird. Love u r music but hate u r pretends. Tell the truth u can't cook.
Christian Agbobli 10 years ago
#TotalMadness...you don't low how to cook. You can't keep a real man then...
#TotalMadness...you don't low how to cook. You can't keep a real man then...
Asumadu 10 years ago
If you won't cook for your husband because of work or inability to cook, then don't bother marrying. Why is it that when women achieve self actualization, they tend to be a headache to their partners?
If you won't cook for your husband because of work or inability to cook, then don't bother marrying. Why is it that when women achieve self actualization, they tend to be a headache to their partners?
Reinford 10 years ago
what is this world turning into.The lady is telling us career is more important their husband.No wonder some don't men to marry them
what is this world turning into.The lady is telling us career is more important their husband.No wonder some don't men to marry them
Awisky 10 years ago
The man of God was talking in terms of the scripture. As a wife, you must know your husband's stomach more than even his mother. I haven't heard it anywhere that wives should go for housemaids that's why the bonds in marriage ... read full comment
The man of God was talking in terms of the scripture. As a wife, you must know your husband's stomach more than even his mother. I haven't heard it anywhere that wives should go for housemaids that's why the bonds in marriages today are so weak.
marry according to God's plan and have a blessed marriage.
Boss 10 years ago
You even don't know how to cook. Lazy woman.
You even don't know how to cook. Lazy woman.
saddiq 10 years ago
yes can not cook atol
yes can not cook atol
Onipa ba 10 years ago
Don't cry when a cook cooks for your husband in bed.
Don't cry when a cook cooks for your husband in bed.
bonsu 10 years ago
Doesn't this woman know that some men can swayed by good food and if she doesn't cook and the maid do she gives the maid an urge over her, which can lead to the maid taken over her marriage. Some career women they boast of sh ... read full comment
Doesn't this woman know that some men can swayed by good food and if she doesn't cook and the maid do she gives the maid an urge over her, which can lead to the maid taken over her marriage. Some career women they boast of should think twice before taken an action, if u want ur career first better divorce ur man and go on with ur career
F. A. K. 10 years ago
Continue being a "career" woman and the house help will be "carried" by you husband should the time come. Ladies of this generation n their foolish and ignorant utterances. Tweeaaaaaa????????????????????
Continue being a "career" woman and the house help will be "carried" by you husband should the time come. Ladies of this generation n their foolish and ignorant utterances. Tweeaaaaaa????????????????????
To say you do not have the time to cook for your husband even on weekends says volumes. This means you will not also have time to relate to your husband at any level. This means the marriage is just in name.
The question ...
read full comment
foolish girl is that what you was teach, I feel sorry for ur husband, you very very stupid girl
Too many of the marriages that end in divorce in Nigeria comes from infidelities between husbands and the maidservants.Some Nigerian women are so reliant on maidservants that the maids ends up knowing the husbands more than t ...
read full comment
Stop confusing yourself the pastor said the one who cannot cook not the one who don't have time to cook. If you know you cannot also cook just tell us that you cannot cook simple!!!
I think she doesn't know how to cook.
Yes that is true .because cooking with all love and heart for your husband is a real blessing for the marriage. Oh some of this wicked and jealous house maid who even spit in the soup and stew when they become tied for workin ...
read full comment
But in life you need to balance things; you need to make time for each other. Things like, treating each well, sex, kids & family cannot be put on the back burner. It will only lead to trouble – Trust me, I’ve been there ...
read full comment
It is not good advise from the Pastor
I don't have the time for such things. If one really understood love and marriage, that person will never make those loose comments. The mum or Dad struggled to have her stay in Britain, so frustration and other pressing issu ...
read full comment
Stupid woman
Stupid girl!! Who then will cock for the housemaids's husbands?
Blacks only concentrate on foolishness whilst the world is leaving is behind in terms of technology and development. Gyimifuour!
I don't blame dem,c dis girl,dats y nowadays de hsemaids snatch their husband's from dem.
Learn hw to cook n stop bluffing
Do have time to sleep husband?.nonsense
The Fool who will marry you have a big problem.And if you get a guy who is dating you trust me,he will dump you.
You are a fool.
I think most of you guys just jumped to the comment WITHOUT actually reading the article...
Then go and be a housemaid to someone.
The comments of the Pastor as well as these comments of our actress are out of place. Cooking should be shared by both husband and wife especially when they are both gainfully employed. Housemaids, huuummm think twice, my sis ...
read full comment
SHAME ON YOU
Don't be surprised if a maid takes over your husband
Oh!!! then hire house maid to sleep with your husband when you are away "miss carrier woman".
U ar a disgrace to society
You are not serious in wat u are saying bcus is not everything your housemaid will do for u and your husband n dis really shows dat u are lazy in doing your house choirs.if u are married to your husband dats your responsibili ...
read full comment
forgetting that they are also wifes in someway, but cooks and you thinks you one but cannot boil an egg, sorry for you,.
Lola not that you dont have time to cook but you dont know how to cook. Before you will realise your maid will start sleeping with your husband
If that housemaid was not brought the way she is now, how will be able to cook for you and ur family, well be prepare to loose your husband to the house maid.
Sweet u didn't understand d pastor.he said women who can't cook.
Our fresh ladies our becoming lazy.they don't want to cook
Guys be wise and choose a lady who cn cook. 4 u
The same thing applies to the gays and lesbians, who should get pregnant, give birth and you will go and adopt if they also married to same sex? Leave your husband to be fed by your housemaid, she will equally bath and put hi ...
read full comment
absolutely nonsense
Always twisting report/stories to suit your own agenda and shortfalls.You can't cook period!! say it Abbahh!!
What are you talking about? You must cook for your husband everyday. And if your food is nice, he will luv u more. Only lazy bitches don't want to cook.
...who is your maid. You even look like a maid anyway. Maybe you can be may maid. How much would you charge me?
Nonsense! Because of this arrogance what's why they don't go far when they star their careers.
Yaa that's it, she don't know how to cook, ah ah ah what a lady
this Lola girl i don't think she has Ghana blood,ah because Ghana girls know how to cook ah what an insult
Very balanced opinion. Respect that .
my sister for God sick na through now ,a woman who can not cook how do u call ur self
kwasea baa
That is why you will one day see your husband and the housemaid in bed.
CAN'T BLAME HER....SHE GOT MONEY TO PAY FOR MAIDS AND CHEFS..HER BUSINESS ,,NOT ALL WIVES CAN COOK,BY THE WAY
Always remember a way to a Man's heart is through his food u Cook for him. So blaim yourself if you allow your maid to find that way to ur Man's heart.
wives who don't cook for they're husbands and kids are very very lazy that's what happens when husbands sleeps with they're house maids. Lazy woman
Learn how to cook madam and stop the pride. Thus, why maids would continue to be good replacement to you in bed. They would make Ur husbands happy in the stomach and on bed as well.
STUPID GAL
As fake as always, fake nigerian, 'butterfly thinks herself a bird. Love u r music but hate u r pretends. Tell the truth u can't cook.
#TotalMadness...you don't low how to cook. You can't keep a real man then...
If you won't cook for your husband because of work or inability to cook, then don't bother marrying. Why is it that when women achieve self actualization, they tend to be a headache to their partners?
what is this world turning into.The lady is telling us career is more important their husband.No wonder some don't men to marry them
The man of God was talking in terms of the scripture. As a wife, you must know your husband's stomach more than even his mother. I haven't heard it anywhere that wives should go for housemaids that's why the bonds in marriage ...
read full comment
You even don't know how to cook. Lazy woman.
yes can not cook atol
Don't cry when a cook cooks for your husband in bed.
Doesn't this woman know that some men can swayed by good food and if she doesn't cook and the maid do she gives the maid an urge over her, which can lead to the maid taken over her marriage. Some career women they boast of sh ...
read full comment
Continue being a "career" woman and the house help will be "carried" by you husband should the time come. Ladies of this generation n their foolish and ignorant utterances. Tweeaaaaaa????????????????????
Stupidity at it best u educated fool.