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• Asem sebe 9 years ago

  This is an accurate reflection on why so many ladies in Ghana are single - many of them have issues with men and just want to use them for thier own agenda!! shame on them

  This is an accurate reflection on why so many ladies in Ghana are single - many of them have issues with men and just want to use them for thier own agenda!! shame on them

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• Opinion 9 years ago

  The writer must have low self esteem or he/she is trying to grind an axe with someone. Good luck!

  The writer must have low self esteem or he/she is trying to grind an axe with someone. Good luck!

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• KK Mensah 9 years ago

  You have properly diagnosed the illness that our ladies sometimes carry. I can personally relate to some of the issues raised. You are spot on with your analyses. A good resource to those who have some of these 'illnesses' an ...
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  You have properly diagnosed the illness that our ladies sometimes carry. I can personally relate to some of the issues raised. You are spot on with your analyses. A good resource to those who have some of these 'illnesses' and are desirous
  for change.Good material.

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• Yaa 9 years ago

  Not all women want to be married. It's not the be all and end all! There's more to life than marriage and each person has to do what works best for her!

  Not all women want to be married. It's not the be all and end all! There's more to life than marriage and each person has to do what works best for her!

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• harry martins 9 years ago

  Shame on you....ur type will never listen to the voice of reoson....who cares whatever your so called wishes are.don't misguide the much reasonable ladies.. Just be.

  Shame on you....ur type will never listen to the voice of reoson....who cares whatever your so called wishes are.don't misguide the much reasonable ladies.. Just be.

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• BB Boonetwon 9 years ago

  Can u say with a straight face that u don't want to marry? I assume u are a woman

  Can u say with a straight face that u don't want to marry? I assume u are a woman

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• William 9 years ago

  A very good article and this as well goes to the guys too. No woman will go for a man who also bear these traits.

  A very good article and this as well goes to the guys too. No woman will go for a man who also bear these traits.

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• reflex 9 years ago

  Men always have the upper hand so stop being a fool for women.

  Men always have the upper hand so stop being a fool for women.

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• 3dem 9 years ago

  This is the most shallow and judgemental piece I have ever seen on marriage. Wat that any beautiful woman who is single is a a monster....aren't you stupid?
  
  "Men are particular" in choosing wives, come and see these couple ...
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  This is the most shallow and judgemental piece I have ever seen on marriage. Wat that any beautiful woman who is single is a a monster....aren't you stupid?
  
  "Men are particular" in choosing wives, come and see these couple behind my window who are at each other's throat every day.....they are married alright..and the man was particular alright....and I am beautiful married woman. I know a lot of beautiful single women who are angels and i know a lot of ugly married women are virtually at their husbands throats; and a lot of ugly married men who are virtually monsters to their wives.
  
  So who is this shallow writer?

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• reflex 9 years ago

  Look at this stupid ewe talking against good morals. Most of you Ghanaian ladies of today are just too uncultured to go into marriages.

  Look at this stupid ewe talking against good morals. Most of you Ghanaian ladies of today are just too uncultured to go into marriages.

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• jadesika 9 years ago

  Sometimes, there will be no need for insults if we want people to hear us and respect our views. I would be glad if u could retract your comment because we are all sharing ideas and not forcing our opinions down each others t ...
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  Sometimes, there will be no need for insults if we want people to hear us and respect our views. I would be glad if u could retract your comment because we are all sharing ideas and not forcing our opinions down each others throats. Because when we do that we descend down into the moral abyss of humanity. Thank you.

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• 3dem 9 years ago

  And you sound like a shallow brainless tribalistic monkey...keep it up

  And you sound like a shallow brainless tribalistic monkey...keep it up

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• 3dem 9 years ago

  And what is the excuse for handsome men who are not married? This writer is so backward, judgemental, disrespectful, presumptuous and arrogant

  And what is the excuse for handsome men who are not married? This writer is so backward, judgemental, disrespectful, presumptuous and arrogant

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• PRINCEWILLY@YMAIL.COM 9 years ago

  The young bride approached her awaiting husband on their wedding night and demanded $20 for their first love-making encounter. In his highly aroused state, he readily agreed. This scenario was repeated each time they made lo ...
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  The young bride approached her awaiting husband on their wedding night and demanded $20 for their first love-making encounter. In his highly aroused state, he readily agreed. This scenario was repeated each time they made love for the next 30 years, him thinking it was a cute way for her to buy new clothes, etc. Arriving home around noon one day, she found her husband in a very drunken state. Over the next few minutes she heard of the ravages of financial ruin caused by corporate down sizing and it's effects on a 50 year old executive. Calmly, she handed him a bank book showing deposits and interest for 12 years totaling nearly $1 million dollars. Pointing across the parking lot she gestured toward the local bank while handing him stock certificates worth nearly $2 million dollars and informing him that he was the largest stockholder in the bank. She told him that for 30 years she had charged him each time they had sex, and this was the result of her investments. By now he was distraught and beating his head against the side of the car. She asked him why the disappointment at such good news and he replied, "If I had known what you were doing, I would have given you all of my business!

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• Bobandey 9 years ago

  I think this is an observation and should not be taken on personal grounds. Lets not be angry. It is happening in our daily lives. Take a look at the prayer camp what we see are women whose appearance is enough to earn them a ...
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  I think this is an observation and should not be taken on personal grounds. Lets not be angry. It is happening in our daily lives. Take a look at the prayer camp what we see are women whose appearance is enough to earn them a man so I think the writer made a great analysis u can chose to divert anyway.

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• Ruth 9 years ago

  You are 100% right, after all its good to change

  You are 100% right, after all its good to change

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• Kwame 9 years ago

  This is so true. I aways check this in a woman. I was In Ghana one month ago to look for a woman that I can get to know and marry . They have change so much that the women Here in America that we are running from are almost ...
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  This is so true. I aways check this in a woman. I was In Ghana one month ago to look for a woman that I can get to know and marry . They have change so much that the women Here in America that we are running from are almost better. They are so fake and aimless. Maybe the once that I met.

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• haha 9 years ago

  you don't like the women in America and the Ghana women in Ghana are not good too. who has the problem here, men or women

  you don't like the women in America and the Ghana women in Ghana are not good too. who has the problem here, men or women

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• Dr Osei-Bonsu 9 years ago

  It's not those you met, that's how low the standards has become. I have been searching for three years and still searching. I don't want to make the mistakes some friends did.

  It's not those you met, that's how low the standards has become. I have been searching for three years and still searching. I don't want to make the mistakes some friends did.

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• jadesika 9 years ago

  Guys are thinking the problem is the ladies. Why don't you check yourself and ask 'what sort of woman do I get attracted to'chances are, you get attracted to your kind. You guys like the hot saucy times and trust me, you will ...
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  Guys are thinking the problem is the ladies. Why don't you check yourself and ask 'what sort of woman do I get attracted to'chances are, you get attracted to your kind. You guys like the hot saucy times and trust me, you will get them because every society has its fair share of 'the good ', 'the bad'and 'the ugly'. Trust me, there are good girls in Ghana same as American Horror but some guys will never meet them because they are too vain to look beyond appearance.

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• Apostle Mawuetornam Dugbazah 9 years ago

  One of the best write-ups I've ever read on the internet at ghanaweb.com.
  
  So many females of this generation are not trained to do anything righteous in the family unit and therefore cannot even marry a real man. It's a p ...
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  One of the best write-ups I've ever read on the internet at ghanaweb.com.
  
  So many females of this generation are not trained to do anything righteous in the family unit and therefore cannot even marry a real man. It's a problem in African communities due to feminism and the wrong teachings of parents like many of the women whose husbands are not manly. Thank you.
  
  Sincerely,
  Apostle Mawuetornam Dugbazah
  In righteousness, truth and love

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• Apostle Mawuetornam Dugbazah 9 years ago

  I am amazed at the accuracy of this write-up with respect to African women of this generation. Many of them are silly and DO NOT even try hard enough to learn how to live righteously. It's a shame to the church that people cl ...
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  I am amazed at the accuracy of this write-up with respect to African women of this generation. Many of them are silly and DO NOT even try hard enough to learn how to live righteously. It's a shame to the church that people claiming to be Christian are usually among this lot. Amen.
  
  Sincerely,
  Apostle Mawuetornam Dugbazah
  The best is yet to come

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