Is Kamchatka a member of the family? Kofi Wusu, ignore all of them including the media for now.
Is Kamchatka a member of the family? Kofi Wusu, ignore all of them including the media for now.
Dr Mumbi Seraki 1 month ago
Hello youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine. For instance 15 paracetamol at once. Or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.
Hello youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine. For instance 15 paracetamol at once. Or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.
Ohene Damuah 1 month ago
It is about time the family stop spilling dirty linen in public. For Akosua Brempomaa to continue her behaviour in this way, she will have to become Abusua Panin after Lumba's burial.
There needs to be common sense to be f ... read full comment
It is about time the family stop spilling dirty linen in public. For Akosua Brempomaa to continue her behaviour in this way, she will have to become Abusua Panin after Lumba's burial.
There needs to be common sense to be found. She needs to fund the funeral herself and gives us a break. After all she couldn't pay for her Ntam Kese3 penalty but fund the uncouth lawyer to spew nonsense.
Gyemii sei aaa 1 month ago
Cos of people like you that the country is morally degrading so fast. Abusua panin has no right to draw his money unless he has Lumba`s consent or the consent of the next of kin, ie his child, or wife. This is insane
Cos of people like you that the country is morally degrading so fast. Abusua panin has no right to draw his money unless he has Lumba`s consent or the consent of the next of kin, ie his child, or wife. This is insane
Agbalagba 1 month ago
Shut up if you are not a member of the family
Shut up if you are not a member of the family
Chris 1 month ago
Cut your coat according to your cloth. You expect the state or president to finance your funeral? Ghanaians are very interesting.
Cut your coat according to your cloth. You expect the state or president to finance your funeral? Ghanaians are very interesting.
TW3DE3 1 month ago
THIS MAN SHOULD GROW UP! TWEAAA!!! WHO SAID TWEAAA???? I DID BECAUSE HE BEHAVES LIKE AN JHS STUDENT! TWEAAA AGAIN!!!
THIS MAN SHOULD GROW UP! TWEAAA!!! WHO SAID TWEAAA???? I DID BECAUSE HE BEHAVES LIKE AN JHS STUDENT! TWEAAA AGAIN!!!
Chairman1 1 month ago
Embarrassing your own native due to death. Having lost dignity and respect to the President and the Asantehene. Now you know where corruption starts? Nowhere but homemade. Stop blaming it on African leaders, the people who vo ... read full comment
Embarrassing your own native due to death. Having lost dignity and respect to the President and the Asantehene. Now you know where corruption starts? Nowhere but homemade. Stop blaming it on African leaders, the people who voted them to power , makes them corrupt. Simple!
kofi good job babs ,excellent reply 1 month ago
Write your comment ABUSUAPANIN PLEASEEEEEE PLEASEEEEEE STOP TALKING TO THE MEDIA.. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...
Write your comment ABUSUAPANIN PLEASEEEEEE PLEASEEEEEE STOP TALKING TO THE MEDIA.. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...
Obeng 1 month ago
This man doesn't deserve to be abusua panyin, he's very stupid and should be banned from Ghana.
This man doesn't deserve to be abusua panyin, he's very stupid and should be banned from Ghana.
The Real Wife: The Truth Behind Daddy Lumba, Odo Broni, and the Akosua Serwaah Scam 1 month ago
40 Questions About Love, Loyalty, and What Makes a Real Partner — Lessons from Daddy Lumba’s Story
By Rexford Agyemang (Kwabena Agyemang)
I, Rexford Agyemang, am not writing this to attack anyone — I’m writing t ... read full comment
40 Questions About Love, Loyalty, and What Makes a Real Partner — Lessons from Daddy Lumba’s Story
By Rexford Agyemang (Kwabena Agyemang)
I, Rexford Agyemang, am not writing this to attack anyone — I’m writing to wake people up.
What’s happening around Daddy Lumba’s story is not just gossip — it’s a mirror showing how our society defines love, marriage, and loyalty.
And sadly, it exposes how we reward papers over presence, and certificates over compassion.
So let’s ask the questions no one wants to ask — the 40 hard, logical, and honest questions every thinking person should consider before judging who the “real partner” is.
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1. When a man is sick and weak, who stands beside him — the person with a marriage certificate or the person with a heart?
2. What is marriage really worth if love, care, and loyalty are missing from it?
3. Can a relationship that’s been silent for 16 years still be called “marriage,” or is it just memory on paper?
4. Why do people celebrate those who show up for a dead body but ignore those who showed up for the living soul?
5. If love disappears for over a decade, can a piece of paper bring it back?
6. How can someone claim to be a “wife” when she was absent from the husband’s darkest days?
7. If marriage is supposed to be for better or worse, where was the “for worse” part when he was sick?
8. Why do we value wedding photos more than daily sacrifices?
9. When tradition says marriage ends after drinks are returned, why does society ignore that truth?
10. What’s more sacred — the law of the land you live in or the law of the heart that kept you alive?
11. Why are old pictures from the 1980s proof of love, but not the years of nursing, feeding, and caring?
12. If you abandon a man for 16 years and return when he’s gone, is that love or convenience?
13. How can someone fight for property when they never fought for the man’s life?
14. What’s the real definition of a widow — the woman who signed or the woman who stayed?
15. Why do we glorify distance and insult devotion?
16. Can you claim loyalty when your actions prove absence?
17. If a man had done what some women do — vanish for years — would society still call him a husband?
18. Why is a man’s loyalty measured by money, but a woman’s loyalty measured by paper?
19. Who bought the children’s diapers, milk, and medicine — the law or the woman who cared?
20. When a man falls ill, why do people suddenly remember who his “legal wife” is but forget who saved his life?
21. What’s the use of foreign marriage laws when they erase the real family a man built at home?
22. Why does the system reward abandonment but punish presence?
23. If the heart moves on, why should the law keep you chained to the past?
24. When the man was strong and performing, everyone wanted to be around him. Where were they when he was weak?
25. Can you be called a wife in absence but not in sacrifice?
26. What makes a woman a wife — the ring, the ink, or the scars from caring through sickness?
27. Why do we pretend the one who nursed him doesn’t exist just because she doesn’t have a Western-style marriage paper?
28. How can a certificate be stronger than 16 years of silence?
29. Is marriage now about love, or about who gets what when death comes?
30. When you return to claim what you didn’t help build, isn’t that spiritual theft?
31. Why are the same women who demand equality silent when another woman’s loyalty is trampled?
32. What example are we setting for our daughters — that presence means nothing if paperwork exists?
33. What example are we setting for our sons — that no matter how much they love, the law can erase them?
34. Why do people fear truth so much that they hide behind “legality”?
35. When love becomes a courtroom topic, has it not already died?
36. Why does society protect paper marriages but not emotional marriages?
37. Can any lawyer explain what a certificate did that compassion couldn’t?
38. If love is real, why does it need proof? If love is gone, what can a paper prove?
39. Why do we judge women by rings and men by results?
40. And the hardest question of all — if being there when someone is dying doesn’t make you a spouse, then what does?
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Final Thoughts
I, Rexford Agyemang (Kwabena Agyemang), am simply saying what many men are afraid to say aloud:
The world has made marriage a battlefield where presence loses to paperwork, and truth loses to technicality.
The real lesson from Daddy Lumba’s story isn’t about who had a document — it’s about who had a heart.
Love that shows up in sickness, loyalty that survives gossip, and compassion that outlives fame — that’s what makes someone a true partner.
If a woman’s care, devotion, and sacrifices mean nothing because she didn’t print a marriage certificate, then our society has lost its soul.
Let this story open our eyes.
Because one day, we’ll all be judged — not by what we signed, but by who we stood by.
Agbalagba 1 month ago
Kumchacha is not a family member so he should shut the up
Kumchacha is not a family member so he should shut the up
Is Kamchatka a member of the family? Kofi Wusu, ignore all of them including the media for now.
Hello youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine. For instance 15 paracetamol at once. Or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.
It is about time the family stop spilling dirty linen in public. For Akosua Brempomaa to continue her behaviour in this way, she will have to become Abusua Panin after Lumba's burial.
There needs to be common sense to be f ...
read full comment
Cos of people like you that the country is morally degrading so fast. Abusua panin has no right to draw his money unless he has Lumba`s consent or the consent of the next of kin, ie his child, or wife. This is insane
Shut up if you are not a member of the family
Cut your coat according to your cloth. You expect the state or president to finance your funeral? Ghanaians are very interesting.
THIS MAN SHOULD GROW UP! TWEAAA!!! WHO SAID TWEAAA???? I DID BECAUSE HE BEHAVES LIKE AN JHS STUDENT! TWEAAA AGAIN!!!
Embarrassing your own native due to death. Having lost dignity and respect to the President and the Asantehene. Now you know where corruption starts? Nowhere but homemade. Stop blaming it on African leaders, the people who vo ...
read full comment
Write your comment ABUSUAPANIN PLEASEEEEEE PLEASEEEEEE STOP TALKING TO THE MEDIA.. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH...
This man doesn't deserve to be abusua panyin, he's very stupid and should be banned from Ghana.
40 Questions About Love, Loyalty, and What Makes a Real Partner — Lessons from Daddy Lumba’s Story
By Rexford Agyemang (Kwabena Agyemang)
I, Rexford Agyemang, am not writing this to attack anyone — I’m writing t ...
read full comment
Kumchacha is not a family member so he should shut the up