Dear GhanaWeb: I married my wife to return a favour, not out of love and I am now in a fix

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joe 1 month ago

You're very very stupid and opportunist
Kindly stop ur Ashawo attitude and concentrate on your marriage

You're very very stupid and opportunist
Kindly stop ur Ashawo attitude and concentrate on your marriage
Truth be told 1 month ago

My brother, be steady and love her by force,...do you know how many people have married people for expediency and not really for love. Ye steady wati.

My brother, be steady and love her by force,...do you know how many people have married people for expediency and not really for love. Ye steady wati.
prophet mohammed was a sick dog 1 month ago

Say no to islam and convert to a real religion.
Allah is satanic scum and qur'an is toilet paper...........Search online for ways to move away from evil islam. You can join ex-muslim groups online and be safe.......... ...
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Say no to islam and convert to a real religion.
Allah is satanic scum and qur'an is toilet paper...........Search online for ways to move away from evil islam. You can join ex-muslim groups online and be safe............you are not alone.
Kaybee 1 month ago

May God bless you

May God bless you
REAL MATURE LOVE VERSUS A TEMPORARY WARM FUZZY FEELING 1 month ago

If love is only that fuzzy warm exhilarating feeling that causes your heart to miss a beat when you hear the voice of your beloved or the sound of their laughter, then we have bad news for you. A time will come, rest assured ...
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If love is only that fuzzy warm exhilarating feeling that causes your heart to miss a beat when you hear the voice of your beloved or the sound of their laughter, then we have bad news for you. A time will come, rest assured when after you have been married for some years, maybe even after only a few months when that same voice that use to excite you will irritate or annoy you when you hear it. The love this young man describes is like the lovely flowers of a plant which at first look and smell lovely, then as the flowers start to wilt and wither away the lovely colours and fragrance quickly disappear. Flowers don’t remain flowers forever as we all know. Alas those gorgeous flowers soon start to wilt and wither away. Again, as many of us know these withered flowers will eventually be replaced by growing fruits after pollination. These fruits will eventually ripen.
THAT WARM FEELING OF LOVE IS NOT DESTINED TO LAST. For some people it literally evaporates during the honeymoon period. For others it can linger on for a few more years
In all growing and maturing marriages, the love the young man describes will over a period become replaced by MATURE LOVE (deepening companionship, friendship and affection).
That is what REAL LOVE looks like. But this kind of love comes at a cost. IT REQUIRES
1. DEDICATION AND COMMITMENT,
2. CONSTANT EFFORT AND HARD WORK.
3. IT REQUIRES THAT EACH PERSON IN THE MARRIAGE SEEKS THE GOOD OF THE OTHER.
4.THEY LEARN TO OVERLOOK THE OTHER PERSON'S FAULTS,
5. RESPECT THE OTHER PERSON'S FEELINGS.
6. MOST IMPORTANTLY IT ALSO MEANS THAT NO THIRD PARTY (OUTSIDER) CAN EVER BE ALLOWED TO COME IN BETWEEN A HUSBAND AND WIFE PARTNERSHIP, THAT IS WHAT WE CALL BEING FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE.
TRUE LOVE IS LIKE A VALUABLE PLANT THAT HAS TO BE WATERED ,NURTURED AND CARED FOR FOR IT TO BEAR WONDERFUL FRUIT.
Manu Amponsah 1 month ago

He is not just stupid but fooooolllllish foooooolll

He is not just stupid but fooooolllllish foooooolll
Kenny 1 month ago

Well said my brother.He is a typical example of why ladies don't want to help men this days.Foolish cheat.

Well said my brother.He is a typical example of why ladies don't want to help men this days.Foolish cheat.
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New love 1 month ago

It will be better for you to stop that dating of another lady done to put yourself in to trouble which you can never solve it out and it will be a curse on you my brother is better for you to stop

It will be better for you to stop that dating of another lady done to put yourself in to trouble which you can never solve it out and it will be a curse on you my brother is better for you to stop
Lord Lugard 1 month ago

Stick to your wife and forget about the other lady.

Stick to your wife and forget about the other lady.
Sam 1 month ago

Do you think , you can eat your cake and have it again? Listen to yourself and stop fooling. You started something you now think you cannot end, when she was paying your school fees and feeding you nothing occurred to you th ...
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Do you think , you can eat your cake and have it again? Listen to yourself and stop fooling. You started something you now think you cannot end, when she was paying your school fees and feeding you nothing occurred to you that you don't love her, now you feed and get whatever you need so now love is out of your brains. KARMA IS REAL try it and you will be blaming your old grandma
Lol 1 month ago

It’s always sweeter at the beginning lol. Go and stay under the same roof with ur lover for a months and you will see clearer. Masa stay where u are and focus

It’s always sweeter at the beginning lol. Go and stay under the same roof with ur lover for a months and you will see clearer. Masa stay where u are and focus
Emmahans 1 month ago

Love is not a feeling bro; it's a conscious decision. What you are feeling for the other lady is either affection or lust which lifespan is maximum two years when you live together.
Forget about feelings and just decide to ...
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Love is not a feeling bro; it's a conscious decision. What you are feeling for the other lady is either affection or lust which lifespan is maximum two years when you live together.
Forget about feelings and just decide to love your wife.
Go tell the other lady that you have a family and you've decided to love your wife henceforth. She should find a man who will love her and start a family with her.
Omono Asamoah 1 month ago

I think you should stay with your current wife and leave the one you supposed to love because had it not been her helped do u know whr ur life would be. You did what is right by marrying her so continue n she the reason why y ...
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I think you should stay with your current wife and leave the one you supposed to love because had it not been her helped do u know whr ur life would be. You did what is right by marrying her so continue n she the reason why you are blessed now if she leaves you will come back to zero don’t deceive urself brother
Akos 1 month ago

Imagine you lose everything today will you still go after the lady. If its not about money but love. Then start all over again with the new lady and see if she will stay with you. Nonsense!!!

Imagine you lose everything today will you still go after the lady. If its not about money but love. Then start all over again with the new lady and see if she will stay with you. Nonsense!!!
colo 1 month ago

foolish

foolish
Ata 1 month ago

Love is a choice. You can continue to consciously make that choice and you will see the spark start once again with your wife. Allowing yourself to entertain this other lady is taking your attention from truly persuing your w ...
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Love is a choice. You can continue to consciously make that choice and you will see the spark start once again with your wife. Allowing yourself to entertain this other lady is taking your attention from truly persuing your wife. You can choose today to love her again. Choose to love your wife and let your side chick go. Its not love, its a long-standing lust.
Killa 1 month ago

May God almighty punish you even in death

May God almighty punish you even in death
Nana 1 month ago

Don’t be ungrateful and think about yourself alone. You have not marry that lady yet so please slow down. Never forget your children. If you want to have children somewhere it your own problem but to device her now will be ...
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Don’t be ungrateful and think about yourself alone. You have not marry that lady yet so please slow down. Never forget your children. If you want to have children somewhere it your own problem but to device her now will be a big mistake on your part.You are going to pay back later in a bit way
Grandpa 1 month ago

Majority of us don't understand the Union between man and woman we thought is fantasy, you're enjoying real (energetic partnership) but your DNA is addicted to suffering so your subconscious will draw you back to the struggle ...
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Majority of us don't understand the Union between man and woman we thought is fantasy, you're enjoying real (energetic partnership) but your DNA is addicted to suffering so your subconscious will draw you back to the struggle you and you mother are use to, hmm I feel sorry for you
Charles oppong 1 month ago

It could be that,that girlfriend doesn't love u but your money,don't decieve yourself mr man.you "ll regret later,mark my words

It could be that,that girlfriend doesn't love u but your money,don't decieve yourself mr man.you "ll regret later,mark my words
coop-city 1 month ago

As stupid as you are, you don't know that love grows? You refuse to love her now because you have made it right? Do you know what LOVE is? You better stay with your current wife and let the other woman know her stand. As a ma ...
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As stupid as you are, you don't know that love grows? You refuse to love her now because you have made it right? Do you know what LOVE is? You better stay with your current wife and let the other woman know her stand. As a man, I even feel very angry reading your nonsense. All of a sudden you don't love her.... shame on you!!! Because of you women treat us bad sometimes.
bogass 1 month ago

Don't be stupid, suppose you are poor you think the other lady will stick with you? Please concentrate on your wife and stop entertaining the other lady. My advice to you is to stop seeing the other lady and think of your wif ...
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Don't be stupid, suppose you are poor you think the other lady will stick with you? Please concentrate on your wife and stop entertaining the other lady. My advice to you is to stop seeing the other lady and think of your wife and children.
Bro 1 month ago

You are loosing your mind bro. 100% of guys disagree with your approach.

The new lady sees you as a ready-made product.

Your wife took you, washed you..and now you think you look clean, so you now love a different lady. ...
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You are loosing your mind bro. 100% of guys disagree with your approach.

The new lady sees you as a ready-made product.

Your wife took you, washed you..and now you think you look clean, so you now love a different lady.

Trust me 100%, the new lady would not have been in your life if you were empty-handed when she met you. Wise up bro. Respect yourself.
FIIFI BENSON 1 month ago

SHINE YOUR EYES, WHAT IF YOUR NEWFOUND LOVE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.

SHINE YOUR EYES, WHAT IF YOUR NEWFOUND LOVE DOES NOT LOVE YOU.
Jon 1 month ago

Love is a CHOICE & a DECISION. There're time you don't feel the love for your wife but you still decide to LOVe. You have find the wife described in PROVERB 31. You may read for understand the woman you've married.

Her kin ...
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Love is a CHOICE & a DECISION. There're time you don't feel the love for your wife but you still decide to LOVe. You have find the wife described in PROVERB 31. You may read for understand the woman you've married.

Her kind of Love is very genuine, and kind is very difficult to find. I think you have opened the door for lust to fill your heart, and the earliest you shut the door of lust , the better.

The second lady is a destruction and wants to destroy your life. She'll reduce you no nothing. The Bible says stolen water is sweet but..... Bro, if you're a Christian, you go to God and ask for mercy to help deal with lust. Also, study your family background very well. It's very likely a family pattern in your bloodline is repeating itself in your life. But God is faithful and will make grace available to help you overcome.
Oh is been years oooo 1 month ago

You are greedy and selfish. Love is compromise and sacrifice. oboy!

You are greedy and selfish. Love is compromise and sacrifice. oboy!
Victor 1 month ago

If you were not in this position, how do you know this new lady would have met you?
Use your mind and your heart will help you.

If you were not in this position, how do you know this new lady would have met you?
Use your mind and your heart will help you.
Love is committment, not a feeling 1 month ago

Love is a committment. By marriage u have committed urself to ur wife n God is ur witness. Stay committed. Let the other lady go. Shes just a distraction, dont allow her to lead you to a path of destruction.

Love is a committment. By marriage u have committed urself to ur wife n God is ur witness. Stay committed. Let the other lady go. Shes just a distraction, dont allow her to lead you to a path of destruction.
Adams 1 month ago

You just being ungrateful. Does it mean that you wouldn't have known that you don't love your wife if the other lady didn't show up? What if your wife also just decided to marry you out of sympathy for you? Your wife isn't ba ...
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You just being ungrateful. Does it mean that you wouldn't have known that you don't love your wife if the other lady didn't show up? What if your wife also just decided to marry you out of sympathy for you? Your wife isn't bad in beauty that's why you were able to stay with her all this time.
Look, the devil is just deceiving you into believing that lady you met is your brother half. The spirit of poverty is calling you home. Speak to your mother about this and I know she wouldn't agree to your nonsense. Try to develop love for your wife. Don't let the change in your situation increase your libido unnecessarily.
Konfi 1 month ago

Another daddy Lumba in the making. Congratulations, keep going on. You do your head like akatoah!

Another daddy Lumba in the making. Congratulations, keep going on. You do your head like akatoah!
Tny 1 month ago

This guy is a stupid fool. God punish you 100 times. Am a man and I pray for God to punish you paaaaaa

This guy is a stupid fool. God punish you 100 times. Am a man and I pray for God to punish you paaaaaa
judischrislam 1 month ago

You are being foolish. She saw some potentials in you as a future husband and a man with a promising future. She has fallen in love with you and it is very scarce these days to find such women. You are blessed and enjoy your ...
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You are being foolish. She saw some potentials in you as a future husband and a man with a promising future. She has fallen in love with you and it is very scarce these days to find such women. You are blessed and enjoy your blessing with your current wife.
She is the one you can trust, the other one you claim you love is not what you think she is going to be.

Please, Please , Please open your heart to your current wife and have your peace..
Wise up. 1 month ago

I hope you are back to square 1 after hurting your wife, then see if you are still in love with side chick or she stays with you. Massa, you are just a user, period. How can you ever do this? Women, please leave these ones to ...
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I hope you are back to square 1 after hurting your wife, then see if you are still in love with side chick or she stays with you. Massa, you are just a user, period. How can you ever do this? Women, please leave these ones to stay in their poverty because sometimes, God knows this hence their struggles. Lumba's nephew.
Jerry 1 month ago

Indeed you are just an idiot and ingrit.

Indeed you are just an idiot and ingrit.
kwame 1 month ago

l think you are being very very f00lish my brother. I am sincerely talking to you as a brother. If you love your life and know that God exists and He punishes f00lish decisions like this then beware!!!

l think you are being very very f00lish my brother. I am sincerely talking to you as a brother. If you love your life and know that God exists and He punishes f00lish decisions like this then beware!!!
Former President 1 month ago

You're a prostitute and so is your girlfriend. Go back toyour wife, low life scum. You should have your penis cut off

You're a prostitute and so is your girlfriend. Go back toyour wife, low life scum. You should have your penis cut off
kulbogo 1 month ago

please man. stick to your wife, don't allowed the current improvement in your life to deceive you to think that the lady you met loves you, it's because your money, assuming you were not who you are today, was she gonna fall ...
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please man. stick to your wife, don't allowed the current improvement in your life to deceive you to think that the lady you met loves you, it's because your money, assuming you were not who you are today, was she gonna fall for you, please dnt allow the devil to destroy your bless marriage ok, trust me your wife is the type of woman every right thinking man desire to have in life if you dnt know, stick to her and God will open more opportunities for you,
kulbogo 1 month ago

I pray that this writer would come back to read the comments we made in his write up, He must NOT mess up his life, his wife sacrifice so much to make him what he is today, therefore what ever she would say against will def ...
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I pray that this writer would come back to read the comments we made in his write up, He must NOT mess up his life, his wife sacrifice so much to make him what he is today, therefore what ever she would say against will definitely come to hit him hard, he must never even made the wife to be aware that he is seeing someone else because if she knows and cry against that, this young man ll lose everything he has, A wise counselling to him,
Prince 1 month ago

You are being foolish

You are being foolish
Kwess 1 month ago

Herr
Infact,let me clap for everybody here for your advice and contributions. First time have I seen all comments in an agreement.

Herr
Infact,let me clap for everybody here for your advice and contributions. First time have I seen all comments in an agreement.
md 1 month ago

don't wait for anyone to tell you. that you are ungrateful.

don't wait for anyone to tell you. that you are ungrateful.
Richard 1 month ago

Where was that your lover when your wife was sponsoring your education and let me tell you that no one in his or her right senses will advise you to continue dating that your lover.It will better your life to end now immediat ...
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Where was that your lover when your wife was sponsoring your education and let me tell you that no one in his or her right senses will advise you to continue dating that your lover.It will better your life to end now immediately or regret it later because a woman that has loved you right from the beginning is best thing that has ever happened in your life so please don't allow this new woman to come and destroy everything.Finally,as a man it's better you stay with the woman that loves you than stay with the woman you love.
Asore sumaila 1 month ago

My brother don't be ungrateful

My brother don't be ungrateful
Joung 1 month ago

Listening to ur heart and marry ur girlfriend wai , there is no harm in trying something new .

Listening to ur heart and marry ur girlfriend wai , there is no harm in trying something new .
Kenneth 1 month ago

To be honest with you,there are many things you look at before marrying someone.love is part but there are others which are more important.i will suggest to you to forget the woman you love and focus on your wife.

To be honest with you,there are many things you look at before marrying someone.love is part but there are others which are more important.i will suggest to you to forget the woman you love and focus on your wife.
Jan 1 month ago

You fool pass goat

You fool pass goat
Justice 1 month ago

Excuse me to tell you that you are thinking and acting foolish. A wise man will always want a woman who loves him. You are foolish because your case is different. You want to abandon a woman who demonstrated true love to you ...
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Excuse me to tell you that you are thinking and acting foolish. A wise man will always want a woman who loves him. You are foolish because your case is different. You want to abandon a woman who demonstrated true love to you when you had nothing and you were almost useless for someone who wants you because you have made it. Stop that nonsense and concentrate on building your family with your wife. God will punish you severely if you make any mistake by hurting your innocent wife.
Lovely 1 month ago

What an ingrit creature, what benefit do you gain for hurting a woman who guneinely loved and care for you.why do you want to overtime work for the devil. It nerver a woman's job to make a man, she did all this because of the ...
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What an ingrit creature, what benefit do you gain for hurting a woman who guneinely loved and care for you.why do you want to overtime work for the devil. It nerver a woman's job to make a man, she did all this because of the love she has for you. The worse thing that could happen to anyone is knowing your weakness and not asking Christ for help. At this point your heart and mind is already convince, But it's never too late to repent. Turn to Christ and overcome the flesh.
White Guy loving Ghana 1 month ago

"I don't want to disappoint her..." should never be the reason for long-term decisions. Admitting mistakes is fine; it's certainly not the end of the world. She'll get over it, but time only starts moving once you correct the ...
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"I don't want to disappoint her..." should never be the reason for long-term decisions. Admitting mistakes is fine; it's certainly not the end of the world. She'll get over it, but time only starts moving once you correct the mistake. When does a medication take effect? Exactly, after you've taken it. No medication, no healing — it's that simple.

And I'll go even further: Being indebted to someone should never be the sole reason for lifelong decisions—and even if you have/had children, so what? How many marriages consist solely of "living side by side," with nothing else there, and how often only "for the sake of the children"? I don't see anything good in that. Let's all be real; sometimes life changes (and needs changes)...
Esi 1 month ago

INGRATITUDE

INGRATITUDE
Asha 1 month ago

GROW UP KIDS , YOU LOVED THE WOMEN MONEY AND HELP ALL THIS YEARS AND NOW YOU DONT ANYMORE ??? PLEASE YOU ARE A LOSER

GROW UP KIDS , YOU LOVED THE WOMEN MONEY AND HELP ALL THIS YEARS AND NOW YOU DONT ANYMORE ??? PLEASE YOU ARE A LOSER
Edi 1 month ago

stick to your wife stupid man you got a long way until you grow up and be mature

stick to your wife stupid man you got a long way until you grow up and be mature
Ken 1 month ago

GROW UP MAN STICK WITH YOUR WIFE UNTIL DEATH DUE YOU APART

GROW UP MAN STICK WITH YOUR WIFE UNTIL DEATH DUE YOU APART
Fire for fire 1 month ago

LISTEN TO THIS FOOL!! YOU ARE ONE OF THE MANY IDIOTIC AND DOWNRIGHT OPPORTUNISTIC TWATS WHO HAS NO RESPECT FOR GENEROSITY. JUST LISTEN TO YOURSELF AND DECIDE IF YOU SOUND "HUMAN".
KEEP QUIET AND STAY WITH YOUR CURRENT WIFE ...
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LISTEN TO THIS FOOL!! YOU ARE ONE OF THE MANY IDIOTIC AND DOWNRIGHT OPPORTUNISTIC TWATS WHO HAS NO RESPECT FOR GENEROSITY. JUST LISTEN TO YOURSELF AND DECIDE IF YOU SOUND "HUMAN".
KEEP QUIET AND STAY WITH YOUR CURRENT WIFE AND STOP THE NONSENSE."WHAT HAS LOVE HAS GOT TO DO WITH IT? YOU SOUND LIKE THE GUINEA FOWL WHO WHEN AFTER BEING FED TO THE HILT WILL QUACK AND BUB ITS BEAK IN THE SAND CLAIMNING IT HAS NOT BEEN FED FOR THE WHOLE ONE MMONTH
SHUT UP
Dastun 1 month ago

Men resent women who help them. It's just a matter of fact. Marriage isn't all about love. It's about purpose, this lady who is your wife, she is your soul mate. You're only able to make the second lady happy and love you bec ...
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Men resent women who help them. It's just a matter of fact. Marriage isn't all about love. It's about purpose, this lady who is your wife, she is your soul mate. You're only able to make the second lady happy and love you because of what your wife has done for you. She made you the loveable man that you are today, without her this second lady may not even want you anymore
Dr Mumbi Seraki 1 month ago

Hello youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine. For instance 15 paracetamol at once..........or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.

Hello youth of Ghana. You can take your own life with medicine. For instance 15 paracetamol at once..........or combine medicine and akpeteshie or weedicide.
JULOR CAESAR 1 month ago

You did not require the help of the public in making your decision to marry a woman that you did not love, but now that you're in a fix, you want the public to fix your fix. Fix your own damn fix yourself and quit trying to w ...
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You did not require the help of the public in making your decision to marry a woman that you did not love, but now that you're in a fix, you want the public to fix your fix. Fix your own damn fix yourself and quit trying to waste other folks' time with your silly fix-me drama. If you really need a fix, then bang your head real hard against a wall until that head of yours begins to bleed, and go to bed.
O the heart of man! 1 month ago

Who can discern what the heart of men of hold!

Who can discern what the heart of men of hold!
Papa Nii 1 month ago

You`re such a big capital fool.
I can`t waste my time on this idiocy

You`re such a big capital fool.
I can`t waste my time on this idiocy
Josh 1 month ago

You are so stupid to say that why didn't you tell her since that time

You are so stupid to say that why didn't you tell her since that time
Kaybee 1 month ago

You, ungrateful son of a bitch. You're very stupid for saying that. This new lady will ditch you after squandering all your money

You, ungrateful son of a bitch. You're very stupid for saying that. This new lady will ditch you after squandering all your money
No name 1 month ago

"You are the most stupid human being I have ever heard off. Go to hell"

"You are the most stupid human being I have ever heard off. Go to hell"
Appah-Dankyi 1 month ago

Well, go to hell and burn your ungrateful self. Marriage isn't only about love but commitment. What's love go to do with this situation?

Well, go to hell and burn your ungrateful self. Marriage isn't only about love but commitment. What's love go to do with this situation?
JB 1 month ago

Please, force yourself to continue with your current wife. As you yourself indicated, you don't need to disappoint her and the children. Tell the intruder that your are already married with 3 children, and as such, cannot con ...
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Please, force yourself to continue with your current wife. As you yourself indicated, you don't need to disappoint her and the children. Tell the intruder that your are already married with 3 children, and as such, cannot continue with her. You need to apologize to her if you hid your marital status from her.
Samuel 1 month ago

My brother, i feel you but believe Love is not enough in marriage!! her beautiful face and body will fade after few years especially after kids. End it and make an intentional effor to love your wife..marriage is about trust, ...
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My brother, i feel you but believe Love is not enough in marriage!! her beautiful face and body will fade after few years especially after kids. End it and make an intentional effor to love your wife..marriage is about trust, commitment and especially respect..never about love because no matter how much you love each other fight can let you feel you hate her...Your wife maybe not be beautiful but i can sense commitment,loyalty,faithfully and most especially respect for you. dont betral her now because you have money..make a real effort to look beyound her physical beauti and make an effort to love her for real
EDOH CHRISTIAN 1 month ago

You don't have a choice

You don't have a choice
Nonsense 1 month ago

This year ,No advice ..

This year ,No advice ..
De_1 1 month ago

Just know that you're a selfish, evil and self centered being.
INGRATE

Just know that you're a selfish, evil and self centered being.
INGRATE
Richie 1 month ago

You just fool saaa wai Your palm will be used to fetch fire(ember)

You just fool saaa wai Your palm will be used to fetch fire(ember)
Francis Crabbe 1 month ago

You are heartless, you are wicked, you are selfish, you are full of yourself. You will know no peace in the foolishness you are embarking upon. You love her money, her money brought you where you are today. Is it about beauty ...
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You are heartless, you are wicked, you are selfish, you are full of yourself. You will know no peace in the foolishness you are embarking upon. You love her money, her money brought you where you are today. Is it about beauty or lust. Go ahead and marry your national service woman you see the difference after marry her. What is wrong with your spirit. Stop that move and stay with your wife whom you have duely married. Be a man with back bone and face your responsibilities. You don't love her you don't spend her money. Will have been possible for you to go have national service without her substance. My brother don't course your soul. The unseen eyes of God is watching you.
Osama 1 month ago

You are the most stupid idiot i have come to read about on Ghanaweb. Ingreat, is that what you have become? A villager and a nobody, a cheat, try it, go on....

Guys like you don't desearve to live. Imagine how you have bee ...
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You are the most stupid idiot i have come to read about on Ghanaweb. Ingreat, is that what you have become? A villager and a nobody, a cheat, try it, go on....

Guys like you don't desearve to live. Imagine how you have been treating her at home. May you never find peace if you ever disappoint your wife. I will tell your wife, i know her because we were in the same univ together and i know the story. Bad boy
IM 1 month ago

The Devil you know is better than the Angel you do not know. Question for you, mister : Do you prefer MADNESS or FIT ? For definitely, you would get one of them, if you decide to leave your wife, for that new lady !!!

The Devil you know is better than the Angel you do not know. Question for you, mister : Do you prefer MADNESS or FIT ? For definitely, you would get one of them, if you decide to leave your wife, for that new lady !!!
Anonymous 1 month ago

What an ungrateful human being you are

What an ungrateful human being you are

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