Dear GhanaWeb: My mother-in-law is stuck with us and doesn’t want to leave

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King 6 months ago

Just stop giving her the money no matter her reaction. She does not respect you and doesn't deserve the reverence you have for her. You should be a very weak person for her to exploit you the way she is doing.

Just stop giving her the money no matter her reaction. She does not respect you and doesn't deserve the reverence you have for her. You should be a very weak person for her to exploit you the way she is doing.
Togbe Kporwomordzikpo KpornugloAvunako 6 months ago

See mumu. Never in your life place a woman whether your wife or not on daily or weekly allowance. By the way how often do you give money to your mother?

See mumu. Never in your life place a woman whether your wife or not on daily or weekly allowance. By the way how often do you give money to your mother?
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Truth 6 months ago

Sack her from your house whether your wife likes it or not. If your wife wants to follow her, then let her go with her mother. You did not marry both. She will not accept your mother or sister being there for that long. SACK ...
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Sack her from your house whether your wife likes it or not. If your wife wants to follow her, then let her go with her mother. You did not marry both. She will not accept your mother or sister being there for that long. SACK HER !!!!
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You started something you know you could not finish, why would she go when she.is getting money everyday STOP giving her the money, inform her through your wife that things are no going on well of late, pray over it for the ...
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You started something you know you could not finish, why would she go when she.is getting money everyday STOP giving her the money, inform her through your wife that things are no going on well of late, pray over it for them to understand,
sad 6 months ago

Just take the courage and tell her to go by asking your wife to do that. if she gets cold tell her thats ur decision and if she uses that as excuse tell her to follow her

Just take the courage and tell her to go by asking your wife to do that. if she gets cold tell her thats ur decision and if she uses that as excuse tell her to follow her
Charles oppong 6 months ago

I faced the same problem whn i gave birth to my third born 25yrs ago.its just simple,act "cool" with ur wife & mother in-law & come home vry late after work.i did it and it worked.sorry but ur wife doesn't value her marriage. ...
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I faced the same problem whn i gave birth to my third born 25yrs ago.its just simple,act "cool" with ur wife & mother in-law & come home vry late after work.i did it and it worked.sorry but ur wife doesn't value her marriage.be a man for once,u are just too weak!
THE TRUE SWORD 6 months ago

Just inform your wife that you can no longer give out any money for keeps to your mother-in-law henceforth.
Your wife can continue from where you have contributed to since it’s her own mother.
If she fails to notify her ...
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Just inform your wife that you can no longer give out any money for keeps to your mother-in-law henceforth.
Your wife can continue from where you have contributed to since it’s her own mother.
If she fails to notify her mother, kindly summon a simple meeting between the 3 of you and there inform them that you are done with the stipends henceforth.

Don’t raise any issue about when she is leaving as it will be used against you.
I believe she is prolonging her stay because you have overly pampered her with the money. When the cash flow ceases, she will go back to her husband.

They will try to provoke you but just maintain your calm and let them know you will not provide the funds henceforth
Solid 6 months ago

I like this response and advice

I like this response and advice
Lexis 6 months ago

Just leave the house for them

Just leave the house for them
Ambijoe Kulbogo 6 months ago

Pls man handle dis case wid care. jst sit ur belove wife down n explain tins to her understanding n i believed dat if u r able to do dat she would also sit de mom down n talk to her abt her going back, fr de way i deduce fr ...
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Pls man handle dis case wid care. jst sit ur belove wife down n explain tins to her understanding n i believed dat if u r able to do dat she would also sit de mom down n talk to her abt her going back, fr de way i deduce fr statements it seems u dnt actual sit wid ur wife to explain ur situation to her, do nt over react bcus as tyms goes on u would stil need dis ur mother in-law one way or de other ok, de issue here is u must talk to ur wife wid respect n trust me if u do dat honour she would also reciprocate pls, seriously i knw our ghanaian men de way we handle matters relating to our wife's it seems we dnt really v dat respect for our wife's at all, dis is my humble advise man.
Ebena 6 months ago

Leave the house for them and see what happens, pack few things and tell your wife your going on trip and go hide some where

Leave the house for them and see what happens, pack few things and tell your wife your going on trip and go hide some where
Abraham Agyapong (it's well with your soul Bro) 6 months ago

This is very simple. Just tell your father-in-law to come for his wife.

This is very simple. Just tell your father-in-law to come for his wife.
QuoDZO 6 months ago

Go and talk to your Father - In - Law. He will surely find a way to make her leave your house if he is not in support of what is going on.

Go and talk to your Father - In - Law. He will surely find a way to make her leave your house if he is not in support of what is going on.
Livingstone 6 months ago

Sorry you have a leach in your house. Ahahahaaaaaa

Sorry you have a leach in your house. Ahahahaaaaaa
Kwame 6 months ago

Let her go back to her husband and take care of him.

Let her go back to her husband and take care of him.
Nana Amoako Reuben 6 months ago

I can see u are comfortable with ur moda in-law presence in the house. Else u should have asked her to leave long time ago. Or tell ur wife to enjoy staying with her mum while u look for somewhere to stay for a while.

I can see u are comfortable with ur moda in-law presence in the house. Else u should have asked her to leave long time ago. Or tell ur wife to enjoy staying with her mum while u look for somewhere to stay for a while.
MASSA,YOU TURNED YOURSELF INTO A CASH COW SO SHE WANTS TO MILK YOU. 6 months ago

MASSA, the mistake you made was to indulge your mother-in-law so she now sees you as a Cash Cow. She would be a fool to give that up. Your wife's behaviour is very unreasonable unless of course there are some other reason tha ...
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MASSA, the mistake you made was to indulge your mother-in-law so she now sees you as a Cash Cow. She would be a fool to give that up. Your wife's behaviour is very unreasonable unless of course there are some other reason that makes her feel that her mother should continue to enjoy your largesse - for example, if intne ady you had lavished money on your own blood relatives. Clearly the situation cannot be allowed to continue unchecked because your mother- in-law will simply feel more and more entitled.
MASSA you really need to sit down and talk to your wife ALONE. PLEASE DO THIS CALMLY. If your wife continues to "act up" then simply stop handing over money to your mother-in-law. JUST STOP ACTING LIKE YOU ARE AWASH IN CASH.
Right now there are countless well-meaning Ghanaians, especially those living abroad who decided to help a few needy relatives and friends and now find themselves being exploited by heartless and unscrupulous folk back home in Ghana.
IN ALL THESE CASES THOSE BEING TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF SHOULD PUT A STOP TO IT AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.
One day your wife will leave you too 6 months ago

When your children grow and have kids of their own she'll leave you and stay with their grandkids for a 1 year. This is an opportunity to enjoy yourself bro. Just get some small and be with her from time to time. She'll be mo ...
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When your children grow and have kids of their own she'll leave you and stay with their grandkids for a 1 year. This is an opportunity to enjoy yourself bro. Just get some small and be with her from time to time. She'll be more sweeter, firmer with Bobby stand and all. The leave the fcuken house for the old lady amd how daughter. If you come home it's to play with the kids.

On the other note is the problem the small food you gibe her or she's poking into your business?
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Asamoah Micah 6 months ago

You started giving yourself issues when U started given 50 cedis per day amounting to 1500 a month.
Who would leave when such a lucrative deal is going on and there is no work or cost to it.
Sorry but try and speak to the h ...
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You started giving yourself issues when U started given 50 cedis per day amounting to 1500 a month.
Who would leave when such a lucrative deal is going on and there is no work or cost to it.
Sorry but try and speak to the husband maybe he can feel your pain and ask her to come home.
Till then I am sorry
Michael 6 months ago

Unequivocally,you need to stand firm and let her leave.
Let your wife know how it is draining you plus how the baby is now okay unlike the early stages and the mother need to go in a brief firm statement without any further ...
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Unequivocally,you need to stand firm and let her leave.
Let your wife know how it is draining you plus how the baby is now okay unlike the early stages and the mother need to go in a brief firm statement without any further explanations.
Name 6 months ago

Just Be Laughing at Them

Just Be Laughing at Them
Nana 6 months ago

Tell her to go back home and she will go and if she doesn’t go stop giving her the money that is why she is not leaving

Tell her to go back home and she will go and if she doesn’t go stop giving her the money that is why she is not leaving
Abi 6 months ago

U are right she has overstay her time.first u should have made an arrangement with both inlaws for acceptance before she came,then everything would hv worked according to plan .u see Ghanaians take advantage of a system befor ...
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U are right she has overstay her time.first u should have made an arrangement with both inlaws for acceptance before she came,then everything would hv worked according to plan .u see Ghanaians take advantage of a system before it becomes a burden.so now be a man about this and know that after this child she's not coming back
Ghinstigator 6 months ago

Simple, tell your wife that if her mother doesn't leave in 2 weeks time, you'll file for divorce. She'll call your bluff. Follow through & she'll see that you're serious. She can go & marry her mother instead. Let her know th ...
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Simple, tell your wife that if her mother doesn't leave in 2 weeks time, you'll file for divorce. She'll call your bluff. Follow through & she'll see that you're serious. She can go & marry her mother instead. Let her know that you mean what you're doing & you'll actually divorce her if she doesn't comply.
David 6 months ago

I think you should explain things to your wife, she in the position to handle the issue to convince her mum to go

I think you should explain things to your wife, she in the position to handle the issue to convince her mum to go
Buka 6 months ago

My brother go to Nogokpo and consult the shrine and you will call me later to thank me.
Ahhh, what sort of nonsense is this that this woman is subjecting you to, in the name of marriage.

My brother go to Nogokpo and consult the shrine and you will call me later to thank me.
Ahhh, what sort of nonsense is this that this woman is subjecting you to, in the name of marriage.

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