Dear GhanaWeb: I'm not my dad’s biological son, and it's making me grow hatred toward my mum

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  • Abrewatia 10 months ago

    Hmmm
    Let it go. Just accept that your father is your father and leave the rest to God.
    You may not be able to handle your mother going into her grave early.

    I am sorry this will leave you emotionally disturbed and diffic ...
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  • TogbeKporwomordzikpo KpornugloAvunako 10 months ago

    Don't start what you can't finish.

  • The Spear 10 months ago

    Absolutely. He comes across as not smart. If he's curious he wouldn't have wanted to delve into this and ascertain his mother's dishonesty and immorality, because it could be true his mother passed her life making her husband ...
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  • The Spear 10 months ago

    He should let it go? Well, I promise him he will live the "lie" miserably hating himself if he choses to be a coward.


    ...and, he will NOT trust women, no matter what.

  • ORAL LIES 10 months ago

    Boy it is your own fault.
    Why did you conduct the DNA of yourself at the age of 27?
    Typical example of ORAL

  • Go ahead 10 months ago

    Conduct the DNA test on the rest and confront your mother without fear. She is the only one who can help you find your real father. For now, keep your "father" in the dark on the issue. And keep your siblings in the dark too.

  • Ike 10 months ago

    Just forget about it because that's what most ladies do, they allow the guys they love to impregnate them and give it to innocent men who can take care of the baby. Some don't even mention the rightful owners of the babies to ...
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  • Scrap 'Ahiagba'. A Disgrace to Eweland.. 10 months ago

    Richard Ahiagba, are you hearing right? Your incongurous traits suggest you conduct a DNA check quick. Lest, you are neither here, nor there. Well, that failing, a Chimp/Monkey race, exists nevertheless. Avu!

  • Kwame 10 months ago

    You should have left sleeping dogs to lie.
    Most firstborns don't belong to the father.
    Let it be

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  • Mohammed 10 months ago

    Eeeeiiii leave it alone. You gone kill your mom if you do. Let it remain between you and your mom. What will the benefit be if you tell your dad? You will only cause him misery and heartache. Please leave it alone.

  • Adwoa 10 months ago

    Both first and second aren’t his. Unbelievable wickedness. Do well to give the Ist place to the third child when the father dies. Hope you find your own biological father in future and inherit him.

  • Godfred 10 months ago

    Oga for me de3 just try to get the answer from ur mother before she die

  • Ogyaooo ogya 10 months ago

    Ghana women, wickidness. Down in there hearth? Hmmmm demons in human body

  • Amano 10 months ago

    Gentleman grow up. Don't break your fathers heart which might send him to his early gravel.
    Love him as he loves you and Leave the rest to God.
    Be wise.it can happen to you

  • Amano 10 months ago

    Gentleman grow up. Don't break your fathers heart which might send him to his early gravel.
    Love him as he loves you and Leave the rest to God.
    Be wise.it can happ*en to you
    *grave

  • Asídu Keta 10 months ago

    Make sure there are no errors in the tests.

  • Alhaji Abdulai Yakubu 10 months ago

    Please stop the DNA test,and concentrate on building a happy home.
    Are you aware there can mistakes during the test?
    And are you aware Allah the Almighty can decide to test you?
    Please forget it.

  • Paulus 10 months ago

    What a fool!!! There are certain things which are not done. Now that you have conducted the DNA and you know the outcome, what else? Renounce the man you knew to be your father or take an axe and cut your mumbinto pieces.

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  • Kay 10 months ago

    Masa you were lucky to have such a ‘dad’. Lots of fathers have discovered after sometime that among their children some are not biological but have let it slide to let sanity and peace prevail.just move on,opening up stuf ...
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  • Jesse Mensah 10 months ago

    Go ahead with rest and layer invite your mom out and discuss it with her after a very good lunch.
    After knowing the truth let it slip. It's not your DUTY to tell your father or other family members.
    Tell your mom the rest ...
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  • Best Advice 10 months ago

    Let this go, it has never been in your power to control what is not in your domain. Your mum is an adulterer, you don't need further explanations. And don't let your curiosity ruin the little happiness in the family. Let God ...
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  • Ohemaa kitty 8 months ago

    Forgive her and if your step-father still accept you as his son then you too accept him and forget he is not your real father