Dear GhanaWeb: Why do men say they have a ‘spec’ but marry the direct opposite?

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  • Kwame 1 year ago

    No, it is not the body shape that a man marries. The ideal woman shape is the curve but the curve only attracts a man. When it comes to marriage, it is the character, not curve anymore. Look at your character. Be honest to y ...
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  • Kwame 1 year ago

    Another one might be that someone told him something about you and he felt ashamed. No man will be okay when another mocks him saying I had a taste of your so called decent girl.

  • KOJO ATA 1 year ago

    BE YOUR SELF. APPRECIATE ALL THAT GOD HAS GIVEN IT TO YOU. THE RIGHT TIME WILL COME. JUST PRAY.

  • Kwame----Tema 1 year ago

    AT THE END OF THE DAY, MOST MEN WANT A PEICE OF MIND WHEN THEY COME HOME FROM WORK. YOUR NICE FIGURE WILL ONLY GET YOU TO THE BED, THATS ALL.

  • Kwame----Tema 1 year ago

    *PEACE*

  • An eye 1 year ago

    Character…curves & beauty fade away.
    In our parts parental influence, tribe, educational background sometimes influence the man’s decision.
    But character is the main thing.

    And one key point, if you sleep with the ma ...
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  • John 1 year ago

    The problem is with your thinking, your body is the only thing you bring to the relationship hence why you think a slimmer body with keep a man. Fix your mind

  • Adwoa 1 year ago

    This sums it all up. Thank you.

  • Nzulu 1 year ago

    The SPEC is for fun. The OPPOSITE is for serious life.

  • Kingsford 1 year ago

    Be yourself dear, the right person will surely come your way. God time is the best. Wishing you all the best