She paid a lady to seduce me; I easily fell into the trap - Man cries as wife divorces him

A man has narrated an intriguing story of how his wife trapped him to cheat on her and used that to leave him.

According to the man, he has been married to the wife for six years now. Recently, he bumped into another woman at two different locations and thinking that it was a random meet, he started a relationship with this new lady.

Unknown to the man who is 38-years-old, the lady had been hired to seduce him and get him to cheat on his wife. And he easily fell into the trap.

The wife, after the cheating episode, revealed to him that she had sent the lady to seduce him in order to prove a point.

After her revelation to him, the wife packed out of their matrimonial home and has been living in her own house for about three months now.

The man who narrated his story in a chat with popular Ghanaian relationship expert, David Papa Bondze-Mbir indicated that he loves his wife very much and has done everything possible to make up with her but she is refusing to forgive her.

While the man admitted to cheating on the wife previously, he claims to have changed and had been concentrating only on his wife until the setup made him slip.

Now he fears his wife is using his mistake to see another man though he is yet to get any proof to that effect.

"I became intimate with a lady I thought I had accidentally, bumped into at two different locations/occasions, and had become very close friends with. Apparently, my wife had paid her to show up at both venues – to catch my attention.

"My wife is using my mistake to see another man. I’m also thinking she had been waiting for me to slip, so she could love someone else," parts of the man's message read.

In his confused state, the man was seeking for advice from Bondzie-Mbir on how to deal with his estranged wife.

Though the relationship expert agreed that the wife should have believed the man enough so as not to test him in this manner, he faulted the husband for not standing his grounds and failing the test.

He thus advised him to allow the wife some space to reflect on the matter before he would go to beg her and use the time apart to grow his character.