Dear GhanaWeb: I used a love charm on my fiancé

Dear GhanaWeb, My wedding is just a month away. Everyone around me is excited, but deep down, I'm terrified. I'm marrying a man I've loved from the moment I met him. The problem is, I don't know if he truly loves me or if he's only with me because of something I did that I can never take back. When we first met last year, he told me he liked me, but I had come into his life too late. He was already preparing to marry another woman. He even showed me their pre-wedding photos and told me they had finished counselling and were only left with fixing the wedding date. He was everything I wanted in a man, and I couldn't stop thinking about him. I tried everything to get his attention, but it never worked. Every conversation somehow came back to his fiancée. He was always talking about her, spending time with her, and making plans with her. It became obvious that I stood no chance. When I shared my frustration with a friend, she told me that if I really wanted him, I had to act quickly before it was too late. That advice pushed me down a path I never imagined I would take. After trying everything else without success, I decided to seek spiritual help. Through another friend, I was taken to a place where I was told to bring something he could come into contact with after it had been prepared spiritually. I took a piece of clothing; it was supposedly enchanted, and I was instructed to wear it the next time I hugged him. I did exactly that. From that day, everything changed. He suddenly became interested in me. We started dating, and before long, he called off his wedding. His fiancée pleaded with him to reconsider, but I convinced him to block her and move on. We've now been together for a year, and our wedding is next month. Outwardly, everything looks perfect, but inside I'm battling fear every single day. What if what I did wears off one day? What if he suddenly wakes up and realizes he never truly loved me? What if he looks at me one day and feels like I'm a stranger? I genuinely love this man, and I'm ready to spend the rest of my life making him happy. But the closer the wedding gets, the more frightened I become. Would you go ahead with the wedding, or would you tell him the truth and risk losing him forever? What do I do now? FG/EB Scenes from the funeral grounds of late Apostle Kwadwo Safo Kantanka Source: www.ghanaweb.com
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