By Rev. Emmanuel Boachie, Country Director of AWSOME Bible College & Head Pastor, Souls' Pasture Church – Kumasi Asuofua-Achiase

Though the statement was made years ago, it continues to resurface annually on social media and, therefore, deserves a thoughtful and principled response.

It is with utmost respect and concern that I respond to a public statement by Hon. Ursula Owusu-Ekuful, Member of Parliament and Minister of State, regarding her admission of same-sex experimentation during her secondary school days. While her openness may reflect personal transparency, it is troubling that this disclosure was expressed with unapologetic approval, rather than with caution, regret, or a sense of moral responsibility—especially given her influential position as a national leader and role model to many.

As a public servant, wife, mother, grandmother, and legislator, Hon. Ursula Owusu-Ekuful holds a significant responsibility not only to represent her constituents but also to exemplify ethical leadership. Her words carry weight, and her silence on the consequences of such experimentation may inadvertently send the wrong message to many impressionable young people.

To speak on matters of sexual behavior without addressing the potential moral, emotional, psychological, and spiritual consequences is not an act of courage—it is a serious oversight. In our time, where moral clarity is increasingly needed, such commentary without guidance may be seen as an endorsement of behaviors that require careful reflection.

What Should Have Been Said?

A more responsible and honourable response might have sounded like this:

“I regret that phase of my youth. While it happened, I must caution young people not to experiment with anything that violates conscience, nature, or moral truth. Such actions can leave emotional scars, distort identity, and affect future intimacy in marriage. I thank God for His grace in leading me to a better understanding of myself, and I urge young people to seek truth, not impulsiveness.”



Instead, the statement, “I don’t make any apologies about it, but I like my men,” falls short of the dignity and wisdom expected from a national figure. Freedom of speech should never be mistaken for freedom from moral accountability.




1. Moral and Scriptural Clarity

The Bible sets a timeless standard in Philippians 4:8:
"Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure… think about such things."

Such experimentation does not meet the biblical or moral standard of purity, nobility, or righteousness. In Romans 1:26–27, Scripture warns of the consequences of unnatural affections. This is not merely a religious viewpoint but a timeless moral compass.




2. Cultural Heritage and Identity

African traditions, while diverse, have historically upheld male-female relationships as the foundation for family and societal continuity. Normalizing same-sex behavior undermines the values of dignity, responsibility, and procreation that hold our communities together.




3. Psychological and Emotional Consequences

Research indicates that early exposure to non-traditional sexual behavior, especially during adolescence, may lead to identity confusion, emotional trauma, and relational struggles later in life. What begins as “innocent exploration” often leads to regret and broken identity.




4. Biological and Marital Implications

Female sexuality is deeply emotional and psychological. Experimentation during youth can disrupt healthy sexual bonding in marriage, plant seeds of dissatisfaction, and create internal conflict in future heterosexual relationships.




5. Leadership Responsibility and Influence

Hon. Ursula Owusu-Ekuful is more than a politician—she is a mentor and role model. Young Ghanaian girls are watching. What is dismissed today as a harmless phase may be embraced tomorrow as a lifestyle choice—lacking caution and accountability.

We, therefore, urge her to reconsider the tone and message of her comments. While no one expects perfection, leadership must reflect humility, responsibility, and wisdom. Public testimonies, especially from national figures, should offer moral guidance, not confusion.

Our nation stands at a moral crossroads. Now more than ever, our leaders must speak and live the truth—with courage, grace, and clarity.

May the God of mercy, who redeems all past mistakes, give us the wisdom to speak rightly and lead honorably.