Entertainment of Wednesday, 21 November 2018

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LIFESTYLE: 5 signs you are dating a sex addict

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People suffering from sexual addiction will go to great lengths to hide their behaviors, but you can spot signs that something is wrong if you know what to look for.

In most circumstances, the secrecy and withdrawn behavior that is necessary for someone with sex addiction to hide his activities can be a clue that something is amiss.

1.Sex is his/her most important need

He or she usually brags that they can have sex several times a day, but they are selfish lovers looking for their gratification. Be wary when a potential partner is unwilling to delay sexual gratification in favor of getting acquainted with you.

2.Unsafe sex

If a dude wants to slip it in without slipping it on, that’s a bad sign. He might not love you enough yet, but he should love himself enough. If he won’t, you can bet it’s not a first, and this could be just the tip of his thrill seeking when it comes to sex. Be wary when a potential partner is unwilling to delay sexual gratification in favor of the getting acquainted stage of a relationship.

3.Lying

His or Her excuses are inconsistent with the facts, like citing traffic problems on a Sunday morning. Many sex addicts lead a double life.

4. Unsafe sex and STDs

This brings up the stakes and the rush. Or they simply don’t care as safety, security, and precaution is thrown to the wind. You will see such recklessness in other aspects of his or her life.

5.Scared of commitment

He or she doesn’t want commitments. They will marry for ulterior motives such as financial gains or status within the community. However, love isn’t the motive.