Dear GhanaWeb,

I’m a 34-year-old man and I’ve struggled in relationships for one heartbreaking reason: the small size of my manhood.

It’s not something I’m proud to talk about, but I’m sharing this because I’m desperate for answers, guidance, or help, anything that could improve my situation.

Over the years, I’ve been with few women. At first, everything seems fine. Some even say size doesn’t matter to them. But the truth always comes out after a month or two, once intimacy enters the picture. They start to complain, lose interest, and eventually leave.

The longest relationship I had lasted almost a year.

She really tried, took me to various places and gave me all kinds of traditional and herbal treatments in hopes of solving the issue, but when nothing worked, she walked away without saying goodbye. That broke me.

I’m not a lazy man. I’m ready to start a family. I have a stable life and a deep desire to settle down. My mother is in her late 60s and I’m her only son. I want her to see me married. I want to give her grandchildren. Most importantly, I want to build a home filled with love and respect.

But how can I do that when every woman eventually leaves me because of something I can’t control? I try to stay strong, but I live with this pain every single day. I ask myself constantly, what did I do to deserve this?

I don’t want women who only say they can "manage" me out of desperation. They eventually walk away too. I want someone who truly accepts me, someone who stays because she loves me, not because she’s settling.

I don’t want sympathy. I want real help. Is there any genuine, medically proven way to improve this? Any treatment that works? Has anyone gone through this and come out on the other side?

Please, I just want a chance to experience love without shame. I want to be the kind of man a woman desires, not just in heart and mind, but physically too.


FG/EB


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