Dear GhanaWeb,

My girlfriend starts arguments by bringing up the death of my children's mother, who died 13 years ago. She believes I am still in love with her and constantly comes up with unnecessary comparisons.

She also gets upset when I refer to my deceased partner's first daughter, whom she had from a previous relationship as my stepdaughter.

When she makes these remarks, it irritates me greatly.

It is a very sensitive subject for me because my children's mother died in my arms while we were together.

Also, the current situation isn’t helping, as this woman, whom I have feelings for, is digging up old memories after I've spent all of these years with her.

What do I do in this case?

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