LifeStyle of Wednesday, 18 February 2026

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Dear GhanaWeb: My fiancé is emotionally unavailable

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Dear GhanaWeb,

I am a 27-year-old woman set to get married in three months. I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for two years, and he proposed two months ago.

He is kind, educated, wealthy, handsome, and everything many women would consider an ideal partner. I love him deeply and cannot picture myself with anyone else.

When we first started dating, he was attentive and emotionally present. At the time, I had a job but struggled to manage on my salary. He stepped in and made my life easier, often supporting me financially without me asking.

He is a provider, not just to me, but also to his family. As the first child, he shoulders responsibility for his parents and supports several others. His generosity and sense of duty were part of what made me admire him so much.

However, over the past few months, I have noticed a significant change. He no longer listens to me the way he used to.

When I confronted him, he said he had a lot on his mind and asked me not to overthink things. I tried to be understanding and supportive, hoping things would improve.

There have been several occasions when I shared important matters with him, yet he either forgot or dismissed them.

I make every effort to make him happy and comfortable. Whenever I visit, I cook, clean, and willingly handle household chores.

Despite this, he rarely shows appreciation for my efforts. I have never visited him without cooking, yet when I jokingly mention how I take care of him, he questions how often I actually cook. That response hurt me deeply.

FG/EB

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