Dear GhanaWeb,

I am a 45‑year‑old lecturer at a well‑known private university in the country. I studied abroad and came to Ghana eight years ago with the intention of returning, but I secured a job that pays me in foreign currency, so I have remained here.

When converted to Ghana cedis, my salary allows me to live quite comfortably.

As a single woman living here, I have emotional needs. Men don’t often approach me; many seem to lack self‑confidence. Having been with white men all my life, I was surprised when I returned and had an affair with a Black man. I enjoyed it so much that it convinced me not to go back abroad

So, I slept with one of my students and couldn’t stop. I just kept allowing myself to sleep with more and more of these students with the promise to give them good grades or money. This is a big school; most kids here are from homes that have made it, so I am very careful who to choose as prey.

My fantasy grew, I wanted more so I started to go in for two, three, four and even five guys together. My first time with five guys was last year, August.

It was interesting to see these young men working together to devour me. I enjoyed every single bit of it. I maintained some and replaced some with new guys who were better. I just wanted to enjoy more of what was ongoing.

At some point, these boys decided to trick me. They managed to record an hour-plus video with me. I was so lost in pleasure, I didn’t even notice them recording. They later sent it to me on telegram.

First, they threatened to leak it if I slept with anyone else but them. Later, they asked for A’s, and I said cool. Then they asked for $5000 and I gave it to them $1000 each. It hasn’t stopped.

They come daily with new demands, asking to drive my car, use my house for a party and even host their girlfriends.

The worst part is I am forced to allow them to take more videos and they make me do horrible things that I sort of like, but not on video. I thought it was enough. I have had enough.

I have just two of the videos, but they have about 30 of them. I’m devastated and I don’t know what to do to get them deleted. How should I go about this?


FG/EB


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