Dear GhanaWeb,

My husband and I have been divorced for over two years now. I caught him in bed with another woman, in his biological sister’s room. That alone told me his sister was in full support of his infidelity.

He used to visit her often because she was his only sibling, and he claimed they had a close bond. But over time, the visits became too frequent, and I grew suspicious.

One day, I went to her house, and the way the women in the house were interacting with him made me feel something wasn't right. That’s when I started investigating.

Then, one day, he said he was going to visit her again. I had a strong feeling and decided to follow him. When I arrived, his sister saw me and quickly ran inside. I ran after her because I had a gut feeling she was trying to hide something.

We both entered the room, and there he was, on top of another woman, on his sister’s bed. The woman happened to live in the same house as his sister.

When I confronted him, he tried to apologize. But shockingly, his sister said, “He’s a man, so why should he apologize for doing what men do?” And that was it. He listened to her, stayed proud, and never apologized again. Eventually, I moved out.

Six months later, he came begging, claiming his sister had influenced his actions. But I didn’t go back. We share one child, who stays with me. He sends money occasionally.

Now here’s where it gets complicated.

His sister got married last year. And I managed to get her husband to cheat on her—with me. We've been seeing each other for almost a year now. I make sure he’s in love with me enough to cause her problems at home.

She found out six months ago that I was the woman her husband was cheating with. Since then, she’s been calling, threatening, and begging me to stop—but nothing she does works. I’ve made her husband believe I love him “to the moon and back,” so no matter what she tries, he still comes to me.

She’s reported me to my ex-husband, but I don’t care. Now they’re saying they’ll take me to court if I don’t leave the man alone.

This morning, she called me crying and begging again. I simply asked her, “Why are you crying when your husband is just being a man?”, just like she told me back then.

Honestly, I don’t love her husband. This is all for revenge. I wanted her to feel the pain I felt when she supported her brother’s cheating. But now her husband has fallen deeply in love with me and is considering divorcing her.

I never wanted it to get this far. I’ve pleaded with him on her behalf, but he won’t listen. Now, I’m confused and unsure of what to do or say.

Please, I need advice.

FG/EB


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