Dear GhanaWeb,

I’m a 32-year-old bolt driver. I picked a lady up two weeks ago. She was sitting in the back seat of my car, and I heard her crying.

I asked why she was crying, and she said she was coming from her boyfriend’s place when she found him sleeping with another woman.

I was offering her a word of motivation until she said she wanted me to sleep with her also, so she can record and show it to her boyfriend to hurt him as well.

I asked her why she wouldn’t break up with him instead, but she said they had been dating for a long time and she’d invested a lot in the relationship so she wouldn’t break up with him.

I told her the relationship wasn’t a healthy one because it wasn’t advisable to be sleeping with other people to pay your partner back, but she insisted and even started caressing my head from the back seat and asked me to park the car.

She’s a beautiful woman, and the urge to do it became strong suddenly, so I looked for somewhere quiet to park and joined her in the back seat.

We had sex, and I think I haven’t enjoyed sex like that in a while. She controlled the camera the whole time. All I knew was that she wanted us to do it so she could use it to piss off her boyfriend. I didn’t even bother about the video or how she took it.

I went to drop her off for free. I didn’t take money from her. We exchanged contacts, not with the intention to do it again; I just wanted to be her friend.

The next day, she sent me the video. Her face barely showed in the video. It was all me and her body. I asked her why she didn’t show her face and how her boyfriend would believe it was her, and she said it didn’t matter.

The following day, she sent me a text, asking me to do her a favour with 5000 cedis. I laughed and told her I didn’t even have up to a quarter of it, so she should look elsewhere. She then threatened to post the video she took of us on social media.

She said she would add that I’m a bolt driver and that I took advantage of her when she ordered my ride, and that she had the trip receipt, so I wouldn’t be able to defend myself. I got confused. How would she want to turn this on me?

I honestly don’t have that kind of money to give her. She would ruin my life if she posted the video. What should I do now?

FG/EB


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