Dear GhanaWeb,

My father, a 62-year-old retired government worker, is in a relationship with a 26-year-old woman that I also like.

He divorced over 20 years ago and has not remarried since. My father’s girl and I have been talking, but she keeps saying that even if she agrees to date me, we can't marry because my father wouldn’t approve of the relationship.

This lady is very attractive and calm. From what I've observed, she seems to be with my dad mainly for his money. My dad is determined to keep her from entertaining any other man, so he goes out of his way to ensure she’s comfortable.

He provides everything she asks for, and because of their age difference, he doesn’t want to give her any reason to leave him.

The other day, I had a conversation with her and, deliberately, asked how my dad performs in bed.

She responded that my dad is old, so what did I expect? She said he can't satisfy her and that she has much more energy than him.

Everything about her turns me on, and I really want to be with her. However, I don’t want her to think that my intentions are solely about sex.

I truly believe she’s the one for me, but I’ve been feeling unhappy with my dad because of her. I feel like he’s standing in the way of my happiness at this point.

I want to start a relationship with her and see where it goes. I'm 31 years old, and I’d love to make her my wife, even if it’s against my father’s wishes. I believe I have everything it takes to make her happy, just as my father does. I can provide for her and give her anything she needs. I truly love her.

She seems interested too, but she keeps saying she doesn’t want to hurt my father or make him feel betrayed. She mentioned that she might consider me if she sees my efforts or if I push further. I had a conversation with her about the future, and she mentioned wanting to further her education abroad. I promised to pay her tuition and take care of her, encouraging her to break up with my dad.

I’m planning to marry her before she starts her studies. I can’t stop thinking about her. I’m in love and feeling restless. What can I do to make this work? I really need some advice!


FG/EB

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