Dear GhanaWeb,

I met a man in town two weeks ago. He was driving and he came to stop by me, his first words were, “Hello dear, I don’t want to deceive you, you’re beautiful and I want to sleep with you”.

It was so funny and annoying but I thought for a second that he was being honest because it’s better than to deceive me, sleep with me and walk away.

I couldn’t just say yes to his offer though so I rejected it and tried walking away but he asked for my contact to call me later, saying I may change my mind.

He called and when he said it again, I agreed and asked what was in for me, he said anything I wanted. He was driving a nice car so I said I would think about what I wanted and get back to him.

The next day he called and suggested I came to his place because he couldn’t stop thinking about me. So I went to his house and we had sex. He asked if I had thought of what I wanted and I said not yet and that was because I didn’t want him to think I was greedy.

He gave me GH₵100 and said I should go and I should call him when I had given it a thought of what I wanted.

Two days later, he called me again that he wanted to see me and I went. This time, they were two guys, he said the other was his friend and they both wanted to take turns on me.

He asked if I wanted it, he said if I didn’t, they won’t force me. I said I didn’t but when he was done with me, he said it again that I was so sweet and he wished I would allow his friend to also taste me and I said okay, he should let his friend come. So that day, I had sex with the two of them.

He asked what I wanted again and I said a phone, I am using an iPhone XR and I thought he would upgrade to something higher. He asked if I wanted any particular phone and I showed him mine and said anything better than it.

I was doing all that because I didn’t want him to think I was greedy. can you believe this guy bought me an Android phone? He said my XR was old with a broken screen so he decided to get me an android to supplement it.

When I said I wanted an iPhone, he asked me to go and come back later. Since then when I call, he always says he’s busy and will call me back. He never calls and has not said anything till now.

Now I don’t have the android, he’s slept with me twice and all I got was that GH₵100 he gave me for transportation. it’s past a week and I’m worried. He doesn’t even talk to me so I have no hope.

What do I do? Can I take him to court or to the police station?

FG/EB



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