Dear GhanaWeb,

I’m a 49-year-old man and I’ve been dating a 26-year-old woman for over two years now.

She knew I was married from the onset but she still fell in love with me. The girl was easygoing. I could convince her easily; I had her under my control.

She wasn’t even demanding. All she wanted was my attention and my love. So, I was there for her freely.

I paid for her to start school and rented a place for her last year; a comfortable home and I furnished it with everything to make her comfortable. I gave her money weekly for her upkeep too.

I wanted her to be happy. We spent time there together a lot. We had sex almost all the time, cooked together, played and watched movies.

She brings out the youth in me, actually. Everything with this woman felt so real. She made me feel young and wanted.

I was doing everything she wanted and more because I wanted to keep her for myself alone forever.

I love her and I wanted to see her grow. I used to take her shopping every month because I wanted her to look perfect for me. I don’t even mind having kids with her because she’s worth it.

Then suddenly, this woman started having issues with me. It is not even like she wants me to marry her; she now has a problem with the fact that I’m married. She is asking me to leave her alone to meet a man who would marry her too.

About five weeks ago, this woman was telling me she’s mine forever and wanted us to have kids together.

I have the feeling she has met someone. She’s been arguing with me for two weeks now because she now thinks what we’ve been doing is wrong.

She kept saying she won’t be happy if someone did this with her future husband so we should stop.

It’s not like she lacked anything, and I’m ready to have kids with her. My wife can’t do anything if she finds out, because I take care of her too. All my women are comfortable, but this woman alone is the one who makes me very happy.

I’ve really been wondering what’s going on. I feel like having her followed to know what’s really happening because something is obviously going on.

Will asking my boys to follow her everywhere she goes be the best thing to do?
She’s my investment and I don’t know how to go about it. I need your help please.

FG/AE


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