Dear GhanaWeb: My fiancée caught me having threesome before our wedding

Dear GhanaWeb, I've been with my girlfriend for seven years, and I honestly thought we were going to spend the rest of our lives together. We have always been inseparable. We understand each other, support each other and, for the most part, our relationship has been beautiful. Last year, I proposed to her, and we were planning to get married this year. We had even started building a life together. We bought a house worth GH¢3.3 million. She contributed GH¢1.3 million while I paid GH¢2 million. Everything seemed to be falling into place, and we were looking forward to starting a family. Then I destroyed everything. My family was having one of our usual parties, and we normally organize these gatherings because we enjoy spending time together. She initially didn't want to attend, so I saw her absence as an opportunity to cheat. I was tipsy, and I ended up sleeping with two women I barely knew. Part of me wanted to experience something different before getting married. I had also been unfaithful to my girlfriend on other occasions, although she didn't know about it. Later, she changed her mind and came to the party. She asked my brother where I was, and he told her I was in one of the rooms. When she opened the door, she caught me with the two women. I don't think I will ever forget the look on her face. She was completely broken. What made things even worse was that she eventually discovered that this wasn't the first time I had cheated on her. After seven years together, after everything we'd built, after proposing marriage and talking about having children, I had betrayed the person who trusted me the most. We were still living in the house we bought together, but she packed her belongings and left for her parents' house. I've been left to face the consequences of my decisions. I know I caused her deep pain, and I don't want to make excuses for what I did. I regret my choices and genuinely want to take responsibility and rebuild what we had. The house is another complication. The documents are in her name, and she hasn't even brought up the property or what will happen to it. Right now, I'm more worried about losing her than losing the house. Seven years is a long time to throw away, but I also understand that I may have pushed her beyond the point where she can forgive me. What do I do now? FG/EB Your Dream Property Is Just a Few Clicks Away – GhanaWeb Real Estate Source: www.ghanaweb.com
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