Dear GhanaWeb,

I’ve been married for almost 20 years. I have wonderful kids, and I take great pride in my spirituality and the teachings of my religion.

But I have been struggling, and the struggle has worn me out. I am not happy in my marriage, and I have not been for a long time.

We have gone to religious counseling, and all I hear is how wrong I am for feeling the way I do.

I have tried for years to accept that I should not feel this way, but I really do, and it is killing me inside.

I have begun to act out in ways I would rather not talk about—it is so embarrassing. I do not know what to do.

What do I do?

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