Asamoah Djan is being foolish to let his brother meddle with his marriage and family. If his brother really cared about him, he would respect his marriage and children and their privacy. He needs to understand that no matter how much you love your siblings, you make sure they respect your wife and children and if they have to be sacrificed to save your marriage and protect your family, then so be it. That brother of his should go and make his own money and buy his own things.